Polls: Girl's Behavior

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. We are very close and have met each others families and gone to a few family gatherings. We also sleep over at each others houses as well. He is always all over me - hugs,cuddles, caresses, kisses, etc. even in public and around his friends! people even ask us if were a married couple!

His family likes me very much - they say I'm a thousand times better than his ex - my personality and looks (his ex was a bitch, plus me I'm their own kind). Everyone in his family has welcomed me with open arms and they all recognize I'm a good girl/ wifey material. I have always been nice to all of them - except I'm sometimes very shy (they all know that)

At Christmas time my boyfriend bought me a real diamond pendant which his younger sister saw...

My boyfriend gave me the OK to come over at x-mas time , but for some reason his sister was in a very bitchy mood all day long and she was very rude to me (her excuse was that I didn't say "hi" to her, but I had a feeling she was moody that day so I kept quiet). His sister was even banging the kitchen cupboards and his mother was telling her not to do that. She was very rude to me that day for no apparent reason... I never gave her a reason to not like me and I was always very nice to her.

p.s - my boyfriend and his brother received more money than her at Xmas...

If you do, tel me why.

If you don't, tell me why not.

What does it do for you?

DO you like it a lot?

Do you like it a little?

What does it not do for you?

Be as detailed as you want.

If I missed a poll option, please add it in your answer if you want.

Is it a good thing to be called that?

Obviously, it's a good thing, but is it really good to be called that when you're only 18-20 years of age?

I don't know, to me it sounds like the girl being called that is too responsible when she's actually supposed to be having fun during her teen years.

I have gotten called wife material before and I'm only 19. Even when I was 18.

I'm not complaining or anything, just stating thoughts.

What makes you label a girl wife material?

So guys, do you like sweeping her off her feet, carrying her if she twists her ankle, or do you prefer a girl who will pick herself up and dust herself off?

the question says it all...

what's the type of guy you mostly feel attracted to?

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3 - African/ African-American link

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5 - European (UK, Ireland, Norway, Switzerland, ...) link

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If a pretty French girl doesn't speak English well AT ALL but KIND OF understand what you're saying, can you fall in love with her?

For example, she speaks French fluently and your French is not bad but you're MUCH more comfortable in English.

So you guys speak in French but still, can you fall for her?

My most hated thing about girls with their period is that they can get so bitchy! Do you use this excuse? Why? I know it is "scientifically proven" that you get more hormonal when you're on your 'reds' but why not try sucking it up?

I get mine bad and I get very moody but that doesn't mean everyone has to pay the price right...?

Does anyone agree, or do you think it is fair?

So guys and girls do you prefer a party girl or the quiet, shy girl? Or would you prefer a balance between the two? a girl that like to drink on the weekends or a girl that spends her weekends with a controller?

Me and my sister were talk and were wondering which one is preferred. She's a party girl, I'm a stay home and game girl.

This doesn't necessarily apply to teen mothers under the age of 18. I mean mothers who are in the early 20s to 40s.

Guys: Would you date a single mother? Or will feel that the stress of her being a mother will take away from the intimate time that you and her would have?

My step-father for example dated my mother for 4 years after asking her to marry him. They have a pretty stable relationship and balance things out like any other married couple. He loved kids so me and him were close when I was younger and they had my brother who is now 13.

I asked a group of guys on my college campus how they'll feel dating a single mother and their responses were horrendous. Probably because I expected something different. Majority of them said that they WOULD NOT date a single mother because they'll assume that she is a "slut" or "can't keep her legs closed". Those statements bothered me in so many ways. To assume that if a young woman gets pregnant she is automatically a "dirty slut" is like stereotyping single moms.

While the other group of guys said that they wouldn't care. They would date a woman based on how beautiful she is, her intelligence and the funniest one was her skills in bed.

That was me asking a young crowd of guys most under 30 years old.



So, what do you think?

I told my sister that I had been on a bunch of dates but I hadn't felt any spark. As in when I left I didn't keep thinking about them, I didn't get butterflies or anything.

She told me that a spark is made up and I shouldn't base dating off of it. But the only guys that I have dated were ones that made me feel that way. Granted I have not dated very many guys.

What do you guys think? Does the spark exist? And if so should you wait for it?