Found out my BF has a stash of 'trophy' panties from his previous 'conquests'? Do other guys actually do this kinda stuff?

[Anonymous]

So I stumbled upon my BF's super secret stash of panties from girls he's hooked up with and Im pretty much speechless LOL. He assures me mine are the last addition, but the fact that he clearly objectifies women enough to keep score like this kinda upsets me. At first I was just glad he wasn't wearing them lol and to prove it he showed me that there are indeed like a bunch of different sizes (no granny panties, but some kinda seriously big ones lol)

There are like prolly over 30 pairs! I knew he'd been with a few girls, but we'd never actually told each other our magic numbers. Scary cuz these aren't all the girls he's been with, just the ones he was able to somehow lift panties from ! Then he had the nerve to ask me to try some of them on for him! Unbelievable lol. Im not freakin out that bad, like I'm not gonna break up with him or anything silly, just kinda surprised is all.

Are there other guys out there that take the whole 'another notch in my belt' thing to this extreme?

[Anonymous]

I don't mean to bring my parents into this. But my mom... my own mother had an experience like this when she was younger she was dating a guy until she found out he had a stash of panties from conquests. My mother ran and never looked back. Guys who are successful never stop and him adding you to the collection is a HUG BIG RED FLAG. If he really cared about you he would have never added you to his stash of collection. If you are the one. I personally think you should find another guy that is not looking for conquest but looking for something more real.

[MaskofInsanity]

You're being pretty cool about this. I would be horrified, if not disgusted :/

[Asker]

Yeah I just really like this guy. We've been together for like 8 months without any serious problems, it's been great. And I knew he could be kind of a dog with girls, I've known him for a long time and he's dated some friends, but I really didn't see this coming. He's been really sweet to me, and I still believe he wouldn't cheat. But yeah, I was shocked. I just don't see any point in flipping out. Im definitely not happy about this tho and it's making me take another look at a bunch of stuff he's done and said to me

[MaskofInsanity]

I wouldn't really be bothered about the number of partners, but keeping the panties and adding my own would piss me off. Its like he just adds another to the pile, you know?

[Asker]

It definitely feels shitty thinking that he's just looking at me as like just another one in a long line of girls, no different than the rest. But yeah there were a few months when we were just hooking up before we actually started dating when he claims to have taken my undies. doesn't really make it any better but him telling me that helped to defuse the situation at first when I was kinda pissed

[MaskofInsanity]

Yeah I guess if it works out, you'll look back on it and laugh.

[bizzz]

hahaha thats good you didn't flip out. Yea it can be prideful and stem confidence from "collecting" things from girls. Who knows, maybe he's very competitive with his manhood and keeps them incase another guy or his buddy competes and says he's more successful with girls. Then your bf would bust out his collection and shut up all the haters lol

[donnny2367764]

No. But his behavior is far from normal... maybe one or two but a stash of 30 really classified him as a serial underwear thief... creepy... and yet you find it humorous when he asks you to try them on... what's going through your head? What were you thinking?

[Jessej1031]

Yes my husband has a massive collection from his days as a man whore first time I went to his house with mutul friends all girls has a resort style back yard pool hot tub bar we start drinking and everybody's talking and one of the girls ask how many panties you up to he said like 15 hangers i was like ok this guys has some std so 15 I am thinking we go into the house and one of them said let me see we go in this massive closet it was 15 hangers with 10-20 hanging on each one wtf but he was like why not looking around his closet i notice a few pair in the hamper I was he's got more he said those are my one girl said oh he wears string bikinis thats when I said this guy has some confidence he looked at me smiled and said I got some new ones I said let's see he dropped his shorts and put them on in front of all of us wtf he had a 4-5 penis and with such confidence no one batted a eye we ate he is only now wearing string bikini only he said skinny dip time they all got naked threw wet cloths in dryer and I was like I want this guy and non of the girls that were their had been with him sexually they loved him now around 1-2 am some passed out around the house and I am talking to him and he asked me out i said yes 14 years later married 11 still together and I let him keep his panty collection not hung up but in a box

[islands7]

Yeah - some weird guys - they also collect golf balls from strangers they outscored, cash from poker games, etc.

Weird to ask to model them but might also show that he's done with that.
What else does he collect?

[watcher617x]

there are lots of guys who have just stolen these and jerked in them and they;d lie and say its ex's if you ask =p

pretty stupid for still having it if he's serious about you in my opinion :P

[convo_king89]

guys love to brag about getting laid.. I've been single a while so i dont do it.. i would keep a souvenir

[Tamera952]

Kinda creepy... sounds like a pantie fetish to me.

[coffeprince]

Hmm that is strange behavior...

[Anonymous]

Some guys do, but not many.

[Gedaria]

No , I find that a bit over the top.

[Anonymous]

Did you ever end up trying them on for him?