Do confident guys act quiet when they like a girl?

[Anonymous]

This guy didn't really say much to me for 3months seemed pretty quiet but way confident with others different with m when he's a confident guy.. he only got comfortable with me after I accidentally brushed against his arm he left it there moving closer when I moved it away. We talk more only starting to flirt or joke now after 4months. We are still slowly getting to know each other. I have this guy J who's a mutual friend of both me & the trainer but we aren't friends (trainer) on Facebook yet he randomly brought up J asking if I'd trained with him? There's no way he'd know I'd known J without checking fb. I added him on Facebook he rejected it? Don't think he can add clients. I saw him today later on I had to push a prowler with weights before he he joked one of these days I'll be standing on it you'll be pushing me across” If I pushed it stopping a inch too soon he'd be like “What was that? you can go way further or you can do better than that. After my hands were hurting I mentioned it saying my hands are hurting more than the weights. He'd "Don't be a ninny oh Princess P over here. After he said he'd see me outside I was giving him the money he " oh no don't give me change I hate change " joking didn't want it. Usually I leave the money at the desk don't see him after. He's flirty/jokey but still nervous at times like he's not sure what to say he starts opens up when I ask him stuff getting more comfortable. He always changes the way he is around me. He always uses smileys when replying to texts/emails replies fast.

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Should I continue acting as I am around him? getting to know him

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He's not completely quiet more slowly getting to know each other like taking it slow before his confident & flirty side shows.

[Anonymous]

Generally I get quiet and avoidant when I really dislike a woman who thinks she has a realistic chance with me. Girls that are just flirting because they want to be around me I don't really care. Girls that think they're hot shit and are aggressively trying to catch me but who have turned me off in some way I tend to seem shy around. I'm not shy and have no problem talking to them from a confidence stand point, I just dislike them and don't want them as company so I just shut down and blank them out.

[Asker]

What about slower to open up? like not quiet just taking the time to get to know you

[Opinion Owner]

In your case he is "showing interest" by trying to get to know you.

[izzy85]

If he's an Aries sometimes they are as bold as a ram and other times they are timid like a lamb just depends

[Asker]

He's a libra

[izzy85]

Libras are usaly not as straight up with stuff sounds like he isn't shure how he likes you as a friend maybe more try mentioning a movie you'd like to see and see where it goes

[Asker]

Should I just maybe keep going with the flow until he's decided he seems to be leaving his nervous stage into his more confident/ jokey a bit flirty self more recently don't know if I'd ask him out yet. Do libras generally take it slow?

[Anonymous]

"Do confident guys act quiet when they like a girl?"

No. Why would they?

[Asker]

I meant like get quieter/shy when they like you rather then their confident self not feeling as confident because they're trying to impress or care about what you think.

[Opinion Owner]

I knew what you meant.

Look, you want to believe some guy is confident AND that he likes you, even though he hasn't asked you out.

I'm telling you simply - one of those things isn't true. He's either not as confident as you think, or he's not into you.

[Asker]

Yeah possibly just appears confident or not the right time to ask out either

[StickStickity13]

Some do, but for me personally if I'm really quiet around a girl it's because I don't like her. If I liked the girl I'd make an attempt to talk to her.