My crush asked me if I had plans tonight. I said nope. Should I have said nope, why?

[Anonymous]

My crush asked me if I had plans tonight. I said "nope". Now, I haven't heard anything in over an hour. Should I have said "nope, why?" I'm getting real impatient.

[pedro28]

its not a wrong answer at all, your crush is just either very busy, coming up with a plan, or doing something else... just be patient because I can see clear interest from him.

[Asker]

haha thanks! I figured my response was fine, but my girlfriends are saying I should have asked why. No one is ever happy with my responses.

[pedro28]

hahaha you're welcome.. really what matters is not what you say but why... we men like women for them not because they're off going cliff diving or saving the world from imminent disaster.. its alright if you say nothing to let us know that you'd like to spend time with us.

[Asker]

Good! I hate how every scrutinizes over what I have to say. I keep it an even balance on my availability. Sometimes I am busy and other times I say I can't I have plans.

[pedro28]

I'm sorry about that.. but if you're not busy then just say so, you don't have to pretend anything... its good to actually be busy sometimes but if you'd like to go out then you shouldn't have it as a rule, reserve your "plans" for when you don't feel much like going out or something else..

[Asker]

Oh, I am not lying. There are weekends where I am packed and then there are others where I have literally nothing going on. He just always asks me to hangout the times when my schedule is packed. I am nice though and always offer another time. So at least he knows I'm interested.

[pedro28]

haha don't worry I just wanted to make it clear because some girls are under that Ideal... but that's great, you're doing everything perfectly... good luck with your romance!

[Asker]

Thanks for the help and good wishes! Much appreciated :)

[pedro28]

you're welcome, and thank you, same to you.

[Anonymous]

Right answer. There probably just debating calling you back or changed their mind.

[Asker]

So it doesn't matter how I responded? Some of my friends are saying it doesn't matter, while others are saying that I should have asked why. I still think regardless he should get back to me.

[Opinion Owner]

you should have asked why and he should call you back but he may not

[Asker]

He texted me back a little bit ago. So we will see.

[Opinion Owner]

okay

[Asker]

Thanks for your help though! Much appreciated. I can use it for next time.

[Opinion Owner]

Your welcome

[findingdreamland]

No. No worries. If he wants to hang out with you, he will ask you anyway. Don't stress yourself.

[Asker]

Good! I wasn't stressed until my friends said I should have asked why. I hate my friends lol

[findingdreamland]

Hahaha don't hate, they were just curious I guess :) No need to be curious either. You will find out, if it's really about you.

[Asker]

He did respond back so we will see. I do like him, but at the same time I don't think I have the time to date and he seems to be saying the same. As long as I can hang with him, that's all I care about.

[NoblesseOblige]

Correct answer: "Hanging out with you!"

[Asker]

Oh crap. Maybe I will use that one next time. Seriously though, will he respond back to me regardless?

[NoblesseOblige]

He should have said something immediately. So probably not.

[Asker]

Ugh, I hate my life.