Questions: Girl's Behavior

Like ladies, why aren't the 20s guys good enough for you, or so I still pass for 20s. I recently turned 30. Guys, do you at 30 or 30-40 find that women in 20s try to pick you up, even with just their eyes 👀😋 i sort of feel like objectified hahaha. I'm just doing my thing, being single and merry and *senses someone staring* looks and woman turns or carried on like they weren't just eyeballing. Meanwhile I keep watching the public tv like nothing while I eat and then pack up my shopping and carry on. Lol. Soon I'll just have to dress even more shabby/poorly to turn off the women's glances. Women, aye? 😈😁 Funny fickle creatures.

For example I'll be sitting there, eating food and I'll notice every now and again I'm being glanced by, sure, attractive, 20s aged women. I don't mean glances like "checking surrounds" I mean more like, stare-bears. 👀🐻 I'm not sure whether to feel flattered, feel amused or bemused, or feel like "am I being looked at for interest or looked at for odd/ugly judges" lol from these women. I'm not necessarily complaining, just like, a) I'm 30 and b) "lady, don't you have a boyfriend, who's probably 20s, lol?" Ah well. If only they could read my mind my eyes lol from afar as I'm just sitting eating my meal in a food public or just going about my mall chores

I was an introvert before but I think I have come out of my shell now 😊. Nowadays I started my business and am not shy to talk to people anymore and now I am looking to get in a relationship👫. But not good at keeping conversation going on face to face with girls but am good at chatting via insta🥲.

So at least 4 days back I got a message from a college girl 🫣🫠 complimenting me on my car being nice from my photos and I thought to start my journey here.

But I have no idea on how to take our insta chat to real life and even to start a relationship between us.
Any tips dear gentle men and woman 🥺🙏