5 Signs that a Guy is Playing with You

[Adigelunar]

1. Nothing ever moves forward

Someone who is playing with you will make a promise but will never follow through.

2. You never get to decide anything

People who want to see each other happy and put an effort are the people who should be in relationship together. If one partner is taking control without considering your feelings, it's clear that you are just along for the ride. They're just inserting you into their pre-existing life and they're not looking to build one with you.

3. They're always making you feel guilty

By doing so, they try to increase your insecurities and decreasing the likelihood that you're going to leave them. They make you feel like you can't do anything right.

4. Pay attention to if he implies double standards all the time

Because it's totally cool if he does that thing but it's not if you do.

5. If their level of closeness is always wavering

If they become closer to you when want or need something but further away when there's no purpose for being around you... This is a red flag that they are not serious about you.

[Anonymous]

Very simple.

If he has many women after him and you are not in the top 10 of women wanting to get at his dick. Your nothing but a cum dumpster to him.

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[SovereignessofVamps]

When he's the guy who's charismatic, but his energy is so... like you just know he's manipulative and the charisma is fake, but that edge makes him sexy.

[FýrdracaDócincel]

How does knowing he's manipulative make him hotter?

[SovereignessofVamps]

@FýrdracaDócincel He gets what he wants, but he's not a blatant asshole at all.

[FýrdracaDócincel]

Does manipulative not imply "asshole?"

[SovereignessofVamps]

@FýrdracaDócincel Because guys like that still express how they feel... like it's kid plus charming basically. I don't know how else to explain.

[Colt36]

Thats what happens when you pick asses for boy friends, but i can't talk as I've played this game offen when i was younger. I new i was a attractive guy and girls would fall for me often so i didn't have to be nice because id just take the next hottie wanting to hook up. I used to have the attitude thats she's luckly to have me so i can treat her how i want and it often worked, but as i got older i lost the want to be a ass and start having more respect for people as being a shallow person is a lonely life.
1) he lies about what he's up too
2) Talks at you not to you
3) puts his needs over yours ALLWAYS
4) flirts with other women in front off you
5) talks down to you as your lucky to have him

[Anonymous]

Okay the dude tatted, the dude has typical hot or sexy looks, you are not the only girl dying for his attention, he's emotionally not available, he tells you he's not into relationships, lastly he eyeing other women. 80% of girls on this site I experienced love that stuff, real life younger girls love this stuff. So what difference does it make if he's a player, your just going to cry " why can't I find respectful guys." Translation: " why can't I soften the bad boy heart."

[Adigelunar]

Yeah u r right , especially the last thing u said... that's what most try !

[cross98]

if there are so many guys like that.. i'm afraid a prayer won't help.

[Opinion Owner]

@cross98 look from when I was 17- til now this is all I witness from girls. Most come to me about it. Even my manager and have living proof that this what they do. Shoot even the mytake owner agrees to an extent. So with that said girls can't get mad when she get played cause it was seen from a mile away. Guys when we see a girl whose a 7/10 and she play games and we fall her stupid mind games and we know it. It's different. Women do it secretly. They hide it well. They laugh, talk, click with you and ask to hang out then later flake. We chase those sort of girls cause we don't sweat the small stuff. Honestly I'd ghost her but others press on to show they care. No matter how you slice the bread women intent mean well but there emotions always get the best of them.

[cross98]

and men are the same way, acting like they don't go for bitches or nice girls to manipulate. but either way, to say its one sided is funny.

[Opinion Owner]

@cross98 so clearly you know what I'm saying is true but you rather speak on men's behalf. So assuming what I said about girls is right. Guys who goes for bitches and nice girls then manipulated them are players or an asshole. Okay. Hooray! But what guys do can be seen from a mile away. I don't get how that's not clear. If your being manipulated by the tactics I mentioned and what the take owner mentioned then he is not to blame you are. For falling for immature man whom only wanting sex but you wanted chance it in finding his soft side. It's like a gentleman with class going to a prostitute expecting her not to be materialistic and cry about how she only want his money.

[AleDeEurope]

True.
Though the last pic is ironic, since they're describing a female player xD

[Adigelunar]

yeah u r right :D

[Ramiro1992]

Girls always want the guys to make the moves, and for some weird reason some girls never catch any good words and they think guys don't have strong feelings too, if a guys is not direct with you he is probably shy, and he is not playing with you, he is just shy and insecure

[arineunha]

it really sucks when you're the one in love with this guy even when he treats you like that

[annie2016]

#1, 3 & 4 is what i got from my x. I know it is common sense but I was deluded thinking he is not that type of man but eventually I found out that he really is.

[Anonymous]

I think these traits apply to both male and female players.

Another one could be they act hot and cold. Sure they might contact you, but when you ask them out, then they make excuses.

[Anonymous]

#1 is key. If nothing moves forward after 6 months, run! ;)

[Pyrofox]

More like 2 months. Like damn even super busy couples are willing to shove time being together into their schedules.

[ouchthathurt]

Is it just me or is redpill/pua starting to seep into this community?

[UnknownReflection]

Some good signs! nice take!

[CT_CD]

Gross. That girl is smoking.

Would not kiss/10

[LittleSally]

Yup! Nicely put.

[JustCallMeLeon]

Everything pretty much common sense...

[babeeeone]

Good to know