I forgot my sister's birthday. Am I a bad person?

[Anonymous]

i feel bad. she doesn't care that I forgot but it doesn't make me feel better about it. how do I stop beating myself up over forgetting? I've never forgotten b4. its so horrible. am I a bad person?

[523206720]

Kind of - I would say so but you can tell her that you had a nervous break down or something and she will probably forgive you - or buy her something 3x more expensive than what you would have gotten her if you had actually remembered her birthday and then get a surprise party with 5 of her friends.

[unighted]

No, things like this just happen. If you feel that bad make her a present of something that you show that you really thought about it a lot.

[Anonymous]

Your not a bad person things just happen, you should consider throwing a party or buying her something she's wanted to make it up to her.

[BCRanger10]

No, you're not a bad person. Your feeling bad about it shows you care. Offer to take her out for lunch sometime. She'll appreciate the effort.

[lauramor]

you aren't a bad persone, why don't you spend another day with her and do stuff that she likes?

[Anonymous]

nah you're not! I tend to forget people's b'ds all the time! just make it up for your sister, treat her some nice meal or any gift that she likes.