Why doesn't he talk to me outside of class?

[Anonymous]

There's a guy I get along with really well in class and we flirt and talk the whole time, but outside of class he doesn't say anything. Not even a hey... is he not into me? We went on an unofficial kind of date, but since then he's been kind of awkward. Any ideas? I don't have his number, should I go talk to him?

[BertMacklinFBI]

yeah go talk to him. kinda steer the conversation into the exchanging of numbers. like ask him if he wanna hangout over the weekend and then give him the opportunity to ask for your number. so be like okay... so... how? and then he should cut you off and ask. damn I would've just asked for your number lol.

[Asker]

Is it a good sign that he said hi to me first today :)

[BertMacklinFBI]

Yeah that's a good sign. Its definitely not bad. Look at it this way, I personally say hi first to girls I'm interested in. Girls I'm not interested in I don't do anything, don't want to lead them on ya know?

[abcdgg]

what do u mean unofficial kind of date? what do u mean he doesn't say hey like he ignores u when he sees u? what makes it awkward.

[Asker]

so we were talking after class and we went to the little coffee shop and just sat there and talked for like an hour and then we walked over to our next class. I accidentally ditched him after that though because I had to meet my friends and we didn't exchange numbers or anything.

[abcdgg]

whose idea was this coffee shop? if it was his idea, he's interested. is she shy. i personally think he was interested and now has an inkling that you're interested and is thus nervous and freezes up when he sees u. as for him not saying hey i think maybe he wants to see if you would say hey first but u didn't so he thought U weren't interested. honestly, awkward is good. it means he feels the tension. he's interested. i'd just make it easier for him to ask u out if u re not nervous about it. tell him u need help with school work or moving heavy stuff. and later when u talk say something about blah blah text me. then he ll ask for ur number.

[Azara]

Ask him out. If he's into you and he's not crazy he'll say yes. If he's not into you or he's crazy he won't say yes. End of guessing end of problem :)

[DarkHumorRUs]

Even with my crush who I love so much I rarely talk to her outside of class. I don't see her in the hall much but when I do she doesn't let seem the open to conversation or anything. I'm not sure what's going on, but just go talk to him. If I had more clarification about my situation I'd be so happy.