Oh no. Stay away from him. Emotionally unavailable people do NOT do that. He is just wanting to get a hookup from you and sounds controlling. As an INFJ, I warn you now as an INFP. DO NOT allow your hopeless romantic ideals to blind you. Fi users as you are not cold. You above anyone as a Fi dominant should know this. It is not that he is attracted to you. He is reading your weaknesses as a Ni dominant and he's using your emotions against you for sex because what you have is lust. That's all your doing. You're just feeding his toxicity. It has 0 to do with him being an INTJ or MBTI. That is just who he is to reel you in when he is ready and see he got you to hook when you least expect it so when he's ready to pounce, next thing you know your in bed with him with 0 commitment. He is not a crush. He is a temptation. Sexual temptation, he sounds like a player, and dangerous. You in it because you wanted to. It is now up to you to get yourself out of it. I can be emotionally unavailable. I know I wouldn't dare do this. Again, he is not mentally attracted to you. Don't tease, don't show him anything. It's a TRAP. To him, you're like mice and are prey.
" nodoby who has feelings for you can ever forget you, you're too unique and special. " Is this the best heartstrings he can pull off? This is an amateur move. Classic manipulator tactic. Girl, listen. I am HSP also and an empath. As much as your not going to like this, I got sad news for you, and forgive how I got to put it
... ... ... This guy is full of sh*t.
End it TODAY! Tell him NEXT.
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Give it time. If it is love, he will open up to your persistence. Be patient
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