Do girls ever go for the quiet and confident guy?

[Anonymous]

I feel I am a confident guy, but am not as loud and outgoing as some other guys. Because of this I don't think I get too much attention from women. I just choose not to talk as much because I don't have that much to say all the time like some people.

Do girls skip over these guys?

[SoapBubbleGirl]

No, girls don't skip over these guys -- they just assume the guys are skipping over them. Most girls want a guy who pursues, and it just happens that the more outgoing ones are obvious about it.

It doesn't matter if you're quiet, as long as you go for her. Confidence is sexy, and refreshing. From what I've experienced, it's the loud ones that are trying to cover insecurities.

Girls want to be wanted. So, chase!

[vitabella]

i think girls might notice you guys first, but then we just move on to the more outgoing guys becausee they give us more attention at first, which grabs our attention away from the quiet guys, but then eventually you remember the quiet and confident ones; it mght just take a little longer for that to happen then you had hoped for.

[Anonymous]

yeah you do get overlooked more often because you're not putting yourself out there to be noticed. if you just fade into the background then girls aren't gonna notice you as much. also guys who are quiet don't pursue girls and go after them as much which is a major factor in why you aren't getting as many girls

[AdamThomas]

Girls will skip over you if you don't make a move. I'm a quiet guy, I never have much to say, but I'm also confident enough to approach a girl I like and make a move. Girls hardly ever make the first move, they like the guy to be confident enough to do that. They're definately not going to make a move if they see you as a shy guy or think you're uninterested, which is why they will end up with more outgoing guys.

[Anonymous]

I know it's not because I don't like quiet guys, it's just that when a guy is quiet, it's hard to tell if he even cares about a girl. And I don't want to waste my time on somrbody who doesn't give a damn about me.

[Life_is_odd]

some girls go for Confident quiet guys and look for them specifically