Why don't guys notice me and avoid looking at me?

[Anonymous]

I notice guys normally look or stare at pretty girls but they don't look at me. I know I am pretty, I am slim, 34 c -26-36. Other beautiful girls notice me. Pretty girls always check out other pretty girls. I have really nice skin, long silky brown hair, big eyes full lips. I feel like guys go out of their way to avoid looking at me. Its hilarious, because I am pretty yet i feel ignored. I'll walk by them at the grocery store and they will turn their heads the other way when they walk passed me to avoid me, or they will look everywhere around me but at me. Its normal to kind of glance at people around you but I feel like a plague. I've had wealthy guys buy me whatever I want. Are guys really this insecure? 9/10 I'm more attractive than these guys who avoid me girlfriend lol.

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or they will look and when I turn my head their way they practically have a stroke turning away so I don't catch them. This kind of behaviour is disgusting, pussy men are the bigges tturn off.

[Anonymous]

Honestly, you're coming off as quite rude. I can understand feeling pretty in yourself, everyone should feel that way. But you think you are so pretty you expect the highest of expectations for yourself. You expect every man you look at to gawk and fawn over you and practically beg for you. Well heads up, they aren't going to do that. I think you need to really check yourself before you start posting at how other people are treating you and realize that the problem is you. You might be pretty, and it's good to have SOME confidence. You have to much and because of it expect unrealistic expectations from every person you meet. Good luck with your life.

[Falthzel]

Can you see? Average men might give you the second answer, but women don´t.

[Asker]

Lol you are really trying to convince me. I love how my beauty bothers you XD

[Asker]

Guys have said different things than you, stop deluding yourself. Go try to convince yourself that these pretty girls that don't fart in your direction really aren't pretty lol.

[Falthzel]

What beauty? All I´ve seen is "I´m beauty, I know I´m beauty." But haven´t actually seen the beauty you claim to have.

[Asker]

because my question wasn't Am I pretty? I know I am. If I wasn't beautiful would i have more than one plastic surgeon tell me I'm pretty? or have guys buying me stuff? You stupid spic, you just keep arguing. You are mexican i have never seen a good looking mexican in my life LOL

[Falthzel]

You know you are beautiful? Well, I know I´m a superhero.

Now we´re both something in theory.

[Asker]

That's different and you know it. A woman would know she's unattractive by her weight. She wouldn't have people tell her she's gorgeous and have guys by her things. You will discountw hatever I say and stick to being a troll though. It's okay, mexican's generally don't haave much better to do.

[kangy]

The asker is indeed rude. Sometimes people can sens3 negative vibes so they back off

[Falthzel]

Unattractive people who believe to be beautiful are´t just common. They´re everywhere. That´s a pretty known fact.

You might be one of them, be careful.

[Asker]

Unattractive people also don't have plastic surgeons tell them the yare beautiful ( I asked their opinion, and they had no reason to lie to me). Strangers have nothing to gain by lying to me either. So by you're logic I have had over 100 people lie to me for no reason at all. Unattractive will be told they are unattractive. I have never been called ugly. ;) Keep telling me how unattractive I am. I bet that will make you more popular with the ladies :)

[Falthzel]

So you actually hopped your plastic surgeon, the one you´re paying to, to actually tell you that you are not unattractive? In the first place, why have you had more than one plastic surgeries if you are so beautiful?

You old lady I buy my tacos from calls me handsome?

May be you don´t know, but most men have the wrong idea that telling I girl she is beautiful, even if she is not, is a way of flirting. They think calling a girl beautiful will help them sleep with them.

[Falthzel]

*The old lady instead of you old lady xD

[Falthzel]

And lastly, girls lie to each other all the time. Isn´t it like the protocol?
I´m sure you´ve told some ugly women they´re pretty at least a thousand times.

[Asker]

I haven' thad plastic surgeries, the job I have requires me to have contact with them. We talk about cosmetics and they comment on how beautiful I am. If anything, they would make money telling me I need work done ;) nice try. And why would a man try to get an unattractive woman to sleep with them? lol, and have to work so hard and flatter them to get it? Is that what sorry losers like you do? LOL Old ladies call you handsome! That answers my question ;)

[Asker]

Guys tell me I am beautiful too. Please keep trying, you will never convince me I am ugly :)

[Falthzel]

Yes, men try to sleep with attractive and unattractive females. If it wasn´t that way, unattractive ones wouldn´t exist anymore as noone would sleep with them.

My tacos distribuiter, I was just trying to make you notice how bad I feel for being mexican.

[Asker]

Only desperate pathetic losers like you try to do that. That's sad, kill yourself.

[Falthzel]

It´s actually so easy to prove you´re beautiful. Just post a picture. Are you afraid of being told you´re ugly?

If you just know you are beautiful and aren´t actually trying to prove to me how beautiful you are, why do you keep this conversation?

