My new crush asked me out but not a date date?

[scott04sa22]

my new crush asked me out but not a date date just two of us having lunch / dinner. She wants me to call her soon and set a date and time but I haven’t decided if I want to go for it or not because this is my first time going out with someone.

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I decided I’m not gonna take my crush out on a date. I’m Just not feeling it

[Steamnir]

Go for it, she's tired of waiting for you. So she took the first step, if you really want her, show some kind of commitment and affection, if u dont, just cut the whole thing out, dont leave her questioning

[scott04sa22]

Yeah but she’s not looking for anything serious with me because I’m not the right guy for her

[Guy13]

In my world that is code for "A Quickie"... Is that what you are saying?

Not a date-date. No Costs involved but very pleasurable.

[scott04sa22]

I’m confused on what you said 😕

[Guy13]

Okay... the phrase "date-date" in your question translates into Slang as a "Quickie fwck"... in my world.

[scott04sa22]

Ok, she asked me out but not a date then

[Guy13]

A coffee meet becomes the first date if it goes well... She knows it is a date but whatever if she will let your foot get in the door. Plans or winging it?

[scott04sa22]

I don’t think she’s fully interested with me when she said “ you’ll find someone “ to me

[Guy13]

Never know and that's why we go...

[scott04sa22]

😳😳😳😳

[slatyb]

Lunch / dinner? That's a date. You've never been on a date before? You can go with her or stay single for the rest of your life.

[scott04sa22]

I dated two people but never had romantic dates or never had date nights with them so I never been on any romantic dates

[HeftyLefty]

I say you should definitely go. I’d probably try to make it happen sooner vs. later too. If you wait too long she may think you aren’t interested.
I’d definitely go if I were you.

[Sparkie460]

She may be interested in having you as a friend