I twerk like no other! But I only do it in the privacy of my home or for my man?

[SunshineLelek]

... is that just silly? or when I'm feeling silly or drunk, I'll give a little second twerk in the middle of a bunch of dance moves just for the hell of it.

Personally, it doesn't feel right to twerk in public. While it can make a female feel feminine *shows you have curves or can work with your body if you don't*, sexy, and skillful, realistically it draws negative attention and encourages guys to view you as a sex object. Lets just be real: Twerking originated in the strip club and now girls everywhere are doing it like it's some sort of badge of honor. When in actual reality, it can draw the wrong type of guy to you: a pig who is primarily interested in what you can do for him sexually. To each is her own, but that's just my view and I do not twerk in the club because to be frank, I already get enough negative attention for my bubble. Attention that tends to make me feel uncomfortable or become aggravating. I emphasize a lot on negative attention because I used to work in a gym where there was an overwhelming amount of pervy, older men who would not stop giving me overdoses of unwanted attention. For me, that was a defining experience and a valuable learning lesson that many of my female counterparts seem to not have absorbed. Male attention doesn't instantly have value just because a guy is giving you the time of day. There's a significant difference between negative and positive male attention and personally, I don't encourage any negative male attention that revolves around the size of my parts and some sexualized "worth" of my parts.

Anyhow, what are your views on this? Is this post legit?

[Anonymous]

I agree with a lot of what you said. I find it the epitome of trashy if you do it in public. Doing it privately for your boyfriend (and not on YouTube videos) is fine as is any other sexual act.

I wouldn't want it then either, but that's a "whatever floats your boat" kind of thing.

[SunshineLelek]

this is probably going to get deleted, but...whatever, we're all strangers...apparently if you do it at home with some mint tingly massage oil on your man's peen, it's heavenly. lol! which I guess that makes sense since guys say they like anal sex because the booty cheeks feel nice, so wouldn't the physical act of twerking just elevate that idea?

[Opinion Owner]

Guys say they like anal sex because booty cheeks feel nice? lol wtf?

I suppose it would elevate the idea if the guy is into twerking in the first place.

[SunshineLelek]

bwahaha, yeahhh! or at least that's what I've heard. They basically say the cheeks are like silky smooth little vibrating pillows. Or at least that's my interpretation.

[Opinion Owner]

It doesn't make sense because if it's actually in the ass, they aren't going to feel your cheeks on most of their dick. If they just like the look and feel of it on their hands, they can do so by just bending you over and putting it in the normal place.

However, if they mean that they slide it in between your cheeks and hump a little without out any penetration, I could understand that. And not to sound pervy, but the thought of just that is kind of turning me on right now. lol

[SunshineLelek]

Well, I've never had a peen to stick in someone's tush...so...ehmmm I can't really speak from experience. But I imagine you would feel the bubble if it is round and chunky enough : )

...lol! @ the rest of your update.

Are we really intellectualizing anal sex right now?

[palek]

I'm old and pervy

You're young and curvy

But I'll not stomp and shout

I'll simply lurk and watch you twerk

Cuzz I'm a shameless lout!

[SunshineLelek]

LOL! coming from any older man, this would be just wrong!

[palek]

Everything I say is a little bent, so it's nothing to cause alarm!

[GreatnessPersonified]

I think twerking is trashy when Miley Cyrus does it. Other than that, I can care less. I'll watch. I'm not going to deny I like the way it looks. I won't condemn the twerker for such actions that give me a little gee.

[SunshineLelek]

Oh, Lawd. Good good. Can that girl please sit down. lol

My eyes have never rolled so much in 5 minutes other than when I watched her talentless VMA performance. I don't really care so much that she twerked but that her entire basis for capturing the public eye was stripping down to a silicone panty and bra set while she Grade D twerked...just sad. lol @ your "little glee"

[SaltandVinegar]

Not gonna lie sometimes I go on these twerking binges on YouTube. Its really hot to watch them shake their booty!

[SunshineLelek]

lol, and well even for me, as a female who's straighter than an arrow, I've seen videos on vine and I am sincerely impressed! The confidence and skill are not easy to accomplish and to get those muscles to cooperate and move how you want them to is pretty cool. It's similar to belly dancing in reference to the muscle conditioning, except belly dancing is on a waaaay higher level

[SaltandVinegar]

she has to have the ass for it, in a lot of the videos the girls does not have enough booty meat to make it jiggle and bounce.

[SunshineLelek]

lol, you're an expert I see ; P

jk, nah, I've seen assless girls twerk well. I think that's why some little-assed girls do it because it makes them feel confident and empowered about their lack of jiggle.

[SaltandVinegar]

yes I am an expert! ;) just as long as more girls continue to make booty shaking videos I will be happy.

[Anonymous]

I just don't get the fancy names. Just call it ass shaking.

[SunshineLelek]

LOL! true story!

[ketfoen]

I thought Jimmy Kimmel killed twerking once and for all with his deceptive viral twerking YouTube vid. I guess not. Well twerk away, we will stay proud of you.

