I've seen some pretty wacky things women think are signs that a guy likes them. They tend to over-analyze us. This guy is 100 percent correct regardless of if the guy is an aggressive smooth talker or a quiet/shy type.
Very well put Genesis5. Something else I have done in the past in addition to all those you said above is that I would do things around her friends or people who I know she would hear from, even when I wasn't around her.
So I text him, he texts me back, but nothing lengthy. But he does answer. When I see him, he talks to me, looks me in the eyes. Sometimes doesn't look at me, quiet, mostly ignores me, but doesn't move away. I think he has feelings for me, but confusing actions, hot then cold. He knows I like him. But how he feels is a mystery, am I a friend, or more, or nothing?
He never texts me first, so I always text him first and I can't tell if he's intrested. I tried waiting a day bit he didn't text me that day. And he is the one who told me to text him, and he told one of my friends before we started texting he wasn't good at talking to girls. But when we were suppose to hangout with like a group he bailed. I try to ignore him but I just lose it every Time I see him, I just see his face and bam I'm losing it.
How right you are!! A lot of girls asked me how to tell if a guy likes them, this really sums it all up - if he's around you, he likes you. Nice and simple. Very well written!
Hmmm.. I have a close guy friend. But I'm married and he's like 8 years younger. lol But he ask to have lunch all the time and meet up (we work near another)... is this an exception or is he into me?
I have no problem in picking up on whether a guy likes me. Usually a matter of minutes before I pick up on his stare and know what it means. But I genuinely struggle figuring out whether someone loves me once we are dating. It is a massive problem.
So if a guy is always passing me by at work or running into me or dropping stuff off to me then does it mean he likes me?And when I'm around he makes stupid dorky jokes and talks loud enough to hear him...its because he likes me?
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I've seen some pretty wacky things women think are signs that a guy likes them. They tend to over-analyze us. This guy is 100 percent correct regardless of if the guy is an aggressive smooth talker or a quiet/shy type.
Wow! I love this. It's easy for me to tell when guy friends like me, but now I can tell with non-friends.
Thanks... It's so hard to analyze signals.. You're right, he either is or he isn't... What you've said made a lot of sense..
Very well put Genesis5. Something else I have done in the past in addition to all those you said above is that I would do things around her friends or people who I know she would hear from, even when I wasn't around her.
So I text him, he texts me back, but nothing lengthy. But he does answer. When I see him, he talks to me, looks me in the eyes. Sometimes doesn't look at me, quiet, mostly ignores me, but doesn't move away. I think he has feelings for me, but confusing actions, hot then cold. He knows I like him. But how he feels is a mystery, am I a friend, or more, or nothing?
He never texts me first, so I always text him first and I can't tell if he's intrested. I tried waiting a day bit he didn't text me that day. And he is the one who told me to text him, and he told one of my friends before we started texting he wasn't good at talking to girls. But when we were suppose to hangout with like a group he bailed. I try to ignore him but I just lose it every Time I see him, I just see his face and bam I'm losing it.
Really informative! I like your answer it makes good sense! YAY!!!
How right you are!! A lot of girls asked me how to tell if a guy likes them, this really sums it all up - if he's around you, he likes you. Nice and simple. Very well written!
Hmmm.. I have a close guy friend. But I'm married and he's like 8 years younger. lol But he ask to have lunch all the time and meet up (we work near another)... is this an exception or is he into me?
I have no problem in picking up on whether a guy likes me. Usually a matter of minutes before I pick up on his stare and know what it means. But I genuinely struggle figuring out whether someone loves me once we are dating. It is a massive problem.
So if a guy is always passing me by at work or running into me or dropping stuff off to me then does it mean he likes me?And when I'm around he makes stupid dorky jokes and talks loud enough to hear him...its because he likes me?
Wow this is absolutely great! I kind of do the same thing sometimes.
So if my boyfriend sees me 3-4 times a week, that's interest right? or does it have to be more?
Wow this is really simple but extremely helpful THANKS!
Brilliant writing! And this article was SOOOOOO helpful!
You made some seriously good points, and I couldn't have read this article at a better time.
This article was very well written. I'm going to keep your advice in mind. Thank you.
This helped alot! thank you for the amazing article
What if he's a nice guy, will he still avoid you if he doesn't feel the same way?
Excellent point that it boils down to how much time he spends around her. I've made this clear numerous times.
Exactly right - the simplest and easiest signal out there.