Why He Likes You

[Lopezz1999]

How could he like me?

Ever had a crush on a guy yet wonder how he could like an (un)attractive girl like you? Ever wonder if he truly finds you attractive based off of your looks/personality/etc? Ever wonder why a person could like you in general? As a guy of courtesy, I can always say that there's always something awesome in all of you women out there. There always seems to be something about you that'll spark that new flame in us and gives us that wild and crazy feeling that fills us up with passion, in the unlucky situation that a person actually likes you. As a girl, you may feel insecure about everything that he does wondering whether or not that he likes you. If you see the blatantly obvious signs, then he probably does like you, and I'm going to explain just why he does.

You are attractive

Your looks whether it be your face, your figure, or your assets may be an infamous reason why a guy could crush on you, but in all honesty, it does happen. You, whether it be your eyes, your face, your body, or even the outfit that you wear may be the best thing a guy's eye has ever seen with his own eyes, and because of this, your initial impression can easily spark an attraction in a guy, because you're just damn attractive, no matter how much you believe you aren't. If it's your initial looks that got him interested in you, you are attractive, whether it be a good or a bad reason for him to be interested in you. Your looks hooked his eye as a woman because you actually look like a woman, a woman who is beautiful, supportive, and kind. Women are attractive, all women.. and you must believe that no matter how unattractive you may feel.

You're just likable

Your beautiful smile, your amazingly soft, sweet voice, your playful personality, and that sexy spark in the look in your eyes.. whatever it may be, something about your inner beauty has caught his eye somehow. It could be your determination to always become a better person. It could be your incredible sense of humor. It even be the extreme shyness. Whatever it is, it is a reflection of your inner beauty, and this personally why I'd get hooked on any girl, or even make the best of friends. It's all because you're just that likable, because you're you.

You actually mean something to him

For some reason, a guy will seem to get angry if you were to talk to other guys, laugh at other guys, and especially hug other guys, because he wants you all to himself. You are that great of a person for someone to care about how others socialize with you, because he is afraid that you would eventually end up liking someone else. Guys will never approach girls that are around other guys if they like you for this very reason, because he believes that you like them more than they like you. Because you're that amazing and that special that he cares about the people you socialize with, he's also going to care about whether or not you have any feelings for him back, since he already does have feelings for you whether he wants to believe it or not.

As a soon to be dead guy once said that all women are awesome, I mean what I say. If a guy has a legit crush on you, you are special.. believe it or not. You have become the center of his attention, and the warmth of his heart.

[Anonymous]

It's really sweet what you wrote. well-written. and thank you for thinking women are awesome. I think there are some really mean women out there so please be careful of those. you sound like you have a kind heart.

I also felt the need to add this. Another reason a guy might like a girl is because she is very convenient to him. I believe there are a subset of guys who like a girl because she does things for him. For example, a guy might like a girl because he got free car rides and food out of it. or he wants to borrow some cash and knows this one girl is 'sweet' enough to say yes. every time. He just needs to flash a smile and give some attention (apply some player moves), etc.
Maybe the point of this post was to give optimism and empowerment to women. If that was the case, thank you. There are kind, wonderful guys out there.
There are also enough manipulative boys out there who like a girl simply because once he flirts with her enough, he'll have her wrapped around his finger and do lots of things he asks of her. He may want me to think he likes me because all the things you have listed, but it may be because I serve a very pragmatic purpose and not at all because of anything you have listed.

[Lopezz1999]

Oh yes, I'm fully aware. I said that I think all women are awesome, now female cheaters, liars and deceivers, bitches, or any other unruly female are another story lol. I see them all the time, and I know who they are, and as long as a woman is genuine with her interest in me (meaning without any desire to use me for anything/anyone), she's a respectable woman in my eyes. Same goes for men, and although I know they're probably slightly less common than the assholes, many good people are still out there, men and women, and that's why I think all women are awesome. I'd really like to personally thank you for your concern. It's really easy to be emotionally harmed in this world, but I feel nothing for any except a love for my friends unless I declare them to be a good respectable woman, and they can be easy to spot based on their maturity and experience. Thank you very much.

[Muglintar]

Men are easy, their "wishlist" is made up in a "nice-to-have" way of thinking. Men have few No-Go's and a number of desirable things, a woman how meets a certain (rather small) number of wanted qualities, she is categorised as "desirable" and possible mate.

Women are more picky, their "wishlist" is made up a "must-have" way of thinking. Women have desires they want fulfilled, if a man fails to meet any one, max. two of these standards, he is considered "undateable".

[Lopezz1999]

I agree 100%

[deusvult]

Yeah right, so helpful. "You're attractive, you're likeable!!1!" They're probably not. Most people are ugly bitches with no personality.

[Lopezz1999]

That's right! That's exactly why you don't like them, and those​are the qualities that no one would like!

[deusvult]

Nice reading comprehension, retard.

[Lopezz1999]

Thank you

[Superchick123]

Amazing job. This is well written. Thank you so much by the way. I appreciate this. I definitely have to write you one!

[Lopezz1999]

I'd like that

[Anonymous]

These are all so true! This is exactly the feelings I have about this girl I like. I just wish I had the confidence to tell her, but I'm just not sure she feels the same about me.

[Lopezz1999]

You'll never be too sure bro. You always gotta take the risk.

[bsebllgrl]

As a girl who's been in the reverse of this situation, tell her. She might feel the same way and be too nervous to tell you (however, be prepared to fake laugh it off if she maybe doesn't). I spent too many years not telling guys I liked them... and them never telling me at the right time. Tell her.

[Lopezz1999]

@bsebllgrl You mean waiting around? I happened to write a myTake on that, recently as well! lol

[bsebllgrl]

The right time thing? No... I had a friend tell me after he was married that he'd had a massive crush on me. I had no idea. I don't know that anything would have come from it, but it would have been nice to know at the time! (He thought I knew because he was so obvious... I was clueless lol)

[Lopezz1999]

@bsebllgrl Yep, this is why you don't wait around for people.

[peachblossomluck]

From the heart, very nice! ☆☆☆☆☆

[Lopezz1999]

Thank you!

[_caaaaaaam]

You're 17 why would you be near death

[Leandri]

I like this :)

[Lopezz1999]

Aha glad you enjoyed!

[IsenhowerJ]

Very true

[Anonymous]

thank u fr sharing

[Lopezz1999]

You're welcome