The Surefire Non-Verbal Signs That a Guy Likes You

[Anonymous]

So here are some signs which clearly show that a guy, especially, a shy guy likes you even if he doesn't approaches you or talks to you.

1. The most obvious sign is: you see him regularly staring at you.

If it happens for once or twice, it maybe a coincidence. But if you see it happening frequenctly then he likes you.

2. If the stares continue to happen with smiles, then that's even better.

3. If he likes you, he'll probably find possible ways to stay around you most of the time.

I have done this too, I couldn't resist not being around her.

4. Wonder why was he looking down when you caught him staring? Yeah he WAS staring at you and now he is embarrassed you caught him staring.

5. You'll see him blushing around you quite often.

6. Has it ever occurred to you that he is seeming hyperactive or too cocky around you? Yes he is trying to get your attention.

7. Sometimes you'll even see him avoiding eye contact with you, yes we shy guys have a habit of ignoring the girls we like, probably because we feel too shy at times.

8. You can also see him notice making his voice deeper around you.

That's because he is trying to sound more manly to you.

9. He gets fidgety around you because he is panicked when he gets to notice you.

That's noticeable if you pay a little attention.

10. You'll see becoming way too talkative and being loud or getting too silent like he doesn't even exists.

This is because he gets nervous around you.

11. He will start dressing properly and grooming himself in order to look nice to you.

12. Ever wondered why is he walking like he has cramps all over his body? He walks this way to flaunt off his broad chest and shoulders so that YOU can notice it.

13. You'll see him mimicking your actions. For example he'll drink water seeing you drink water.

14. He tries to get a feel of you, tried to touch you by standing in a close proximity.

15. If he likes you, you'll also see him grooming and styling his hair in front of you so that you notice him.

If you notice a guy doing the steps mentioned above, he definitely likes you and wants to be with you. Even if you can only relate to some of the these steps, the chances are still high that he likes you.

Thank you for reading it.

[StrawberryArabesque]

Hmmm, there is a guy who does #1, occasionally #2, #9, I think #13, and I think #15. (By "I think," I mean he does that but I don't know if it's specifically a sign or if he just doing the action instinctively). Does this mean he likes me? Or am I delusional? Or does he hate me? Or is it none of the above? I suck at understanding boys, so I could really use any advice.

[myTake Owner]

When you see him staring at you, does he ever smile or kinda gives a look like 'oh god! She caught me!'?

[StrawberryArabesque]

Well he smiled like once when I caught him but he usually just looks away or pretends he was looking at something else.

[myTake Owner]

Now you have your answer

[ChronicThinker]

I know these signs, but don't prefer them. Men who voice their feelings are just far superior in my personal opinion.

[ScaryCool]

This is actually pretty accurate at the beginning, towards the end though it gets a little desperate lol I'm not gonna make my self 'accidentally' touch a girl to get her attention.

But it's definitely true about the staring. My mom told me it's rude to stare, but if I see something or someone I like, I tend to want to look at it.

[2opaz]

These are all false

i dont do none of these things

[myTake Owner]

Because you're not interested in girls maybe

[2opaz]

you're gay

[myTake Owner]

Look who sat on the hot frying pan

[2opaz]

Why would i sit on a frying pan?

[myTake Owner]

I dunno ask yourself why are sitting on that frying pan

[2opaz]

I use the frying pan to cook food

[myTake Owner]

Then why are you sitting on it?

[Jane_anne]

Well , I had a guy who I used to cut him staring at me like all the time and he talks to me only in fb no real life conversations and when I brag about it he never gives me an answer , always ignoring me out side lie I don't exist , I thought he liked but I don't think he ever did cz last sumer he blocked me on fb without a reason

[alsalman007]

Some are afraid of building relationships. They even share with us (friends) that he likes that girl and tend to get attracted. later they act foolishly and try to avoid even before they get properly introduced to one another. This is my personal experience with a friend and I highly doubt people with same thinking exists

[QooLipBite]

This is spot on 😂😂😂 I actually find myself doing these things sometimes, now that I read this... I’m cringing and laughing at how stupid and predictable I am.

[Anonymous]

good take. tho there is a guy who stands very close to me and only does so because he is used to standing that way to people.
and there was a guy who used to stare at me a ton but after i got to know him turns out he finds me very unattractive lol. i now dont get my hopes up when i see such signs since usually its a coincidence.

[Evil_Chuck]

I am shy. However, I don't stare much, I never stare AND smile because it could be seen as creepy, I am fidgety and uncomfortable around almost everyone, and I do not attempt physical contact. Finally, I dress the same unless I'm at a wedding or something, and if anything needs to be done with my hair I do it in advance. If you went by this list you would never know I liked you in a million years, just saying.

