Subtle, weirdly adorable things guys do that girls can't get enough of

[kimberleyyy]

Okay, so maybe not all girls, but yeah, I asked quite many of my friends and they agreed to it as well.

1. When you're kind of socially awkward

Please don't worry about being suave when asking us for our phone number; we don't need you to be like Mr.Big or Casanova when hitting on us. A guy snatching a girl's hand, looking her in the eyes and nervously uttering some huge line like "So, I think you're, uh, really cool, and maybe we can, you know, hang out sometime?" is the key to a girl's heart.*

*it may not be the same for every girl, so it doesn't apply to every girl

2. When you accidentally drop a really impressive fact

Intelligence is undoubtedly sexy, but when it leaks out of your pores in a seemingly accidental moment, we are sold. Plus, if you're casual about your fact dropping, it just makes you way sexier.

3. When you geek out over things

Am I the only person who finds it absolutely adorable when a guy is obsess over something? Especially if the thing he is obsessing over is kinda weird. It shows he has a passion and is unapologetically himself, and that is something I can't get enough of.

It's even cuter when you rant to us about it for a little bit and let us ask you questions about it. The way your eyes light up when you talk about what you love is undoubtedly the best thing in the world.

4. When you can't sing or dance, but try to anyway

You know that guy at the party who's hanging out in the corner and moving slightly out of tempo to the song blasting from the speakers? He's teetering on the line between being confident and wanting to run out of the room, but he manages to stay anyway. He's really trying, and it's adorable.

5. Your bromances

Nothing is cuter than a guy who has a best friend and is unashamed to tell the world about it, especially if he's been friends with the guy(s) since childhood.

It's precious when your best friend makes fun of you in a way that I may not understand because it's usually followed by an embarrassing story about you when you were young, which is fantastic and it just makes you even more precious.

Once again, like I have mentioned, this isn't based on all the girls. Its based on what my friend's and me think. Thanks for reading 😊

[Anonymous]

i find the opposite of number 1 to be true. if you're not completely relaxed and sure of yourself when asking a girl out you will most likely get a negative response. i know you say this isn't true for all girls, but if there are girls who like this at all, they're a minority

[kimberleyyy]

Yeah, gotta agree on what you say as well.

[Basketballchick4eva]

Oh my gosh!! yes guys who are socially awkward tend to catch my attention far more then those who act really cocky

[kimberleyyy]

Haha thank youu xx finally there's girls that will understand aye

[Basketballchick4eva]

Ahahaha welcome and hell yeah even better is the fact that your my age!! which goes to show teenagers aren't always into the loud types

[kimberleyyy]

Yeah some people just tend to assume that teenagers are always immature. I get those a lot back in my home country like "you're only a kid you don't know anything"

[Basketballchick4eva]

ugh its actually quite irritating

[Azara]

well here's my opinion :)

i actually find it attractive when guys are genuinely- not i want to fuck you so ill pretend- impressed with stuff i know when im not trying to be impressive and dont feel too proud to tell me.

when they ask me for help

when they are obviously unashamedly shy around me, while talking but dont let that stop them from being around me. l

best friends that they REALLY care about are very attractive, shows they are not afraid of bond gave loyalty and are not afraid of being openly expressive. any sex is fine though i find it especially attractive when he's got a girl best friend. shows women are not just sex and romantic relationships to them. they are people to be respected.

I unfortunately find it really embarrassing when people who can't dance try to.

i find it extremely attractive when guys are open and direct about their feelings

i find it attractive when guys are affectionate just for the sake of it not as a means to sex.

honesty is super attractive of course.

[nickbrick]

I find it interesting that a lot of girls agree with this while all the guys don't. Isn't this sopposed to be from the girls point of view? Therefore isn't this mytake correct? I enjoyed this and while some points are better than others I think this is a great insight into girls minds. Thank you for writing this.

[vivoavila]

Haha ikr, like almost all the guys are disagreeing with this myTake when its in the girl's POV.

[kimberleyyy]

Thank you xx yeah I find it interesting on what they have to say so I tend to go through their comments as well.

[ttfhatter]

Lol, definitely true for me as well. And does it not make sense? Traits that tie into these behaviors are humble, positive, honest, willing to try things, doesn't take self too seriously, passionate, and intelligent. The moments when I find men cutest is when they're being honest, not when they're trying to be smooth or stealing lines from corny movies (if anything these things can irritate me because they're not really being honest).

Just be honest with the girl, allow yourself to be vulnerable with little things like this, and don't take yourself too seriously, and you'll be okay :)

[Ozanne]

I absolutely agree with singing! My husband CANNOT carry a tune, which makes him singing a simple song to me so cute and I love it so much. When I am not feeling well or have trouble sleeping I ask him to sing, and I want to laugh so hard because I'm just so tickled he's doing something I know he can't do but is doing it for me anyway, but I know if I do laugh he'll stop, so I lie there and smile. He sings, like, in one note throughout a song in a quiet voice I don't even recognize because he makes his voice slightly higher than it is to sound soft. I just love it.

[stubbsy]

I find your comments securing and very insightful, because for some one to see the quality in individuals for being them selves is truly a talent in its self, because many judge others for being different, but its that very difference that attracts us to each other in some way or another, and to see that its being noticed in someone as young as you are is quite astonishing really. Fair play young Lady, I think you have a bright future ahead of you, good luck, x

[kimberleyyy]

Thank you xx

[stubbsy]

Your welcome, x

[Hannah591]

That little smirk they do when you compliment them.

The way they look at you when you're watching tv or doing something random.

When they get super excited over something really menial to you.

