Puppy love, sham or Delusion🥸?

[Anonymous]

I was an introvert before but I think I have come out of my shell now 😊. Nowadays I started my business and am not shy to talk to people anymore and now I am looking to get in a relationship👫. But not good at keeping conversation going on face to face with girls but am good at chatting via insta🥲.

So at least 4 days back I got a message from a college girl 🫣🫠 complimenting me on my car being nice from my photos and I thought to start my journey here.

But I have no idea on how to take our insta chat to real life and even to start a relationship between us.
Any tips dear gentle men and woman 🥺🙏

Puppy love 💏🐶

Sham

Delusion

[SueShe]

It seems that you are desperate to hold onto whatever sign you get from a girl in order to be going on a date or asking her out.

It does not mean that because this girl liked your car, she will automatically like you. It takes much more than a simple picture of a car to like a person enough to go out on a date.

What do you know from this social media girl? Does she live close by or would you have to drive hours to see her? If she lives close by, then you can try to invite her for a coffee and see how it goes from there. If she lives far away, then don't even bother because all you indicate by going so far out of your way is that you only want a fling. It is not worth wasting your (and her) time because it will likely lead nowhere.

Your best option, if she lives close by is simply to ask her to meet in a crowded public place during daytime. This is for her own security. Good luck.

[Asker]

Oh my god I can implement this advice 😍 thanks you are a life saver!

[SueShe]

At least one person's life I could save :-)

[Asker]

😊🙏

[Abbycado]

Well, right now it is probably infatuation. I doubt you can fall in love from an insta conversation alone XD

Just ask her out! Like you would with any girl. Hey, do you want to meet up sometime?

[Asker]

Hi it's just that i have never been in a relationship and i have no idea on how to ask out 🫣🫠

[Asker]

Any tips 💡🥹🫡

[Abbycado]

So, do you know what she likes. Just in general, from your conversations?

[Asker]

She likes Indian food biriyani And ice cream... I found out after chatting with her since last 2 days... Also we are strangers... 😊

[Asker]

This is the conversation I have had so far:- ' Aee bc bhasundi gindaar 🤦🏻‍♀️,
Oh please, you're just jealous of my superior bhasundi skills! 😏,
Dont try so hard satpal
Touché! I'll have to up my game then. Challenge accepted. 😉,
. Bhyi kaise karega maanjaa chaip kyu hora hai,
You've got a point there! But hey, a little excitement never hurt anyone, right? 🥺,
It never did But Never mind you do you,
Got it, let's keep it chill! Let's switch gears and dive into something fun!
What always brings a smile to your face? 🤔🤥,
Yeah sure, Food ig
Chocolates and biryani🤤, a match made in foodie heaven! They say opposites attract, right?
Mine are Shahi paneer and Sundae🫠. Maybe we should start a new trend and dip biryani in chocolate sauce.
What do you think? 😄🫡
Naah I'm good
Who even does that
Fs (girl's last response)
Well how about a relatable meme🙃
When we have too much pressure by fam even in this comparison (my last response)
'

[Abbycado]

So then maybe say I know a great Indian restaurant that you just have to try. Care to join me sometime?

[Asker]

Good idea... But doesn't the conversation so far seem bland and uninteresting?

[Asker]

Also my physique is not good I am fat and have a bit of a man boobs... So I don't know why but won't she feel disgusted 😒😅🥲?

[Abbycado]

No, I see it as pretty normal really. If she were bored, she would quit responding. I would XD

[Asker]

😃 thanks I will try it now... ☺

[Asker]

Hi I tried it but was left on seen 🥹

[Abbycado]

Give it a chance. Even if she doesn't respond, it was worth a shot.

[Asker]

Ok I will... I hope you can help me in my journey Ms. Cupid 💘🤥🥺🙏

[Abbycado]

I hope so too! If there is something I can help with, I will.

[Asker]

Great to hear 😊👍thanks!

[theungirl]

I honestly think you're reading into it, but there could be some potential. I would recommend asked what state they live in or if they have any restaurant recommendations or activities that they like to do. Then ask if you could join them, even offer to give them a ride.

[Asker]

Hi I got to know they live in the same area as me

[Anonymous]

if i had something start like that we would have to talk online for a long time before i would even think about meeting, and then it would have to be in public with probably 2 of my friends coming with me the first time

[Asker]

Like how long do you think?

[Anonymous]

I stopped reading at “but am good at chatting via insta.”

Newsflash, that is not really chatting. You have a lot to learn.

[Asker]

As you saw I am really inexperienced... due to which i dot know if i can ever find Or cultivate love😭.
Can you pls teach me then Ms. Cupid💘 🥺🙏