Last week, my girlfriend and I were discussing moving in together, what we wanted to name our kids and dogs, by the weekend she was telling me she needs space, she doesn't know why I want to be with her, doesn't get what I get from our relationship. It's hard for me to take it personally or it is her depression lingering around. In her defense she was given some pretty grim news about a close family member, leading her to question life, also she is extremely upset over her career choice and the fact that she is nearing 30 having to go back to school with 18-20 year olds. I tell her not to worry about that and to focus on the good in her life. Since our space I emailed her and we had a few light convo's all basically her saying that, ":( You're too good to me".
Now, I love her. I love her more than anything. I have told her numerous times my feet are firmly planted next to hers. However, I am so lost at what to do. It hurts me to sit her knowing she's going through an episode. It hurts me knowing that she has to live with this. I've thought numerous times that she is the one for me. I believe in signs and there have been an abundant of them affirming that to me. Please help me anyone.
Thank you,
Broken-hearted man
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