Questions: Girl's Behavior

First off we have NOT had sex. We've sexted a bit.

Anyway he sometimes gets called into emergencies at work & I asked him to text me if he does. It's a simple request so I know he hasn't been in an accident or something.

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He didn't do it the first time, okay. We talked about it & he promised he'd text me.

Second time, just a few days later, he's called in and AGAIN he doesn't text me.

He promised & promised up and down that if it happened again he'd text me. He says he wants a future with me, etc., etc. - we get along quite well otherwise - and said he'd text.

Third time and AGAIN he doesn't text me.

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There's other little things he's done - it's not just this - that imply he doesn't respect me.

Like I'll link him something and instead of looking at it he'll just respond off the article (and been wrong). And other things, etc. it'd take too long to list all the little nuisances that are niggling the back of my mine.

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But this not texting when he promises and promises is like fuck you.

If you really did mean what you said --- and I am someone raised to stand by my word, not spout empty valueless air --- you'd do it.

There's another post here about dating trans women and as I said there

Bluntly for their OWN SAFETY transwomen should tell a man that they are NOT women.

It is going to be VERY obvious when sexual relationships start and there ARE some men who are going to react VERY negatively. As in they'd beat the shit out of the trans if not, depending on their mentality / religion / background, even kill them.

This is something SOOO many trans women do not understand. They think they can PLAY pretend at being women when they are NOT women and do NOT function as women.

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And the reverse is of trans men

I'm not sure if the sex change is as obvious but they can't have children as a trans man so playing a very nasty trick on women that think they're with a "man" & may indeed want kids.