"Does He Like Me?" Here's Your Answer.

[Big_man]

Stop Analyzing

For all of the girls asking, "does he like me?" or, "what does this mean?" I know you're thinking these questions make sense because you're thinking he looked at you in some mysterious way, or you're read way too much into the way he waved hello at you, or something.

Stop Obsessing!

Guess what, girls? 99% of the time, all of this crap that he's doing to "lead you on" means absolutely nothing. Men as a species are not that subtle. When guys flirt we are not as smart about it as women, if the guy likes you it will be very obvious - unless he is in that 1%, but the number of questions about this subject is so high that these guys cannot all be in that 1%.

Unless there are extenuating circumstances, and i don't mean you girls thinking "oh he's different, my guy is special."I'm talking about real extenuating circumstances. Unless those are present please stop asking about these things.

Anyone who sees questions with these things, please refer them to this page so we can finally put an end to these kinds of questions.

[Xonen]

LOL but it's really not that obvious. Especially if you're a love struck female who feels the need to over analyze everything. "He looked at me for 3.5 seconds then shifted his vision 45 degrees towards the left... could it be that he likes that girl who sits next to me? She's 200 degrees away from me... He has 10 fingers... 200 divided by 10 is 20... he has 2 eyes so multiply by 2 and get 40... OMG today's the fifth! plus 5 he must like her!! D:"

[MissPoirot]

you know it isn't really that obvious.. you might think he likes you but then again you could be reading too much into things and he might just see you as a friend.. When you've got a crush on someone, their behaviour will keep confusing you. So these questions aren't silly. It would be weirder if there weren't any questions like that bc that would mean there would be couples and heartbroken people all around us

[Big_man]

im going to guess you're one of those girls asking those stupid questions

[MissPoirot]

Well yeah, the point I am trying to make is all girls ask themselves this and the only weird part is that you don't get that. And guys have no clue if their crush likes them either so your take isn't really helping

[Big_man]

yeah but guys don't lose their damn minds over it and whine to everyone because of it

[MissPoirot]

Oh okay well obviouslt Idon't know about guys so it's interesting to hear. Unfortunately, women can't be changed.

[Big_man]

but I can always try

[MissPoirot]

True :)

[dreamer810]

There are some people (like me) who actually have some extenuating circumstances. I just reconnected with an old friend and I was actually pretty sure that he liked me. He didn't have my number so he went and asked some friends till he got it and called me and asked me on a date and etc :)
These are the circumstances: first, we are both from a strict culture that doesn't allow things like touching each other ex hugging or having sex before marriage... Second, I am not allowed to call him first or call him first because that would make me seem desperate, but he has been good at texting me everyday and calling me almost every day... Thirdly his job has him on the road a lot and driving so we haven't been able to go out again bc he's working. Lastly he has been a little more distant this last week but maybe that's because of the job?

[Anonymous]

Sooo if a dude was hitting on me, then we ended up cuddling and kissed me a lot, mentioned even liked doing so. You crash the night no sexualness.. I actually ended up having to puke during our make out sesh ahah, because I drank whiskey which I didn't know.. Anyways, he asked if it's because of his bad breath ahaha! I said oh gosh no. And went back and cuddled morning came I worked so I left an he ended up kissing me bye. Next day he brought another chick over flirting the hell outta her. So me being me I let it go, if he doesn't wanna be into me like that he wouldn't have done it, orr he was into things earlier with this chick then met me lol. What's your read? I cut a lot out not writing an essay. You're a dude lemme know.

[Big_man]

when he kissed you goodbye was it on the mouth or cheek?

[Opinion Owner]

Mouth

[Big_man]

maybe you were just a one night stand

[Opinion Owner]

Touché. Kinda weird since his bro is my bro. But thanks man for that answer!

[KillerTaco]

This helped in no way though. You just come off as ranting about a girl wanting to have clarity about a guy liking her. Of course men don't think like women do. You're not emotional like we are. We DAY DREAM about finding the right guy for us. Not in the literal sense but we do fantasize about it...

[MariellaRo]

Exactly my thoughts (when I'm not obsessing about how long exactly he put his hand on my shoulder). I don't think we even want an answer. I have stopped posting these kinds of questions - I just write them down to clear my thoughts and have a good laugh about my own silliness.

