Girls, Here's What Immediately Gets a Guy's Attention

[Anonymous]

1. Hair

According to research, it's the first thing that stands out.

2. Clothes

It grabs attention before legs.

3. Smile

Guys look at your mouth in the first 10 sec.

4. Personal hygiene

A bad smell leaves a bad impression.

5. Eyes

70 % of the guys look at the eyes at first and then smile and finally to the breasts.

[redeyemindtricks]

The way a woman walks, talks, and carries herself can make all the difference in the world.

Good posture. No slouching.
Life is a runway... walk like it.
"Life is a runway" is a good way to think about the way you should move through the world in general. Take long strides. Look ahead with purpose. Other people are lucky if you deign to make eye contact with them, but it's *your* world.

Be that woman who holds eye contact until the *other* person breaks it... unless you decide it's yr turn to be "distracted" and give the other person something to worry about. :*

Be comfortable with SILENCE. Especially silence *combined* with eye contact -- that's a deadly weapon, girls. Not only in flirting and conversation, but also in negotiations, business, and life in general.

Be well-spoken. Articulate yr words slowly, crisply, and with just the right amount of edge. Don't just "say" words -- THROW words at people. Speak in a way that gives YOURSELF more energy.
... And FFS don't do that stupid shit where you raise yr voice at the end of everything you say, so that every single sentence sounds like a question. Really. Don't do that. It's not cute, it's not endearing, and it's DEFINITELY not sexy.

Oh yeah, and, get in good shape, and STAY in good shape. Don't dress like shit. Learn to do yr hair and yr makeup, without OVERdoing it. Classy is sexy.

[zorro8888]

When are you going to write a book lol I'd read your infinite wisdom :P

[redeyemindtricks]

@zorro8888 ahah thanks <3

If and when a book is forthcoming, it'll probably be fiction first... but we'll see. Tx for the kind words.

[Chico_brah]

I'd have a staring contest with you before I let me ego slide like that

[redeyemindtricks]

@Chico_brah Staring contests can be sexy as hell.

[DiogoRibeiro]

@redeyemindtricks Most guys would definitely benefit from these advice too. ;)

[redeyemindtricks]

@DiogoRibeiro Very possibly yeah.

[healthycharleene]

Great answer, pure wisdom. :)

[redeyemindtricks]

@healthycharleene Tx <3

[Anonymous]

Also:

6. A girl who doesn't delay responding to texts whilst texting others on whatsapp showing she read yours
7. A girl who initiates texts
8. Girls who reward good behavior/guys and don't just act innocent round them and less so around less attractive/decent guys.

[chrissykerdock]

if legs and ass isn't on there it isn't legit... eyes they may look at your eyes someday... smile i don't think they'll notice your smile either if your in a miniskirt... i think all mentioned are important but i know guys they love a fat ass and nice legs

[NJ_Casanova]

Really depends on how far away she catches your eye.

I think a women's curves are the first thing I notice the farther away she is. If we are sitting at a bar. Then It would be Hair, face (eyes & smile), then chest.

#4 is kind of a weird one.. I wouldn't have put that on there for a list labeled "What Immediately gets a guy's attention" ... Her ass would be on there before that.. on my list.

[LittleSally]

Hmmmm... I was positive it was the full figure first and then everything else...

[NJ_Casanova]

True... Her curves are the first thing I notice.. at least from a distance.

[Sweet_Angel]

IKR that applies to some guys -_- arh

[Zorax]

Face immediately gets my attention, including hair and eyes... followed by legs, but when it comes to clothes, I prefer casual and/or sporty outfits. She doesn't have to smile, I like serious girls too.

[Saoirse_Nua]

Some good observations but in reality I would just say girls don't overthink it, be yourselves.

[btbc92]

That does not get guys immediate attention. Every guy is not the same, and certain things attract certain people.

[Anonymous]

I'm pretty sure guys look at the body figure, then face, and eyes

[Dipsy]

For me:
Either hair or eyes first (face)
Body is like last or something

[Anonymous]

The hair thing is true, I've seen butt ugly girls get so much attention because they had great hair.

[redeyemindtricks]

What was their hair like? Really full and curly?

[Opinion Owner]

@redeyemindtricks just nice, not a specific texture, as long as it looked clean, healthy, and full.

[AlwaysBelieving]

Yup, gals with blonde hair tend to grab my attention quicker, we're only talking fractions of a second here though.

[Dipsy]

*sees blonde girl*
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[AlwaysBelieving]

@Dipsy or
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[Anonymous]

Confidence and positive energy. It almost always out-does good looks.

[echoaj]

For me if a girl is nice/sweet and starts a conversation with me, I will be hooked

[Anonymous]

I like this and those are actually the initial things I look at when it comes to guys too

[Words_and_Wisdom]

You forgot the whole "go up and approach him" thing.

[virgingoddess]

Yass! All men are visual. They're just born that way and they can't help it. And also, that makes them a-holes. Ooops! Sorry. But it's reality.

[SirenDep]

Good take, but you could write more about it

[peachblossomluck]

You should write more of these:)

[Romeotte16]

Why wasn't this longer?😭

[Klusa]

What about flashing boobs?

[Anonymous]

Ummmm. . . you forgot about tits and ass. . .

[Anonymous]

Tits its like the first thing a guy sees lol