Puppy love, sham or Delusion🥸?

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I was an introvert before but I think I have come out of my shell now 😊. Nowadays I started my business and am not shy to talk to people anymore and now I am looking to get in a relationship👫. But not good at keeping conversation going on face to face with girls but am good at chatting via insta🥲.

So at least 4 days back I got a message from a college girl 🫣🫠 complimenting me on my car being nice from my photos and I thought to start my journey here.

But I have no idea on how to take our insta chat to real life and even to start a relationship between us.
Any tips dear gentle men and woman 🥺🙏

SueShe · Accepted Answer

It seems that you are desperate to hold onto whatever sign you get from a girl in order to be going on a date or asking her out.

It does not mean that because this girl liked your car, she will automatically like you. It takes much more than a simple picture of a car to like a person enough to go out on a date.

What do you know from this social media girl? Does she live close by or would you have to drive hours to see her? If she lives close by, then you can try to invite her for a coffee and see how it goes from there. If she lives far away, then don't even bother because all you indicate by going so far out of your way is that you only want a fling. It is not worth wasting your (and her) time because it will likely lead nowhere.

Your best option, if she lives close by is simply to ask her to meet in a crowded public place during daytime. This is for her own security. Good luck.

Abbycado · Accepted Answer

Well, right now it is probably infatuation. I doubt you can fall in love from an insta conversation alone XD Just ask her out! Like you would with any girl. Hey, do you want to meet up sometime?

theungirl · Answer

I honestly think you're reading into it, but there could be some potential. I would recommend asked what state they live in or if they have any restaurant recommendations or activities that they like to do. Then ask if you could join them, even offer to give them a ride.

Anonymous · Answer

if i had something start like that we would have to talk online for a long time before i would even think about meeting, and then it would have to be in public with probably 2 of my friends coming with me the first time

Anonymous · Answer

I stopped reading at “but am good at chatting via insta.” Newsflash, that is not really chatting. You have a lot to learn.

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