Being in love with someone and not being sure if they love you back is scary and a bit hurtful most of the time, so instead of letting my imagination wander and make unrealistic scenarios about why someone is in love with me, I tried making a short list on what signs I see as an interpretation for his love.
Keep in mind, There is no better sign than him saying " I Love You" and you, trusting him for his honesty, but some signs for confirmation never hurt anyone.
1. They Trust You
Trust is about letting someone in completely, being the person they can confide in when the rest of the world seems scary or overwhelming. If he comes to you when he’s sad, frustrated or overwhelmed, it’s a sign he trusts you.
2. They Ask For Your Input on Decisions
What if they decided to move to a different city for a few months because they wanted to try it out there?
Yeah, That would be really inconsiderate of them, and a huge sign that they probably aren’t in love with you.
But if they think of you first when they’re faced with a big decision, if they decide to include you and listen to your counsel when they’re deciding, well, that’s a huge sign they might be in love with you.
3. They Give You Lots of Affection
This shows he’s most likely in love with you if he can’t get enough of being close, intimate and connected with you. Affection, physical closeness, and intimacy go a long way in strengthening a relationship and helping love grow
4. They Are Curious About Your Day
If he truly cares about what’s on your mind, how your day was and how you feel it means that he cares about you a lot. When a guy isn’t in love, he couldn't give a crap about what you have to say and would never want to just listen to you talk. If he’s genuinely curious, though, and listens this is a HUGE sign he can’t resist you… he’s in love.
5. They Make You Feel Good About Who You Are
If you feel good around someone, you want to be around them more. That’s going to lead to romantic (or platonic) relationships with that person.
Far more rare is the person who makes you feel good about WHO YOU ARE. That person takes the time to understand who you really are, what makes you really tick, and then give you affection and validation about it.
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SIDE NOTE: This article is just for fun, and it's from MY perspective. This isn't something that's 100% correct so feel free to share your opinions.
QUESTION: What are your "He's in love" signs?
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