[Asker]

I could ask you the same question It takes two people to keep up a conversation. Why are you so eager to prove to me I'm ugly or unattractive? I know I am beautiful, It's just funny seeing you try so hard to convince me I am ugly XD If you are so convinced I am without even seeing a picture why do you keep going?

[Falthzel]

I asked first.

I´m not convinced you aren´t beautiful. I only gave you an answer to the main question you didn´t like.

You have claimed I´m ugly because of being mexican.

I already told you I´m here to entertain myself just as we all are. So continue trying to convince me you are a beauty though text.

[Asker]

Oh but you are trying to convince me. You are going to all this trouble. If you werent you would have said your thoughts and move don. You answered some one elses comment who said a different opinion than you. I don't have to prove to you I am beautiful, I know I am. I told you why I know I am. You knowing that I am beautiful would help you answer this quesiton. A picture is ont necesasry. The question really is why ignore a beautiful woman, not am I beautiful. but instead you choose to keep arguing and convincing me otherwise. You don't want to let go and no one is being entertained. You just keep going in circles :) Its quite funny

[Falthzel]

So you are entertained

I´m trying to convince you there´s a possibility you are not as beautiful as you think.

I know you´re not asking if you are beautiful or not, that´s why my answer hasn´t been yes or not.

[Asker]

You have failed convincing me :)

[Falthzel]

Whatever, I have to sleep.

[Asker]

You are trying to convince me of something that is not true, and I am not convinced. So why keep going? You are petty and doubt have any luck with attractive women

[SatanClaus]

This is easy. When a Lamborghini pulls up next to me in traffic I stare at it UNTIL the guy in the driver seat looks over at me and I look away quickly. Some men like to stare at beautiful things but don't want to be noticed doing it. Most guys don't have the confidence to talk to a pretty girl so instead they will stare and avoid eye contract so you don't see them leering at you. The best thing to do is make eye contact back at them (if you think they're cute) and smile. Maybe guys are just intimidated by your beauty and don't want you to catch them admiring you. :)

[Atarii]

If a girl is very attractive, most guys will suppose that she probably KNOWS she's attractive, and if you're caught looking at an attractive girl, well-- it's because you're ogling her.
Guys don't want to be seen ogling a pretty girl like desperate buffoons, so they look elsewhere to avoid the situation.
Me? I'll look at a pretty girl straight-on-- unless she is with a man who seems to be her boyfriend. Some guys are so macho and insecure that they'll try to start a fight with you just over line-of-sight, so it's best to avoid it.

[Icarus45]

You sound like some stuck up cocky bitch, you need to relax. Men probably ignore you because you think you're prestige, when your not. Now, if your SOOOOOO confident in you looks, why the fuck are you anonymous then? Why don't you show use picture of your face? why you being a "pussy"? Your a clown, I can't take you seriously.

[Dbt25677]

Maybe it's your attitude - I've noticed a number of similar questions recently, are they all you?
If you're serious and you're as pretty as you claim, it's most likely because guys are easily intimidated, particularly with 'betas' such as myself.

[Sreemukh]

Slef confidence maybe. I can't like a girl who doesn't beleive in herself. Body language and the way you carry yourself plays an important role. I assume its the same for ladies too.

[dimminglight]

I personally avoid your type for multiple reasons but to help you out most guys might think your to pretty and feel threatened. also guys sometimes think it's quite rude to check out a pretty lady who notices our presence and them to catch you so looking everywhere besides you is a solution dont be fooled we are still looking at you regardless

[JSmuve]

You and me both lady. Women never make eye contact with me when they pass by either. The nerve of some people. Us attractive people need attention too!

[vnon123]

You seem awfully cock of your appearance, what if your not as pretty as you've been told or guys are intimidated by you

[vnon123]

Cocky*

[Falthzel]

Maybe you are not as attractive as you think.

We all think we are beautiful until we´re told the opposite multiple times.

[Asker]

I am because people tell me I am gorgeous all the time.

[Falthzel]

They lied. Post a photo and I´ll tell you if they lied or not.

[Asker]

lol how are you so sure? You are either an ugly guy with an inferiority complex or a troll.

[Asker]

I guarentee I am better looking than you, your entire family and your girlfriend if you have one (doubtful). I wouldn't have rich guys buying me shit. It's just strangers at grocery stores who avoid eye contact.

[Falthzel]

You are unconciously scared you might not be as beautiful as you´ve always thought.

I told you, post a pic and guys will suddenly tell you if it´s because you intimidate men or because you are just not attractive.

[Asker]

I didn't post this question to ask if I am attractive. I know I am, which is why I am asking this quesiton. If knew I wasn't attractive I wouldn't be asking this. You seem really fixated on convincing me I am not beautiful when you don't even know me. This makes me think you are hurting because no beautiful woman would give you the time of day and you know this deep down inside.

