If a girl who you dealt with in the past moved on and had a baby, why would she follow me back on social media?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Because she needs a new dad for her baby. Hope you’re ready

[Asker]

Ironically she is always on social media talking bad about her kids dad. Right now she doesn't give me the time of day so she doesn't want me

[Opinion Owner]

And id hope you didn’t want her either. Gross

[Asker]

Crazy enough I would still date her if given the opportunity.
Since you are a woman yourself, why do girls follow back guys?

[Opinion Owner]

Pretty sure she did it just because she was in a relationship, then added you back now that she’s single. It’s not really a huge meaning, people unfollow people for the sake of their relationships all of the time, well, the faithful ones at least

[Asker]

Or she just followed me back because I followed her first

[Opinion Owner]

You keep asking then answering your own question or adding extra detail that you didn’t mention before, not sure what you’re wanting to hear buddy

[Anonymous]

Man... she could either be looking for a way out or her feelings for you never left her

[Asker]

I think she broke up with her kids father. For the most part she doesn't give me the time of day so I don't think she wants anything to do with me

[Opinion Owner]

Did you try to contact her? She could be going through things right now especially since you said she broke up with him

[Asker]

We exchanged a couple of DMs but there wasn't much said. I texted her and she didn't respond. She could be going through a lot right now and the things she posts validate that. It might not be the best time right now or she just isn't interested.

[Opinion Owner]

I think you're absolutely right. Like I agree I think you should just respect her time as of right now. Let her get her shit together

[Asker]

Absolutely. I felt so weird messaging her because some of the things i said were cringe. I guess because she didn't unfollow me I probably didn't rub her the wrong way.

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe...

[Asker]

Months back I messaged her and asked her if her phone number was still the same since we last spoke and she said yes. I thought that meant I could call or text her

[Opinion Owner]

I would think so too but she could not be in the best place to start something new

[Asker]

I understand. The worst thing I could do is try and force things. That will most likely alienate her even further. We had issues in the past so I take it as she is giving me a second chance and I can't mess it up. I have to be patient.

[Opinion Owner]

I think that is ideal and knoble of you. I hope it works out

[goebenbreslau]

women never forget men that were once in their lives.

[Asker]

Even if you weren't in a relationship but talked a lot?

[Anonymous]

How do u know she has a baby?

[Asker]

Social media