Should I trust my husband going to vegas with co-workers?

[Anonymous]

They are all staying at nice hotels and getting bottle service at these clubs and going to pool parties.. Not just because he's my husband but he's a really good looking guy with nice body.. Should I be worried? One of his buddies is lying to his wife about going on this trip too.. Total of 10 guys 3 married rest single...

[Stacyzee]

Knowing what las vegas is about it would be hard to trust anyone.

But, he is your husband you married him for a reason. You should have

that trust in him. Although this may make you feel a bit uncomfortable (has any one would)

tell him to have a great time.

Look at it this way (one of his buddies is lying to his wife which shows he intends to cheat, while he is being truthful with you) <that means something and is a good sign.

How long is he staying btw?

[7gnat]

How is it that the guy who lied to his wife will cheat? Is it possible that he just wants to go and have a good time and he knows his wife would not let him? Maybe he is a scumbag but maybe his wife is more paranoid then the QA

[Stacyzee]

"His wife won't let him". What is this prison? If I want to do something, I'll do it because I am a grown adult. I need no ones consent. Its not healthy to be in a relationship based on someone trying to control you and telling them lies. If a man is lying that shows that he has something to hide. Most likely, he will cheat on his wife I'd be shocked if he didn't in this case. A little lie = leads to a bigger lie in my book.

[Angelicaa]

Honestly, I wouldn't let go my husband,

my boyfriend even wouldn't ask me for something like this because he would know already that I wouldn't agree.

I would agree for trip to other place , but Vegas is full of temptations, I would wonder then after this trip what really happened there, what was he doing..

If he wants go to vegas that much we can go together nd have fun too .

[Bronzybrownchick]

If your husband has been honest with you about where he is going then there should be no reason why you should be worried especially if he is a good guy that has no reason to make you feel that he would cheat. If he is the opposite of what I have just mentioned then maybe marriage was a mistake. You should be able to trust him.

[crazybastard]

well he is your husband so he kinda already agreed to not cheat on you by signing the contract. of course people cheat all the time but have a small talk and tell him that you are his wife and that all girls in vegas have herpes hahha

[crazybastard]

thank you :)

[NerdInDenial]

Will there be shenanigans? You bet there will be, but since you're in a marriage you should give him the benefit of the doubt.

[Asker]

I just can't see him just standing there while everyones dancing around him.. and his friends getting dirty dances from girls.. I mean he's not the dancing type but still.. If the right looking girl comes along can't see him turning away...

[jamaall89]

It doesn't sound like you trust him. That isn't healthy. Has he done anything in the past to upset you? You can try and make him feel guilty before he leaves by being intimate with him the night before and telling him how much you love him.

[turtletime]

let him go! How would you like it if you wanted to go away on a girl weekend and he wouldn't let you? He even TOLD you that one of his coworkers lied to his wife. He's your husband. He married you, you should trust him

[ksysoup]

i agree 100%

[7gnat]

If you had to ask this question you should of never got married.

[ksysoup]

yes. you should trust him. he will be OK ...if he wanted to cheat - he would have done so already ..you got nothing to fear.