Do girls notice shy, quiet guys?

[Anonymous]

If a guy is shy and quiet but is still considered good-looking will he still get noticed by girls? What if he steps out of his comfort zone and actually talks to the girl he likes even she already gets loads of male attenion, yet all the guys who approach her are the loud popular guys who all the girls love, would she end up talking to him but then forgetting about him? How can a shy, quiet guy get the girl he likes to notice him? Of course he has to talk to her first but want can he do to make a good lasting impression?

[averageteengirl6]

shy guys are cute.. girls like cute:)

just talk about normal things, but complement her somewhere.. something like "i never noticed how green/blue/brown/hazel etc your eyes are.. in a good way" something sly but effective, that way it will mean something to her. though you may be shy try to be a little more confident around her.. just normal conversation then compliment that's all.. then another time you talk to her GET TO KNOW HER.. that way you can create some sort of bond or friendship.. then NEXT ask her to do something.. if you wanna be safe ask to go somewhere with friends and then just you two..

good compliments:

-how sweet or nice she is

-say you like her hair in a certain hair style so she knows you notice the little things and appreciate them (it really cute when girl notice them)

- her humor, intelligence, athleticism

-eyes

DONT comment on her body.. it will make things awkward, just don't even go there

good luck:)

[Anonymous]

I agree that the best way is to talk to the girl as a person. One major complaint girls have about guys is that they are so wrapped up in themselves that they can't relate to another person. A lot of girls really seek understanding, and shy guys are often more attentive to a girl's problems. If you can get her to open up to you, you will make a lasting impression. Be aware that opening up to her is taking a risk because she may not be as receptive and understanding as you, but if she is, that may be the start of something really special.

In sum, if you like a girl and you're shy, don't treat her as your objective, treat her like you care about her. This will make you stand out among guys that are just all about themselves.

[Anonymous]

I love shy guys. They are my favorite. Treat her good! Most outgoing cool guys are really just jerks who use girls. Well the ones I've dated are. I'm considered "hot" or "pretty" I guess. But I'm not your typical pretty girl either. I'm more of the nice pretty girl. But my advice is, just talk to her, compliment her - example, "you have the prettiest hair" just be CONFIDENT! confident and nice byos are so hot.

talk to her about school first though. and then do the hair comment or something deep. not just cool shirt, do deeper. or "you seem so nice" GO DEEP!

Ask her to hangout!

[Asker]

Would it be wrong of me to slip the word ''date'' in there? Everybody ''hangs out'' with each other. But I actually want to date her.

[Opinion Owner]

Sure. I'd say hang out and then kiss her though :))))) DEFF kiss her!

[Distant]

Talk to her as a person. A girl would rather you talk to her and understand / listen rather than do what all the "popular" guys are doing and just talking to her because she's hot. The reason all the girls love that type of guy isn't necessarily because they're good-looking or popular, it's because they're good-looking and they bothered to talk to them. A good-looking shy guy will get the same results if he can communicate well with the girl in question. All he has to do is do it.

[Asker]

Here's the thing though. The only reason I want to talk to her right now is because she's attractive. I'm not saying I'm only after her for her looks or sex or anything but I know absolutely nothing about her. So wouldn't that just make me the same as all the other popular guys out there? If she turns out to be a nice girl I would definitely like to get to know her.

[Distant]

Right. That's the determining factor. Getting to know her and her being nice is part of her personality. To get to know that, you have to actually listen and to try to understand her. Regardless of her personality, the other guys just want her because she's got and only want to get to know her because she's hot. When she sees the difference, you'll stand out.

[Anonymous]

let your wallet do the talking for you. they always go for them wallets...

[MissH]

I love shy guys and I think you're impression will be anyway longer lasting :) Just because girls aren't used to get approached by shy guys... If we get approached by a 'popular' guy it's like I am number X of all those girls... But if would get approached by a shy guy I would feel special :)

+ for me popularity doesn't make a difference in noticing guys, a shy guy get's an equal chance to get noticed. So go for it, I would feel charmed!

[lthindle]

A lot of girls are impressed when shy guys come out of their comfort zone to talk to them. even if it's just a little sweet kind-ness they'll often take notice. just because she gets all the attention from loud popular guys doesn't mean she'll ignore you.

[carinabina820]

:) I like a shy guy but I don't think he notices it. If you can step out of your comfort zone for her do it!

[Eiffelgirl21]

Shy guys are actually the FIRST thing I notice when I am single.

I would never forget about him..I would try to talk to him..

[moviedude714]

they say they do but in reality they do not