If a guy calls you 'curvy', is that sugar-coating the word 'fat'?

[Anonymous]

Do guys ever call girls 'curvy' to insinuate that they think the girl is fat?

[Dignifire]

Yes, it's sugar-coating the word "fat". Ever had candied bacon? It's amazing. It's mostly sugar-coated fat. Fat is awesome.

Seriously though, ask if he likes "curvy". He probably LOVES curvy. Girls want girls to be thin because they're afraid of getting older and find comfort in holding to standards that were realistic when they were in puberty rather than standards that acknowledge reality. Guys are much more broad in their tastes, and while some like a tight athletic body, lots of men prefer curves and some fat.

[TheEnding]

Here's how I see it.
Curvy: Thicker build but still shapely and with curves in the waist.
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Fat: Thicker build, but without the curved waist and with excess fat around the stomach.
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Curvy=good, fat=not so good

[Asker]

Wow the first girl is really pretty

[TheEnding]

Yeah she's a clear 10 for me

[JM_1973]

First girl is awesome.

[Fantasygrl96]

Depends on how he says it. If he says it with a sexy smile, it means you've got womanly curves that he likes. If he says it briefly and looks away or seems uncomfortable, he may think you're fat. Maybe. But for the most part guys say what they feel, so I'd say in most cases if he says you're curvy, he really means curvy. In a good way.

[existing_not_living]

Curvy does NOT = fat. Okay? That's just what fat people tell themselves that that is what they are to make themselves feel better. My sister is curvy but she is definitely not fat.

[Asker]

So can you be slim and curvy?

[existing_not_living]

Yup. Of course you can. I don't have curves but that's just my body type. I've always been a rectangular build which is like the boyish looking body.

[existing_not_living]

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[Asker]

Haha thanks

[existing_not_living]

My pleasure, madame. :)

[Liv3_Laugh_L0Ve]

Meagan Good = Curvy
Amber Riley = Fat

Curvy = No stomach, big ass, shaped waist, thick hips
Fat = Rolls on back, rolls on stomach, 2 chins, fat stomach and fat ass

[imjustadude]

Not all fat girls are curvy, unless you think the Michelin Man is curvy. Not all skinny girls are not curvy. Yes, a guy in order to get laid will say anything to make you sound pretty. The truth is not all girls are the same kind of beautiful. It's fun to play around with some skinny girl you can pick up and carry around. It is also fun to play with fat girl boobs. It's like different flavors of ice cream. It's all good.

[relaxArtist]

The first girl is obviously really attractive. If you don't think so it's probably because you have your own insecurities that need to be dealt with, or because you've been brainwashed by Disney movies and Victoria's Secret Ads. To me the word curvy is synonymous to voluptuous, or having curves in all the "right" places (boobs, hips, ass). Now, the second girl is also really pretty; cute face and a body with "more to love" as they say. She's definitely a "heavier" woman, but not obese. The word "fat" seems to have more to do with whether or not you'd tell your friends that you woke up next to her.

[nop1234]

Curvy is the girl from all about that bass. Anything more is going into the overweight territory. And straight up telling a girl she's overweight will go badly 10/10 times. So if you're noticeably chubbier than that then yes, he may be calling you fat.

[AdamThomas]

Probably. Although my definition of curvy is someone like Christina Hendricks, not fat, just hourglass shape.

[shyguy227]

no I personally do not mistake curvy for fat there are difrences

[stevie123]

Curvy is not fat.
curvy has shape, and is the fairly normal female form.

[meatballs21]

No, girls call themselves that. I see curvy as a girl with a wider set of hips/boobs/butt but otherwise normal for her height and weight. Fat is fat.

[lexih2146]

i wouldn't think so. i get called curvy all the time and my waist is 24 inches so don't stress it.

[devon_113]

nope depends weather your fat, meaning over weight

[Yellowbone]

No, it means you have boobs, ass, & a nice shape.

[rjroy3]

Not necessarily.
Some guys do that tho

[pezzonovante88]

Not necessarily, but for me it is.

[HipHop-Kid-UK]

No he's calling you curvy

[Klaatu51]

fat isn't always bad

[Azara]

J lo is 'curvy'.

[Anonymous]

I feel like it is