What does it mean when a guy says "Let's get coffee sometime, just message me"?

[Anonymous]

He has a girlfriend. Is it just something casual guys say to their girl friends?

[Anonymous]

hmm hard to say, I would say that also if I was in a relationship but the other girl KNEW I had a girlfriend. I wouldn't randomly ask a girl to coffee unless I wanted to date her and get to know her, or she is a friend and she knows I am taken, but I want to hang out with her.

But, I wouldn't ask her out to coffee. It would be more like hey were hanging out there's a coffee shop let's talk.

It's hard to describe, but if you know he has a g. f and he knows you know. Then it's just him being friendly and wanting to talk.

[Asker]

He knows I know he has a gf, but he also knows I used to have a huge crush on him. Haha. So I'm not gonna message him because I feel like he's playing with my feelings

[Opinion Owner]

hmm... that is weird. If I knew a girl crushed on me and I had a g. f.. I don't think I would ask the girl to coffee. I'd keep away from her as to not give her any hope of the wrong idea.

I agree with you about this one. It's time for you to stay away from him.

[Asker]

Yea right... He's so confusing

[Opinion Owner]

He's not confusing it's because he knows he can have YOU and his G. F at the same time. So it makes him feel more powerful and I wouldn't be surprised if he acts out on his g. f knowing he has you as a backup option.

That's why he is acting this way.

[Asker]

That's fucked up :(

[Prof_Don]

In itself, hard to say.

It could mean "it's been awhile buddy; we should catch up"

OR

It could mean "let's have a casual date"

[Asker]

Hmm well it's definitely not "it's been a while buddy" because I saw him not too long ago. The fact that he's asking me to message him though. Why would he say that and not just set up a time there?

[Prof_Don]

he wants to talk to u arrange a time to meet up, silly!

[Asker]

I really can't tell if he wants to meet up or if he's just saying it for the sake of saying it :(

[Prof_Don]

message him and see! :)

[Prof_Don]

Thanks for picking me! 8-)

[Anonymous]

I think he just wants to talk, he is a friendly person

[KandleGuii2]

He Has A Girlfriend, iFeel. Like You shouldn't Follow Up On It, What If You Saw A Message Your Boyfriend Sent Saying "Lets Get Coffee" How Would You Feel?

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

He wants have casual conversation and talk over coffee, for bit doesn't sound like he is happy with his girlfriend

[truthbeknown]

I think it he is unhappy with his current gf and is fishing for a new one, you!