How do I stop being dirty-minded?

[Anonymous]

I've always been kind of easy-going about all things dirty so I get along well with guys compared to the other girls.

I've recently been kind of irked because my boyfriend keeps making sexual jokes with me. It makes me feel sort of slutty? We haven't done anything whatsoever. I just kind of want to be like the other girls and be easy going without the sexual innuedos.

I don't particularly mind them. But it kind of annoys me when I joke about it with my boyfriend. It feels weird and kind of un-relationship-y in my opinion.

In the back of my mind, I can picture him and the other guys talking to girls not in the same way as I talk to them.

What do I do to stop it? Do I even need to change this "part" of me?

[EyeSeaYew]

Better to be the cool girl guys can tell dirty jokes around than the prissy one you have to walk on eggshells around lest her delicate ears bleed.

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[Asker]

agreed, thanks for calling me cool ;) hahaha

[SuperMommie13]

Don't change a thing, it's a part if who you are. And it very normal to talk like that at least in my relationships.

[Asker]

okay thanks so much haha

[SuperMommie13]

Lol yea no problem

[clivesay]

I think thats kind of cool in my opinion, it makes you seem laid back and gives you something to relate with. Sex jokes are ment to be funny its not slutty or anything like that.

[Asker]

well okay, I guess I'm just being extra paranoid haha

[Anonymous]

Soap your mind, LOL.

[Asker]

extreme scrubbing and deleting p*rn files in brain..

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for mho.

[Masterchief1]

Dont change who you are just tell him that some of the jokes he makes make you feel uncomfortable but also let him know that you don't mined dirty joke just he needs to know the line he can't cross so to speak with you

[Asker]

Okay thank you!

[Masterchief1]

Yup your welcome. My girlfriend is the same way she told me the line so i don't try to go into the uncomfortable area but do slip some

[vet31bSoldier]

You don't, b/c its fun!

So... making sexual jokes... with your boyfriend... feels un-relationship-y?

That is a joke right?

[Asker]

it is fun but it seems like I'm the booty call even though we don't even booty

you get what I'm saying? xD

okay maybe I'm thinking wayy too much into this

[vet31bSoldier]

I just don't get how making sexual jokes with your bf feels "un-relationship-y"... if there is ANYONE you should make those jokes with, its him, whether y'all fuck or not.

[Asker]

mmm I don't know, to me it just makes it a less serious relationship. I'll just go with the flow :/

[vet31bSoldier]

wow... the man you marry one day will be one "lucky" guy...

"Honey, don't say that dirty stuff!! It feels weird and less "marriage-y"!!!

*facepalm*

[Asker]

heyy that's mean 😂

I don't know it just makes me feel kind of slutty as opposed to being comfortable with him.

[vet31bSoldier]

as I said..."lucky guy..."

[Asker]

hahahah you're actually making me feel better

thanks

[vet31bSoldier]

k yw

[Michael-in-SC]

If that's who you are, then you don't change it. Perhaps some day you will change and that part may change, too.

[Asker]

Thank you for the advice :3

[Pepmeister]

If that is the true you dont change a thing.

[Asker]

thank you very much 👌👌

[Pepmeister]

Your very welcome

[kep79]

start having sex

[Asker]

underage 😭😭