[NateInAk]

I'm not smart enough to lead a girl on, if I like you, I will crush on you from afar till all my feelings spill out and you let me down gently.
Admittedly it's not a great system but at least it's a system.

[Number1gal]

why is there a 'guys' behaviour section then if we can't ask for help in decifering what a guy actually means and what his intentions may be. This 'does he like me' question actually does fit within the category so you shouldn't have a problem with it

[Mysterio421]

Amen, I am tired of these silly questions. I am shy as a guy typically but I show signs and that is no excuse to ask and rant silly questions like these

[rose101]

1. he likes a rich girl
2. he likes a fat bank account
3. he like money money money
he call it NATURaL why not?
until he is foooled by an ugly girl with saying I love you I don't care about money and steal his money.

[BelleGirl21]

I liked the topic. I was hoping for a little more than a rant lol. Still, the little you did say was valid.

[Big_man]

sorry if it sounds like im ranting not trying to :\

[BelleGirl21]

Don't apologize :) I do agree with the points you made.

[Hajar_Whitestone]

This is won't stop does under 18 from posting that question again..

[Xonen]

Grammar good is

[Big_man]

i can always try

[Hajar_Whitestone]

you can try but you will get tired one day..

[LittleSally]

Hahaha true...
But the sad thing is - no one is going to take your advice on this - no one on this site has for any of these kinds of questions. :(

[Briarrosebelair]

️️Goodness yes, yes, YES‼️
We women as a group need to avoid obsessing over things! It isn't going to help or change anything!

[Anonymous]

You can't say this for everyone... I know for myself, it was a most helpful question. I grew up in an extremely sheltered home with about zero interaction with guys my age. I had no clue what to expect and I got a helpful answer from that little question. I learned the guy I had met was just a flirt...
But there probably are a lot of girls who are just bored or worried because they don't have "enough" drama in their life.

[WassPoppin]

This won't change a thing.

Rate 2/10, cry more.

[Anonymous]

What would you warrant as 'extenuating circumstances'? Some examples would be nice.

[Big_man]

extenuating circumstances would be like if you had a previous relationship with this guy and I mean dating not just really good friends. or if someone heard him actually say that he likes you. or if he's leaving you love letters anonymously but you know it's him. those are extenuating circumstances

[Findingmyway]

I asked this recently but I'm going through a divorce and we are friends with benefits . I think mine fits in that extenuating circumstance.. Feelings guarded for obvious reasons so harder to interpret..

[Anonymous]

Hahaha thanks for that! I least I want the only one getting annoyed.

[Opinion Owner]

Wasn't*

[Anonymous]

Well I have been told by close friends if his that he is super shy and bashful. He wobt even walk with his head facing up but rather at the ground so I think that doesn't help me much!

[Big_man]

it will still be the same outcome him being shy is irrelevant

[Opinion Owner]

Then you don't know anything about shy guys and their body language. Its not the same. I've talked to experts on it.

[Big_man]

sure you have. but I don't really care im just trying to stop these idiotic questions. also I used to be a shy guy and I didn't do any of that sort of crap. so you can talk to all the so called experts you want, but the truth is you have no idea what you're talking about.

[Opinion Owner]

I talk to people with actual college degrees. So call them lairs idoit. I bet you no degrees in anything. I'm sure they don't lead anyone on but the body language is not the same.

[Mysterio421]

What have these "experts" told you about shy guys? I find it funny she calls @takeowner an idiot and a liar but she spells them wrong lol. She gets so defensive and her grammar doesn't make any sense. *Grabs Popcorn*

[Big_man]

hahaha I already have my bachelors degree and medical degree. I also studied psychology :), but im not here to argue im just trying to stop people like you from wasting everyone's time

[Big_man]

also thank you mysterio :)

[Opinion Owner]

They have their own magazines and websites and make money on tv. So whatever. And lots of people make grammar mistakes on here jerk. Its called cell phone autocorrect. You are just upset because you know they are correct. All I pointed out was body language of confident guys and shy guys is not gonna be the same. Go waste someone else's time. I'm done with you.

[miserybusiness]

Yeah omg enough with those questions