While it's true that many men are attracted to physical appearance, it's not mandatory for women to be attractive in order to be valued or respected. Attractiveness is subjective and varies from person to person, and there are many other qualities that can make a person attractive, such as intelligence, kindness, humor, and confidence. It's important to recognize and appreciate the many facets of a woman, beyond just her looks.
While these traits may be attractive to some men, it's important to remember that every man is unique and has their own preferences when it comes to attraction.
It’s attractive to all men the some you are referring to are gay It’s important to remember that we are more alike than anything else so please stop with your divisive rhetoric
Attractiveness is subjective and personal, and it can vary greatly from person to person, regardless of their sexual orientation. However, I will say that fitness is universally attractive to both men and women. Submissiveness is to be earned through excellent leadership, however most men don't lead properly. And many men don't want to lead at all, and when that's the case, feminine submission is off the table. Female lead relationships are on the rise. Femininity encompasses a wide range of characteristics that are constantly evolving across cultures and time periods, and it all depends on which feminine traits we're talking about that are viewed as attractive. The ability the cook well is an adult skills that both men and women are wise to develop.
Here is the thing about accountability If you are fishing and the fish aren’t biting you don’t blame the fish you blame the bait
To attract the kind of man that most women prefer ( masculine man ) being submissive is a must you can’t try to catch a lion with vegetables and then blame the lion when you don’t
This is why truly feminine and submissive women get scooped up fast because it is attractive to men
That's because men tend to bury their unhappiness in alcohol, drugs, video games, and sometimes other vaginas, which every bit of that is just as bad if not worse. Regardless, it's time to stop using the majority as some kind of standards because clearly most haven't a clue what they're doing when it comes to healthy relationships. That's why I want to help.
Men may have an instinctual nature to protect and provide, but very few are doing so properly and sufficiently. Women have the right to make their own decisions and have agency in their lives, including their relationships. We have the control, by nature.
No they don’t actually men have the control when it comes to relationships and the sooner women get with the program like the rest of all known human history we can get this species back on track
Also glad to see a woman who is on board with 40 year old men dating 19 - 24 year old women
The way most men act, through history and today. They don’t even come close to deserving control. Men are scared to death if losing control, just look around at how many are kicking and screaming about social “unfairness” towards men when most of its their own fault because of the way they behave.
And honestly women don’t deserve control over sex the highest body count I’ve heard from women under the age of 21 is 500 those are prostitute numbers truly a repulsive woman
That’s why men are leaving abroad to find more feminine women because as far as our wants and desires men haven’t changed women have
Women’s desires for sexual variety is nothing new. The difference is now they don’t have to pretend to be perfect for men for their own survival which is a great thing. I will say though that there are areas where women need to be smarter and more mindful and one of those ways is vetting men better, and vetting them for favorable attitudes and behavior. The men going overseas to find “feminine” women, I’ve interviewed some of them myself. They do this because they’re hoping they can find women foolish enough to be with them even though they’re average to below average men in most ways. They go over there, play house, run out of money and they come right back. Face it, men have lost their privileges for what they consider to be “feminine” women.
And most importantly, what you conveniently "forgot" to mention and which is the first thought of 99.999% of the women: "He has very thick bank account".
She doesn't realize what she is posting female hyperbole. Women have all these listacles of "must haves" in men, but women never hold themselves to any kind of similar standard. Just read her post and add it to the enormous literature of female gibberish.
@MzAsh. A "good man" does what he is told, when he is told, how he is told, and caters to her every demand without rebuttal.
This is so, so, tiring. As you are a professional "cute girl", you can get away with more of this awful behavior, but men are just starting to wake up.
It’s too bad you have such a problem with behavior conducive to being a decent human. While that might be too much to ask from someone like you, there are plenty of men who have zero issues with this.
I always find it amazing how little women care for what men want in a woman, but you feel you have a mandate to define what men should be. Again, this is the height of "pretty privilege".
Rather than assuming the opposite of what women say they find attractive, it's more helpful to have open and honest conversations about what each person is looking for in a relationship or partner.
There's what attracts girls, and what attracts women. There's a difference. There's also another difference in what attracts women and what keeps women for the long term. My article isn't about attraction, dating, or sex. I mention relationships and partnership. Yet so many guys are comparing it against what they know about how to attract immature girls for short term sexual interactions.
