is it inappropriate to give my female cousin a foot massage?

[Anonymous]

we were on the couch together one day and she stretched her legs out on the couch and her feet were in my lap, so i rubbed them since she said earlier she had been standing all day. i din't think it was a big deal but some people are saying it's not appropriate.

[ManThatKnewTooMuch]

Well yeah dude. Foot rubbing is seen as a flirty, cute, intimate thing to do for someone. You doing it with a cousin can seem incestuous to a lot of people.

I'm pretty open minded but I would be thinking, "Doesn't this dude know that it's a little weird to be rubbing his cousin's feet? I bet something's going on."

I would think that because I'm assuming that you know about this country's taboos, know what I mean? If you explained it to me as you just did then I'd forget about it. I don't get hung up on stuff like that.

[houserphelps9192]

Is it weird to massage your beautiful women cousins feet with or without socks even if the foot massage professional

[Ca072298]

@houserphelps9192 it Is okay if she leaves the socks on if she wears black socks with white on the bottom than you're in luck because black socks are easy to massage

[Steeks]

Its hardly incestuous their not having babies together its a foot rub just

[sovetskii13]

When she put her feet on your lap did she look like she did it on purpose as if trying to get your attention?
When she mentioned that she has been standing all day did she sound like it was just some boring news or like she wanted something to be done about that?
How did she react when you started massaging?
It depends on your relationship/connection with your cousin.

[lumos]

Why would it be? It's just a foot massage, and you were doing her a favor since her feet were tired. Foot massages aren't really sexual unless you have a foot fetish, which you don't seem to have since you didn't think it was a big deal.

[DodgersGM]

Pulp Fiction has this one covered. The short answer for me is "no". A foot massage is a sensual kind of thing, and I certainly wouldn't do it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KCO-SBPTF5E

[DodgersGM]

P.S. Language is NSFW.

[ManThatKnewTooMuch]

What the hell does NSFW mean?

[ManThatKnewTooMuch]

The one thing I don't know... lol

[DodgersGM]

Not Safe For Work. And I probably wouldn't open it right in front of my grandma, either. ;)

[Joninho]

That depends on your relationship with your cousin, how close you are and if she minded it.

Honestly, I don't see what all the fuss is about, unless there was some tension among you... then.. hehe :)

[Slingblade1126]

Yes. I experienced something similar a few weeks ago at a wedding reception. My cousin asked if I'd rub her feet and I did but it felt wayyy to intimate for me. Mainly 'cause her feet were warm and sweaty from wearing heels. Now, if she was over watching a movie and laying on the couch and put her feet on my lap I might not have felt uncomfortable. But at a wedding reception and after dancing for hours for me it felt intimate. I don't think she found it to intimate.

[houserphelps212]

You was trying to be nice and kind by massaging her soles relative or not relative there nothing inappropriate about that

[Kmaggie]

My mom used to rub my feet after lax games. I think it's okay

[Gatorboy94]

I massage. My cousin Feet And she All way Ask to give her foot massages

[Anonymous]

As long as you don't start massaging her thighs.

[harakiri]

Nope, seems alright.

[NoblesseOblige]

It's fine.