Guys whats up with this guy he barely texts me anymore?

[Anonymous]

We are friends with benefits now We texted for a few days when we first meet. then we hungout and made out which led to other things. then we was suppose to hangout the weekend after but we never did and he barely texts me anymore. idk. why. he's acting different. hewould text me how happy he was to hangout on sat but we never did. now i think he could be talking to someone else now. i dont have feelkngs for him but i want to cuz i like him and i see him as a potiental. and the times we didn't hangout he would say sorry and the reason he didn't come cuz he fell asleep do u think he could like me more then fwb?

[Sixtus64]

Most friends with benefits relationships tank because emotions and desires for real connection develop with one of the partners. But both of you have already made an agreement to have sex without the emotional component and all that goes with really wanting to be with someone. If this is FWB, you are not supposed to have any emotions about ignored texts and broken dates (oops, sorry, can't call it a date when it's FWB). He may well have feelings for you greater than sexual release, but doesn't want to deal with them. Or, he's just found another girl (s).

[BertMacklinFBI]

he's either talking to other girls or he's just treating it as what it is, a friends with benefits deal. its NSA. you admitted to defecting, basically. lol. and when he apologizes it just sounds like he's being nice.

[Asker]

What do u mean i admittied to defecting?

[BertMacklinFBI]

friends with benefits is supposed to be no emotional attachment between one another and you contradicted yourself in your description. you said you don't have feelings and then stated that you do like him and see potential in him.

[Asker]

I like him as a friends with benefits now but can see him as a bf in the future. i know when i really like soneone. so u think cuz he's not speaking to me cuz it seems im getting feelings for him after one night

[BertMacklinFBI]

I don't know if he would know that or not but if you openly admit to him that you like him then that's most likely gonna push him away, and he may bounce back and forth with you. basically, if he doesn't like you enough to be in a solid relationship with you then its not going to work until he has that attraction for you, but right now he only sees you as FWB.

[Anonymous]

Well some guys are like that after they get what they want from you they think they can just put u in the background until he feels he needs that particular itch scratched. I wouldn't waste too much time worried about him like u said u don't have feelings and ur just friends with benefits try and have fun without him and just give it time if he still acting like this then I'd move on if I were you

[Asker]

So ur saying he's using me?

[Opinion Owner]

U Can't be sure unless you ask but to me that is what it looks like.
I've been there and some guys just like to play the game I could be completely wrong and this guy might be genuinely busy

[Asker]

Oh ok maybe

[justaregularguyy]

At leasts he texts you. I never text any girls or ever had fwb. I'm sure he's just busy or something.

[Asker]

So u can't tell if someone likes u through text it has to be in person its better right?

[justaregularguyy]

I would assume. I don't know I'm inexperienced with this stuff.

[MothMonsterMan]

How about you CALL him or talk to him in PERSON to find out.

[PhoebeCaulfield]

He found another girl who is putting out and moved on from you.

[Asker]

How could he when he was busy he told me everything and the evidence showed on insta

[Asker]

he's not one of those guys to put out on the first date i think sex to him is important u know only for gfs

[Donne_Love]

If you two had sex, than its was simply sexual but if you guys didn't maybe thats what he was aiming for and you didn't show the proper signs letting him know.

[Asker]

We didn't have sex.

[Donne_Love]

okay, well maybe he just may not see you in the same light as you see him luv.