The way men attract women is something women will never understand. The way to keep a relationship is something women will never understand. Men have to learn and develop skill. If there's any one that can give a man relationship advice its other men, not women
Yes, men and women often have different experiences when it comes to dating and marriage, influenced by a range of factors such as societal expectations, cultural norms, personal preferences, and individual experiences. It's important to work towards building healthy and fulfilling relationships that meet the needs and expectations of both partners.
There could be many factors that contribute to why those of a particular gender or demographic might be single, such as age, cultural and societal norms, personal preferences, economic factors, and education levels, among others. Therefore, it would be crucial to examine the study's full context to draw any meaningful conclusions.
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That man doesn’t exist and if he does I guarantee he is extremely unattractive
He does exist. I married him.
So this is all anecdotal. Got it.
What makes you think that he’s unattractive if a man like this exists?
Because there are plenty of guys with these traits women just don’t want them because they aren’t very attractive aesthetically
I’m not saying YOU but 9 times out of 10 people who say there aren’t any good ( blank ) left are usually pretty shallow
You're referring to immature personalities. Grown women who are wise DO want these types of men.
Well I was really only talking about women
Men are visual so it’s mandatory for women to be attractive
While it's true that many men are attracted to physical appearance, it's not mandatory for women to be attractive in order to be valued or respected. Attractiveness is subjective and varies from person to person, and there are many other qualities that can make a person attractive, such as intelligence, kindness, humor, and confidence. It's important to recognize and appreciate the many facets of a woman, beyond just her looks.
Maybe for women but for men it’s based off your fitness, submissiveness, femininity, and being able to cook really well.
While these traits may be attractive to some men, it's important to remember that every man is unique and has their own preferences when it comes to attraction.
It’s attractive to all men the some you are referring to are gay
It’s important to remember that we are more alike than anything else so please stop with your divisive rhetoric
Attractiveness is subjective and personal, and it can vary greatly from person to person, regardless of their sexual orientation. However, I will say that fitness is universally attractive to both men and women. Submissiveness is to be earned through excellent leadership, however most men don't lead properly. And many men don't want to lead at all, and when that's the case, feminine submission is off the table. Female lead relationships are on the rise. Femininity encompasses a wide range of characteristics that are constantly evolving across cultures and time periods, and it all depends on which feminine traits we're talking about that are viewed as attractive. The ability the cook well is an adult skills that both men and women are wise to develop.
Here is the thing about accountability
If you are fishing and the fish aren’t biting you don’t blame the fish you blame the bait
To attract the kind of man that most women prefer ( masculine man ) being submissive is a must you can’t try to
catch a lion with vegetables and then blame the lion when you don’t
This is why truly feminine and submissive women get scooped up fast because it is attractive to men
Most women aren’t happily married though are they?
Most people aren’t happy I don’t understand why so many people think life is just supposed to be sunshine and rainbows
Marriage is boring and a lot of work
Most men aren’t happily married either but you don’t see us wrecking our homes in a selfish pursuit for happiness
That's because men tend to bury their unhappiness in alcohol, drugs, video games, and sometimes other vaginas, which every bit of that is just as bad if not worse. Regardless, it's time to stop using the majority as some kind of standards because clearly most haven't a clue what they're doing when it comes to healthy relationships. That's why I want to help.
No men with families and responsibilities we are instinctively made to protect and provide it’s what makes men feel fulfilled
The problem is women want more control and say so in relationships when they actually have zero control
The majority of people in the world dont even get divorced
You can’t help if you don’t understand men
Men may have an instinctual nature to protect and provide, but very few are doing so properly and sufficiently.
Women have the right to make their own decisions and have agency in their lives, including their relationships. We have the control, by nature.
No they don’t actually men have the control when it comes to relationships and the sooner women get with the program like the rest of all known human history we can get this species back on track
Also glad to see a woman who is on board with 40 year old men dating 19 - 24 year old women
The way most men act, through history and today. They don’t even come close to deserving control. Men are scared to death if losing control, just look around at how many are kicking and screaming about social “unfairness” towards men when most of its their own fault because of the way they behave.
You literally just described women
And honestly women don’t deserve control over sex the highest body count I’ve heard from women under the age of 21 is 500 those are prostitute numbers truly a repulsive woman
That’s why men are leaving abroad to find more feminine women because as far as our wants and desires men haven’t changed women have
Women’s desires for sexual variety is nothing new. The difference is now they don’t have to pretend to be perfect for men for their own survival which is a great thing. I will say though that there are areas where women need to be smarter and more mindful and one of those ways is vetting men better, and vetting them for favorable attitudes and behavior. The men going overseas to find “feminine” women, I’ve interviewed some of them myself. They do this because they’re hoping they can find women foolish enough to be with them even though they’re average to below average men in most ways. They go over there, play house, run out of money and they come right back. Face it, men have lost their privileges for what they consider to be “feminine” women.