[Falthzel]

"I notice guys normally look or stare at pretty girls but they don't look at me." You just answered to your own question.

I don´t hurt, I´m neutral. The only one here who´s tried to hurt is has been you.

Let´s say you actually are beautiful. You just asked something that has two possible answers. You are unattractive or you are so attractive that you intimidate. You claim in your question the first answer can´t be, so you clearly are waiting for people to tell you the second one.
Now realise how pathetic that is and imagine you weren´t beautiful. What did you end with?

[Asker]

Yes, so if I am waiting for people to tell me how attractive I am, you want to be the one who says the opposite, right? to prove something? to get a reaction? You will just keep trying to convince me until your blue in the face. Keep trying ;)

[Asker]

If you were neutral you would say two answers. You are dead set on convincing me otherwise, you have some kind of agenda. LOL, I think its bitter guys like you who see a pretty girl like me and hate that you will never have a chance so you look away cause you think, what's the point?

[Falthzel]

To get a reaction, of course.

That´s why we´re all here, to entertain our selves.

[Falthzel]

I know I can get any girl I want.

I don´t hate girls, sometimes I wished I was one, but then remember how awful they´re socially and evolutive threathed.

[Prilee1992]

F. E. A. R
is holding us back to say how we feel, to do what we wanted to do

[kangy]

For better assessment we need a picture of yourself

[Zango91]

And I though staring at pretty girls is creepy and annoying.

[Keyspirits]

Can i see a HAWT pix? Need dat in ordah to judge ;3

[Asker]

If that's you in your picture you should be much more concerned with how you look than any one else, you poor soul LOL

[Keyspirits]

Yas im U-G-L-Y do i need ur confirmation '-'
Give it up and lemme see dat perrty face ;3

[Dbt25677]

And how is @Keyspirits ugly? He's a total cutie-pie, no homo.

[EvilPimp]

Do you mean guys in general or the guys you WANT to notice you?

[StickStickity13]

Aha this is very true my friend.

[Asker]

in general. I don't make eye contact with guys either though.

[EvilPimp]

Well how do you know if you're not looking? Most guys would think a woman isn't interested if she's not looking at them. Plus if you are as attractive as you claim, most guys will pass you up simply because 9 times out of ten, a attractive woman is usually taken already.

[EvilPimp]

Sounds like you're wanting to get as much attention from guys as you can get.

[Asker]

I don't try to get attention. I avoid eye contact and act aloof. I walk with my chin up though and I don't dress skimpy. I would never go out of m yway to get attention from a guy who ignores me. I just notice guys who try to avoid me. Its funny because I have had plastic surgeons tell me I am beautiful. So why would men try to avoid me? Are they jealosu because they know I would never give them the time of day? Is it their way of sticking it to me?

[EvilPimp]

Why would you care about guys you know that you wouldn't give the time of day to noticing you?

[Asker]

because guys notice attractive women. It doesn't matter how ugly they are. And I am attractive, and im prettier than their fat old wives/girlfriends LOL

[EvilPimp]

Still why do you need attention from them so bad? Do you want to feel superior or something?

[Asker]

I guess I expect attention because I am pretty, you have a point though.

[EvilPimp]

Be grateful for the attention you do get.

[Asker]

why?

[EvilPimp]

Because some women never get any attention period.

[Anonymous]

34 c -26-36 wtf does that mean I'm not a girl all I understand is C cup but I have no idea how you look.

[Asker]

if you don't know what that means then you are a waste of time good bye

[Opinion Owner]

You're a waste of time that's why guys ignore you. Mean don't give a stuff about measurements except for cup size.

[crs23]

can't tell from text they could just be intimidated.
Send me a pic if you want and I'll give you a more accurate answer

[Maazin]

I think we have some very good judges here. You should share your pics with them !!!

[meatballs21]

Conceit is a pretty big turn off too, ya know.

[Anonymous]

It's probably the way u come off..

[Asker]

You are trying to convince me of something that is not true, and I am not convinced. So why keep going? You are petty and doubt have any luck with attractive women

[Opinion Owner]

You really need to take a good long look in a mirror and I don't mean an actual one but u come off like you think your better than every other girl out there... It's not all about looks honey that's the tip of the ice berg it's about inner beauty And humbleness and the way you are coming off is stuck up.. Don't put other women down that just shows insecurity...

[Opinion Owner]

Lol you sound so juvenile it's almost sad... Why on earth would you compare yourself to other women.. Be happy with who you are... And I can tell you aren't otherwise you wouldn't have to tear other women down.. Build yourself from the inside otherwise you are going to have a tough time in life. Sure you might get a guy to sleep with you or even date for awhile but no man would want to marry a women who is self conceited and has an inflated head about herself. My advice get real.

[Opinion Owner]

by the way you aren't pretty... Your attitude and way about life makes you a very ugly women

[bigdude39]

What we call this is Narcissistic