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It's time to move on and let him go.
Realize he was the past and appreciate what you've had together. But also, your lives aren't intertwined anymore.
Realize you broke up for a reason, and look forward to finding another person to make memories with.
Be at peace that their with someone and you are on your own path. Let them go
Do not hate, hate only hurts you!
Realize that its time. And there is gong to be another person if you let there be. Stop holding on to him, you will keep comparing your current with him and make things complicated. Let him go.
You do not have to forget him, but you have to move on for what's ahead.
You cannot think in the past and expect to live in the present. He's the past, and you need to let him go.
I know it's hard, it takes time.
the first dick is the sweetest as the saying goes.1
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Because you lost a piece of your heart. I remember every crush I had, (only 7 so far), and will wonder at times how they are, hope they are happy.
Sometimes I think I am just a sentimental old fool for investing so much of myself in others but it's not a conscious choice.
Everytime this happens you lose a small piece of yourself and it's like a part of yourself dies then it becomes much more difficult to keep putting yourself out there.11
cause he was your first, and guys can be selfish pricks at that age only looking to add another notch to the bed post. plus the biological unfairness of it where women experience chemical changes making them love the ones who they have intimate contact with where guys can act simply out of carnal desire with no chemical attachment. cats are great though, I would pick them over people on most days, but don't let yourself miss out on life because one got away, we have the capacity to love many people in different, and exciting ways. no two loves are the same, but that doesn't mean we experience any less passion for trying1
look the main reason u just can't forget your ex is that you haven't told him about your love just told him if he said ni atlest you can move on12
Many people guys never cherish what they have until they lose it, i guess he never knows what he is missing. A woman will never get the best love and care ever except they try a new date with a very good guy, i means very lovely person.11
This happens to many of us baby, you are not alone. You will fill that void and find happiness. Stay patient with life and love and remember you are still beautiful inside and out, even if that chump didn't appreciate you for it!11
I have a very similar problem with broken heart and unrequited love, it has always been like that with me, I just don't have any luck, that's why I'm still single, never been in a relationship, never had a kiss, virgin in my late 30s
If you do not have the will to fight for what you want you deserve to loose! If you fought and lost just move on, life is like a train station, things are coming and going!1
Because you need a boyfriend. Find a real man now and you'll forget the past.0
Cuz u don't have fucking memory loss21
Send me a PM. I'm very similar and I think we could help each other out.0
You'll never forget your first11
cause you dont stop thinking about it.11
Don't become an animal hoarder! Chill!10
just let it go0
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Hi, to start with your totally going through the normal process. Our girst love/crush is always the hardest to overcome for. me i took years even though i was hurt the same way. She chased telling me she could marry a guy like me but as soon as she had me and knew how much i. loved her she went cold on me and avoided me. The following years i never felt the same with any girl i dated even though i was treated much nicer and loved in return by later girlfriend's. It wasn't till 12yrs later i finally felt a love greater than that 1st love and i knew her spell on me was broken unfortunately im sinhke again and at 40 years old never married no kids and live alone with my cat. All i can suggest is don't focus on the lovely compliments he gave you which im sure as true as they are there not productive to moving on. Think of what he said to your friends and the fact you are not together now, this man is living rent free in your beautiful mind which there are thousands of great men out there that would love and treat you 1000 times more thsn you can imagine possible and that requires you yo love yourself and free your heart.# loveislife.
Aww. Thank you so much. It's better not to focus on love life anymore. I'm sure there will be something on the way, but I'm not expecting much and I'm ready To be single forever. I feel sad for you. I think you should let it free and I really hope that you'll find a soulmate that will last forever.