[Kikiheart]

Ok so my crush, somedays he is very talkative and chitty chatty but somedays he ignores me completely as if i dont exist at all. This confuses me a lot. And he is not a shy kind of guy. He is very frank and talk to most of the people except me.

[CarpetDenim]

Liked it for the blushing Obama picture

[Angelina25]

Even then I don't think any guy is crushing on me these days!

[myTake Owner]

Do you want anyone to have a crush on you?

[Angelina25]

Uhm... Yeah?
Is that like something wrong?

[myTake Owner]

Nope, but it may sound like a show-off if you don't like the guy back

[Angelina25]

Oh. No I didn't mean it that way.

[myTake Owner]

So you feel kinda lonely?

[Angelina25]

I feel like I'm an unwanted entity when it comes to dating lol

[myTake Owner]

Sounds heavy, did nobody ever had a crush on you?

[Angelina25]

Well, breaking News:
A guy had this hige crush on me. And apparently everyone knew about it except me! My best friend just let out the cat and I still talk to him! Damn!

[myTake Owner]

Good, now there you go

[Angelina25]

But it was you know what they call, "men's conquest"
He wanted me only coz I was never available. And then when I still wasn't, he lost interest. That's not the kind of like I'm interested in.
I'm pretty much into , "love type like". I've always been more of a marriage type person instead of boyfriend type person.
If you know what, I mean that is.

[myTake Owner]

Almost same kinda story here. Tbh, I am the handsome guy of my school, and every girl looks at me but they consider I am already taken. Earlier I thought that every girl just liked me for my looks and they were very clear about liking me. For me, teenage crushes and infatuations seem pretty much foolish to me. Girls in my school including the senior ones have a crush on me and they make it too obvious. Nobody believes that I'm single and wanting to get married to a girl I fell in love with. This makes the kinda girls I want feel a little despised of me being handsome and apparently a player 😕.

[Pejtu]

i personally like when the girls twirl their hair around me feelsgood ;P

[Revolver_]

Thank you, now I will be able to know when a guy likes me. I'm hetero

[yogagirl777]

😂 Funny

[John_Doesnt]

If he has a boner, is pitching a tent or having a tug-o-war with cyclops that's a good sign for a girl.

[VIVANT]

naa, thats just sexual. you can get hard without liking the girl. arousal and esteem can be mutually exclusive and often are.

[John_Doesnt]

@VIVANT yeah that's true. I still get random boners and morning wood, it has nothing to do with attraction to anybody.

[demonics]

Just don't be ugly whilst staring... thats considered creepy. Only hot guys can stare.

[BOUNTYGUY9]

omg girls stop doing that to me you know l like you

[myTake Owner]

Nice comprehension skills man

[BOUNTYGUY9]

thanks and you are very smart for your age l am running 30 years late l need to catch up l still look very young for my age omg god girls they are so hot

[myTake Owner]

I know

[Anonymous]

Okay I’ve noticed many guys do this to me except the talking to me and touching me. They never stare tho. Hmmm I’m curious now.

[larswisner]

i don't think it has to necessarily be staring. some guys will just glance at the girl he likes without any eye contact or anything, especially guys who get shy around people they like. you probably wouldn't notice it unless you were watching what he was doing.

[Opinion Owner]

@larswisner true! I don’t look at people’s eyes. The weird part is that they’re not shy at all. I would see them with prettier girls and the act natural in front of her making her comfortable. Males are so hard to understand.

[larswisner]

i am never a shy person but around my crush i definitely do and i find it hard to look at her without feeling like i am making it awkward or weird. some guys are like that

[jacquesvol]

Different for each guy

[VIVANT]

do not forget getting moody and losing temper ;)

[myTake Owner]

That's included in getting cocky and hyper active right?

[Anon-ymous1]

Lowers his voice around you; scared to touch you.

[yogagirl777]

How would you know if he was scared to touch you vs just didn't want to touch you

[Anon-ymous1]

@yogagirl777 Someone who is casually just a friend isn't going to be scared of touching you. Random touch happens. If he NEVER, EVER touches you, or even the slightest accidental touch on the arm or whatever he like apologizes, he's probably into you.

[yogagirl777]

I just think it's interesting because I think some guys touch a girl to show her that they are interested in her. I've had this happen where a guy will say flirty things and touch my thigh, my shoulder, or my waist. Maybe it's a difference in how confident they are?

[Anon-ymous1]

@yogagirl777 Yes, it is a difference in that.

[coolguy919]

He will get a boner when he hears your name.

[myTake Owner]

Not everyone is that horny

[lazermazer]

Good points.

[AlwaysBelieving]

#7 and #9 for me.

[COCOCHANEL]

pretty accurate