Why would 20s women glance at me when I'm just out in public?

[itsclearlynicholas]

For example I'll be sitting there, eating food and I'll notice every now and again I'm being glanced by, sure, attractive, 20s aged women. I don't mean glances like "checking surrounds" I mean more like, stare-bears. 👀🐻 I'm not sure whether to feel flattered, feel amused or bemused, or feel like "am I being looked at for interest or looked at for odd/ugly judges" lol from these women. I'm not necessarily complaining, just like, a) I'm 30 and b) "lady, don't you have a boyfriend, who's probably 20s, lol?" Ah well. If only they could read my mind my eyes lol from afar as I'm just sitting eating my meal in a food public or just going about my mall chores

They're attracted to you

They're repulsed by you

They're just looking like they do at any, man. 😅

Thats a good question, why are they glance/staring, it's a bit odd

Maybe you dress like your dirt poor, ha , 😉🤣

[TwinTonyz]

I think you're over analyzing this, and it's not entirely your fault, but you should address some of your misconceptions, and reframe your thought process.

Women do expect men to read their minds. We have to interpret body language, seek out nonverbal cues, applying context, monitor their character, keep track of their mood, and pair that with translation for their implicit speech and double speak. To some degree, a passing glance, in the right situation, may have deeper meaning.

On the other hand, you also have to grade yourself against every man she has ever seen, online, or in person. Can you compare to any of them? If not, then yeah her passing glance is just somebody whose eyes were in your direction, but in all likelihood you mean absolutely nothing to her.

I think just the fact that you're even pondering the question indicates that you're not that guy. The men she'd be looking at in the way you might believe she is, already understand why she's looking at you.

[Siri137]

The next time you catch one of them staring, just ask her why she was staring.

[itsclearlynicholas]

Why do you think siri? Come on, 🫴🏻 I'm all ears 👂🏻

[Siri137]

Why not just be direct? The solution to your "problem" is simplicity itself. I get stared at a lot too for some reason, and I either just completely ignore the person, or (more often) just stare right back at them until they become embarrassed and look away.

[itsclearlynicholas]

Lol if you stare back they'll then, if it's a woman staring at a man, man will think your hots for for him and come over. Lol. Ah well.

[Siri137]

No, that's never happened to me. I'm far too intimidating. :)