How dare you even use the word survival you don’t know the meaning sweetheart
You don’t even realize that men win regardless because we control the access to relationships
Because our standards and desires are so basic so common that literally any woman can do it a vagina comes standard on every model
Why do you think average women deserve better than average?
By nature, men are more replaceable to women than women are to men.
In what way?
I think with patience and perseverance, a woman could live she's 100 and not find this guy. LOL. I know... you have, but?
Typo --- "till she's 100"
And most importantly, what you conveniently "forgot" to mention and which is the first thought of 99.999% of the women: "He has very thick bank account".
I mean, I am definitely all those things but in the past you’ve called me misogynist just for having pro-life views
I don’t use that term very often, if ever. Do you have a link to where I called you that?
No I don’t. It was quite a while back
She doesn't realize what she is posting female hyperbole. Women have all these listacles of "must haves" in men, but women never hold themselves to any kind of similar standard. Just read her post and add it to the enormous literature of female gibberish.
If women properly vet men for these standards then they should hold themselves to the same.
@MzAsh. A "good man" does what he is told, when he is told, how he is told, and caters to her every demand without rebuttal.
This is so, so, tiring. As you are a professional "cute girl", you can get away with more of this awful behavior, but men are just starting to wake up.
It’s too bad you have such a problem with behavior conducive to being a decent human. While that might be too much to ask from someone like you, there are plenty of men who have zero issues with this.
@KrakenAttackin Lol bro. You ain’t wrong. There’s still tons of men that will simp for the better looking women
I always find it amazing how little women care for what men want in a woman, but you feel you have a mandate to define what men should be. Again, this is the height of "pretty privilege".
@KrakenAttackin Lol. If I had a pussy, I’d be in charge of you too!
A woman should of course care about what the man she’s with wants in her.
@WhiteBoyChill. Well at least you would feel entitled to be in charge of me.
Great list, I love it! What about ageism? Many women like not a man who is too young or too old.
In a nutshell, just do the opposite of what women say they find attractive. Its very misleading and setting up men for a lot of failure
Rather than assuming the opposite of what women say they find attractive, it's more helpful to have open and honest conversations about what each person is looking for in a relationship or partner.
There's a general way things work that help men actually attract women. Assuming the man is doing the work he needs to do to become the man women want
There's what attracts girls, and what attracts women. There's a difference. There's also another difference in what attracts women and what keeps women for the long term. My article isn't about attraction, dating, or sex. I mention relationships and partnership. Yet so many guys are comparing it against what they know about how to attract immature girls for short term sexual interactions.
The way men attract women is something women will never understand. The way to keep a relationship is something women will never understand. Men have to learn and develop skill. If there's any one that can give a man relationship advice its other men, not women
I focus my advice towards women, as I understand the female experience and the distinctions between men who are husband material and those who aren't.
So we both agree men and women experience the dating and marriage world very different
Yes, men and women often have different experiences when it comes to dating and marriage, influenced by a range of factors such as societal expectations, cultural norms, personal preferences, and individual experiences. It's important to work towards building healthy and fulfilling relationships that meet the needs and expectations of both partners.
Welp we all know that's not going well today. Most relationships are failing now in days and its not going to get any better
It’s going fantastic for many, including mine.
Can you explain why 63% of men are single while only 33% of women are single if its going so well
There could be many factors that contribute to why those of a particular gender or demographic might be single, such as age, cultural and societal norms, personal preferences, economic factors, and education levels, among others. Therefore, it would be crucial to examine the study's full context to draw any meaningful conclusions.
Pornography and video games could contribute to this but there's one thing the media is not talking about and id argue its the main reason
Most of that also adequately describes a dog.
Perhaps what you're looking for is a dog.
Usually I find these qualities in guys that get friendzoned 🙄
Maybe by immature girls.
Maybe
The Problem is most Girls find Guys who are not some of those things more Attractive.
This is a good my take.
Don't forget a big dick
Guess I have a shitty man 😅
Is 6 out of 7 okay?
Hey that's not bad at all.
Thanks.
You want a woman in a man's body.
It’s merely requiring grown up behavior in an adult’s body.
I believe, you believe that.
Sounds like a good list.
yea and then you would still cheat on him
sounds more like a pet lol.
Nah fuck all that