So it was my birthday yesterday. I removed it from all my social networks, just to see who truly remembers it. Turned out that except my family, only 4 people remembered it. All of them were friends of me, pretty close to me, one whom I once told that I liked her but you know we couldn't even start it. But she too remembered even though we hadn't talked in months.
All 4 friends were female friends. That was expected of course. But what came out of shock was that my girlfriend too forgot it. I talked normally all day nd at 23.30 I told her on WhatsApp she forgot it. I didn't expect that from her so I waited all day that maybe she reminds just now at last I told him (See screenshot no. 1)
I wasn't mad at her or anything just was disappointed because I was the first person to wish her on hers even through bs of all the University nd my medical studies. But she didn't. She had been working during summer vacations for some hours daily. Understandable. But when I saw her statuses late night after I slept, I felt like, lol it's not that she's not free, she has a a lot of time for God knows who people, just to talk them. But couldn't remember by birthday (see screenshot no. 2,3) (screenshot no. 2 is taken from a video).
Share thoughts? What would you do or what should I do?
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My birthday is on the 13th and I'm as paranoid about this as ever. What I think you should do though is be as honest with her as you were on this Question post. You should tell her all about these thoughts of yours and also ask her about the way she would feel if you would've done the same thing to her. But like literally the same situation. Posting stuff on social media and talkingto people but also using the excuse of working all the time.. you shouldn't just No worries.. you should be open how you feel, always. Otherwise you'll keep eating yourself from the inside out. You'd rather learn how you're supposed to feel about this from her and not from anyone else.. Good luck friend.
She's not the type of person you can tell that you're mad or anything. She'd immediately get depressed nd would go out of contact for a day or so. So I always have to keep this in mind too. Because once she's sad or depressed or something I've to take her out of it too. That requires me being sweet which on occasions I don't want to be.
I wasn't bothered about forgetting birthday until I came to knew about she still talking to strangers.
If I broke up it won't be because of birthday but because of her talking to strangers.
Thanks for your opinion dear :)