Questions: Girl's Behavior

Your child will ask you this

If they had a serious relationship do they check up on their ex’s. Not contact but see what they are up to

The reason I ask this somewhat oddly specific question is because me and my girlfriend went on a beach trip with her best female friend tagging along and when hugging goodbye I 100% expected for them to put their clothes on first and then hug but to my shock they hugged each other while still in their bikinis.

And if it matters at all it wasn't like a side hug or whatever it was a full body tight hug similar to the example. And both were in revealing bikinis too so there was a whole lot of skin contact going on including bare cleavage pressed against bare cleavage.

And it just occured to me that that's the equivalent of me and a male friend gave each other a long tight full body hug while both in speedos and there's just no fucking way that's happening regardless of how close I am to you.

Are friendship standards for men and women really all that different? That women don't mind hugging other women while they're both practically naked?

I'm afraid to ask my girlfriend directly because I don't wanna feel like I'm judging her friendship with her best friend and also because I don't wanna look like a fool if this is something women normally do and I just wasn't aware of it.

Amish Girls

They tend to be obedient, kind, and somewhat shy. They wear no makeup, instead simply washing their face and brushing their teeth. They're religious, remain virgins until marriage, and after getting married they're willing and able to have large families—often seven or eight children. They also tend to have strong practical skills, especially sewing

Sure there must be exceptions but 95+% of the time I think not. You can only marry a 5-7/10 unfortunately.
Women can’t handle being stunning.

I’ve been there done that. Having been in a serious relationship with a 10/10. They are weirdly the most insecure girls, have unrealistic standards, least emotionally stable. Also the most likely to be compulsive liars and manipulators. Women can’t handle being very pretty and so desired. It allows them to fall in bad habits and not be nice people as maybe they don’t have to be. Bad behaviour has been rewarded.

I am an exceptionally rare guy with every gift a man can have, she recognised that and couldn’t cope with it as she made me feel like the hot one in the relationship and thought I was some massive player which was ridiculous. I am objectively much rarer than her, but she has this huge appeal of physical beauty and rare facial features, she is striking.

Now my feelings for my ex have gone I’m kind of like holy shit I fell hard for someone that turned out to be a nasty person. I was always skeptical of her and wondered/sensed a mean side to her and luckily I got to it before I got engaged. You have to break up with a girl to understand her true true colours. Then you find out how mean she really is.

My sisters think she was retarded for letting me go. She could’ve had it all, I would have been good to her. But she was the lesson I needed to learn. You can’t be stunning and a nice girl. Just doesn’t work. Meanwhile I know I’m a 12/10 guy overall and everyone knows me to be humble and a good nice guy and not a prick. I recognise my worth but am kind of like whatever about it, I don’t become mean to women because of it.