[Anonymous]

For me I think it's trashy but if it's just in privacy with a boyfriend then I see nothing wrong with it. I just think it looks really bad to do in public

[SunshineLelek]

I have conflicted feelings on the physical act of twerking. The physical act in it's self is very sexy and almost erotic depending on the delivery. I think it's all about presentation, where you're doing it and how you carry yourself when you do it. Is it showy and do your mannerisms mirror those of a begger on the street trying too hard so they can get just a little bit of praise or cash? Do you do it with "porno faces" like you're just hungry for admiration?

[SunshineLelek]

Are you doing it because you sincerely couldn't turn heads and grasp a guy's interest without twerking? Those things make the action trashy, in my eyes. Not trying to sound judgemental: just being realistic about the way of women. I don't know I'm a heavy beilever in the delivery of actions. The trashiest, tackiest action's meaning can be reversed depending on the delivery.

[SunshineLelek]

*the delievery and the meaning behind it.

For example, killing a man via cutting off his penis then bitch slapping him with it is trashy and wrong. Correct? Killing a man via cutting off his penis then bitch slapping him with it because he raped your baby girl...well some may applaud that.

[Anonymous]

So, what you're saying is that females who behave like pigs in public will attract males who behave like pigs?

You got that right and didn't even realize it.

[SunshineLelek]

...ehm, no. Those are definitely your words not mine. Twerking isn't behaving like a pig. Don't be so judgemental. It only makes you look like a self-righteous a**hole.

[SunshineLelek]

I'm not the one displaying judgemental, self-righteous behavior placing labels on people based on one action. Don't try to put me on that same low level you just presented yourself to be at.

[Opinion Owner]

Placing labels on people based on one action is EXACTLY what you did when you called men pigs who respond to your "come f*** me" moves by trying to do just that.

[SunshineLelek]

Oh, stop. I'm not interested in sitting here and arguing with someone who is bold enough to call names and try to correct behavior but not bold enough to show their face. When you get on GAG and start off being nasty, argumentative, and making rude comments anonymously, you just look like a troll abusing the anonymous feature. So you shouldn't even be taken seriously.

[Opinion Owner]

link

[SunshineLelek]

Sweetie, don't overestimate your significance.

[Opinion Owner]

I get the impression you're smart enough to see my point. Perhaps I'm giving you a little too much credit though.

[SunshineLelek]

Nah, it's yourself you appear to give entirely way too much credit to, hun.

[SunshineLelek]

Even if you do have a point, you have made me careless enough about your presence here that I'm not interested in delving into it. Try having a different approach next time and maybe the QA won't be dismissive of anything you have to say.

[Opinion Owner]

Now THAT is funny! :)

[SunshineLelek]

lol, get a life. Don't come to a post, contributing nothing but negativity, being argumentative, and wasting people's time yet being too cowardly to even show your face. You look like a joke.

[Opinion Owner]

Ouch. Don't forget to read the link I provided. You need to whether you realize it or not. Bye.

[SunshineLelek]

I didn't even click on the link because you made it clear that you weren't going to contribute anything worthwhile from comment #1.

Remember! You're not entitled to a QA's interest and serious consideration of your post. A QA's not obligated to give you the time of day if you taint the atmosphere with bickering and lack of social grace. Tootles, hun! : )

[Opinion Owner]

I don't give a rat's ass about your attention to me. It's your attention to yourself that is lacking.

[SunshineLelek]

Okay sweetie, well like I said, you are clearly overestimating the significance of your opinion on me. Even if I lacked attention to myself, you wouldn't know because your display poor, ineffective communication skills and desire to bicker and be rude disinterested me in any valid point you could possibly have.

[SunshineLelek]

and although you blocked me, I can still talk to you because you were too huge of a p**** to show yourself lol!

[Painful123]

IF you're not doin it for me...idc

[Anonymous]

Never thought it was feminine at all. I personally never liked it and always thought it to be somewhat trashy. sorry

[SunshineLelek]

lol you don't have to be sorry, but I mean...it's certainly not masculine lol

While you may personally not think it's feminine, many girls do. Why do you think there are an outrageous, growing amount of twerk videos on Youtube and Vine? It's usually because it makes the girl feel feminine especially if she has no ass or generally wouldn't get male attention if she wasn't wobbling her tush. For girls who have curves, it seems to be a way of embracing that extra meat on their bones and ...

[SunshineLelek]

for girls who have no ass, it seems to be their way of embracing that they can still do something sexy and what some guys may call enticing despite their longated back.

[Opinion Owner]

Never was a believer of "if a lot of people are doing it than it must be great". Many people did the "Superman" or "The Dougie" and that was pretty damn awful. The song "Who Let The Dogs Out" was huge for some reason and did you see how people dressed in the 80's?

[SunshineLelek]

...uhmmmm ok? lol, didn't say anything about it being okay because "a lot of people are doing it so it must be great"

[Opinion Owner]

"you may personally not think it's feminine, many girls do. Why do you think there are an outrageous, growing amount of twerk videos on Youtube and Vine"...was referring to those statements and sometimes a fad is a fad. I like some and some I don't.

[SunshineLelek]

oh you misinterpreted me. I didn't mean it's okay because many people do it. I was explaining WHY many people do it. While some people are just being followers, a lot of women do it because it's empowering if they were ever called fat, cracked on for having a little ass, or just felt like they couldn't get male attention. And I know that for a fact; I'm so many people's free therapist.

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