Why do girls change their mind so often about who they are interested in, attracted to? why do girls do that?

[Anonymous]

why couldn't they say just ignore me, reject me instantly in the first place? To me that is getting teased, lead on. Getting rejected is one-thing, getting teased and lead on is another, I hate how girls make guys feel like they have a chance with them, then only to deny their further advances, girls do that also with phone numbers, girls sometimes have let me have their real phone number, we get along and talk, text for a few days, but it never leads up to a first date, or a second date.

Is it just me or is it much easier for guys to make girls lose attraction for them than vice-versa, the other way around? girls change their mind about liking, being interested in someone more so than guys do?

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really pisses me off!

[biancaitian]

You are not ugly, dirty, rude..., are you? So, all girls wanted to get to know you well. However, they started to realize that you're not the "right" guy for them, so they decide not to go out with you (that would mislead you). They had never misled you. They did consider you.

But that's no big deal. It takes me 50 interviews to find a tenant. How many people do we need to meet in order to find someone we want to go out with?

Please keep in mind that it is in male's nature that they can jump in bed with any pretty woman. That's why men are often willing to just go out with any women.

Women, on the opposit, do not want to get close to anyone they don't really feel comfortable with. For women, they may need to know 50 guys and find someone they are willing to go out for a dinner.

There is certainly something you can do about yourself. Just imagine you have a daughter, and you're choosing a boyfriend/husband for her. What kind of qualities do you want in that guy?

[Asker]

i don't like being just friends with girls

[madmisskelly]

You are assuming this girl was into you. Do you know that for sure? Did she tell you she liked you and then later changed her mind? Probably not.

More than likely, she was mildly interested or just wanted a friendship and you read her signals as something they weren't.

If a guy asks for my number and I am single, I have no reason to not give it to him. Plus, its not nice to assume that he just wants one thing, so often times I will give him my number.

Not every girl that talks to you is going to want to date you.

If you approach it like that, then it can make you come across as desperate even though you may not be.

It short, just don't give a f***. Talk to her, let her take the lead. Let her start some conversations. Be more laid back and it will happen.

[Asker]

most girls do not tell a guy first that they like him, as in they do not tell him literally, but I wish girls would not let me have their phone number if they have no intention of wanting to date me, yes I know that not every girl I approach or talk to is going to like me obviously

[madmisskelly]

Most guys don't immediately tell a girl they like her either, its how it works.

[Anonymous]

Hey! I've been with my boyfriend since I was 14 and never did my opinion of him ever change. I didn't play any games with him. But I see what you're saying.

Okay, here it goes. Girls flirt to determine if there is an interest or the right amount of chemistry there to be relationship material. Apparently the girls you talked to have determined that you just weren't the right fit for them.

[Anonymous]

tell me about it, makes me angry too