So I'm wondering if I'm being paranoid or if I should ask more questions?
Recently my girlfriend had to let her gay friend of a few years go as when I got together with her, he got really possessive and jealous of her. It used to be a really unhealthy dynamic at the beginning of the relationship as whenever he felt bad, she would literally drop everything and run to him, stay over night at his at least once or more a week when he had even a small simple argument with a random person. She would shower at his every time she went and she said he didn't cuddle but still put his arm over her. It was a bit more than a friend dynamic/she kept calling him like family.
When she stopped talking to him recently as he got jealous and started treating me badly, trying to interfer in the relationship and cause issues. We ended up talking about it and she said she had been there when she was living with him a year back and the guy had gone through a rough time with his ex boyfriend and she had been like a mother figure to him. However with their closeness the ex boyfriend kept thinking they were cheating.
Not sure why she told me this, but she said she wanted to tell me so I don't get the wrong idea and said she never did, but she repeated it like 6-7 times now and with how they were acting when I got together... and him being jealous, even if she didn't I think there were some kind of feeling there from his side whether he admits it or not. However the repeating 6-7 times even after I said don't worry I believe you has made me question...
Am I just being paranoid now? Or should I ask further questions?
As bad as the ex boyfriend of the gay friend sounded, in his position and how needy/attached he was to my girlfriend, I can see why he thought it...
Recently my girlfriend had to let her gay friend of a few years go as when I got together with her, he got really possessive and jealous of her. It used to be a really unhealthy dynamic at the beginning of the relationship as whenever he felt bad, she would literally drop everything and run to him, stay over night at his at least once or more a week when he had even a small simple argument with a random person. She would shower at his every time she went and she said he didn't cuddle but still put his arm over her. It was a bit more than a friend dynamic/she kept calling him like family.
When she stopped talking to him recently as he got jealous and started treating me badly, trying to interfer in the relationship and cause issues. We ended up talking about it and she said she had been there when she was living with him a year back and the guy had gone through a rough time with his ex boyfriend and she had been like a mother figure to him. However with their closeness the ex boyfriend kept thinking they were cheating.
Not sure why she told me this, but she said she wanted to tell me so I don't get the wrong idea and said she never did, but she repeated it like 6-7 times now and with how they were acting when I got together... and him being jealous, even if she didn't I think there were some kind of feeling there from his side whether he admits it or not. However the repeating 6-7 times even after I said don't worry I believe you has made me question...
Am I just being paranoid now? Or should I ask further questions?
As bad as the ex boyfriend of the gay friend sounded, in his position and how needy/attached he was to my girlfriend, I can see why he thought it...