Guys are cute without knowing and that's the best type of cute! :)

[kimberleyyy]

Yesss gotta totally agree with you on this

[heavensgift2girls]

I don't believe this is true. If the girl already likes a guy than ANYTHING he does can be seen as cuter than it really is. That doesn't mean she actually likes those specific things that he does. She is just seeing him through rose tinted glasses because she already likes him. Kinda like how if a girl snorts when she laughs can be cute to a guy when he already likes her, but if he doesn't like her then he may find the snorting annoying.

[PinkFG]

This guy's right people

[HastilyRock17]

True, the girl I like has a mild gap tooth at the front, usually I wouldn't think twice about this or be kind of off put, but on her I think it's really cute.

[nert73]

I guess that puts some reason behind why I like my boyfriend so much. There are countless other reasons but the ones you named definitely apply to him. Although, he is a good singer. I've never seen him dance so I don't know about dancing but I know he's a good singer.

[Margo7]

YES. This is so accurate! The guy I'm currently crushing on has done numbers 1-3 and 5, and I've noted before even reading this that he's especially adorable when he does those things. The guy I used to be into did number 4, and I remember laughing and thinking that was adorable too.

I didn't know I wasn't the only person who liked it when a guy did these things!!

[kimberleyyy]

Yes ikr! But there's like so many guys that are disagreeing with me..

[vivavila]

@kimberleyyy ignore them it's from a girl's POV anyway, not from a guy's.

[RappingChad]

If the guys who judged this harshly had been listening to women more they would see that majority of women disliked their comments and hence proving how true the take is... Guys listen more and you will see that genuine girls are and appreciate the points in this take... I myself am waiting to meet my bride and I know soon I will...

[OpenClose]

Thanks for the post!

This has been my experience to an extent. I wouldn't want a girl who is turned off by these sorts of things, anyway. The best parts of people are their subtleties and quirks.

For me, it was usually the weird facts or random quotes that seemed to grab girls' attention. Not when you're spouting them off like you are smarter than everyone else, but when you throw them in with good context.

[The_Technomancer]

Although what you described wouldn't meet the standards of all girls (as you said) it is pretty true. A guy who has his life in order, something to be passionate about, friends to mess around with, and *some* amount of confidence works extremely well.

[Floyd790]

Good looks trumps all.

[The_Technomancer]

Sure looks are judged first, in most cases, but they aren't the only thing judged.

[R3d_Anonymous]

lol you just described many of my attributes quite exactly.

I have a tendency to obsess over little things, large and trivial. Somehow, I am often regarded as "intelligent" even after hardly saying anything or trying at all. I can also be a little awkward and yeah, even though I don't know much about dancing, I am not afraid to get on the dance floor and go all out and even make a bit of a fool of myself.

[vivoavila]

YESS I LOVE THIS MYTAKE! Gotta agree on everything especially #5

[kimberleyyy]

Thank you xx

[Accipiter]

I call number 1 into question:
You mean socially awkward like Hugh Grant's character in 4 Weddings and a Funeral?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VVeKCmvepGs

Where he stutters like porky pig and has anxiety problems? Yeah.. this has been proven not to work with women over and over again despite what the movie says. Guys doing this creeps them out.

[dangerDoge]

Well, I'm socially awkward in the sense that I blush way too much and I end up freezing up sometimes. All the really cheesy puns I throw in from time to time makes me think I lean more towards just pure awkwardness, not adorableness.

Introvert for life :D

[Resoglass]

I'm gonna have to agree with what some of the guys on here are saying that this stuff is only adorable when the guy doing it is already somewhat attractive. I dont mean to sound harsh or bitter or anything, it's just the truth
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[kxera]

Not gonna lie, the guy on the left does look a bit creepy. A guy honestly doesn't have to look anything close to the guy on the right, but the guy on the left does look like the typical creep you might see on the news.

[Resoglass]

@kxera Can't really blame you, most people would think that. But my point is that a guy has to be at least decent looking for any of this to apply to him

[kxera]

Decent looking varies from person to person though. There are a lot of guys I'm attracted to that everyonce else thinks is butt ugly. I mean I've even looked at a guy and didn't think he was cute but was still attracted. Attraction is key, not looks. You don't necessarily have to be good looking to be attractive.

[DarkHumorRUs]

According to the internet every fucking soul thinks they're socially awkward, and everyone thinks they're weird.

[RexCatholicissimus]

@DarkHumorRUs

Oh god yes. Fuck me yes. God damn it yes why is this so fucking true and why don't more people say it, yes.

Everyone and their fucking grandma thinks their socially awkward due to basic human error that we ALL possess, but what is that compared to motherfuckers like Neckbeard McGee with his fedora collection? They'd shun that guy like Quasimodo because that's REAL social awkwardness.

[DarkHumorRUs]

Lol thanks. Yeah, I've gotten over being awkward. It's only awkward if you think it is. Dunno why people are so obsessed with awkwardness.

[WhiteSteve]

I actually try to be as much like Mr. Big as possible when hitting on girls, and just with everything in general. If these guys ain't cool, then I guess I must be out of the loop...

https://youtu.be/5QD5n98R_nk

[bubble_tea]

I think she's talking about another Mr. Big LMAO!

[bubble_tea]

Love that song! I like the fact that they're in love with promiscuous girls lol

[WhiteSteve]

@bubble_tea Mr. Big is often imitated but never duplicated, and I won't hear of this impostor!

[bubble_tea]

He's not a musician lol but ok I won't tell xD

[ObscuredBeyond]

When I fact-drop, I come across more like Cinema Sins than Mouth of Babes. Gals can't always seem to tell if I'm busting the point, or busting them. Usually, I'm busting the point. If them, I try to make the difference be obvious. I strive to protect them from things which are misleading, so they don't fall into a ditch believing up is down and left is purple. Alas, I can't save everyone. And not everyone will appreciate it.