Guys! Do you ever date girls out of pity or guilt?

[_azure]

A lot of girls dig their own graves by agreeing to date with a guy because they don't want to hurt them with rejection.

Do guys ever do this?

What are the reasons that you usually ask out a girl or agree to go out with her?

Because she's pretty, because she is compatible to you, because you feel sorry for her and don't want to hurt her, because you think it'll be fun or etc?

[Punkbuster107]

I would never date a girl out of guilt or pity,

I date a girl because I think there is at least a chance she could be the right one for me in the long run. If she turns out not to be, pity or guilt may make breaking up hard, but I try to get it over with as soon as possible, because I think the longer you wait to break it to somebody the more pain it causes.

I want to determine what girl is compatible with me while while causing the least emotional pain possible, and when possible I try to determine it before even stepping beyond friendship.

[_azure]

Fair enough.

Thank you :))))

[Metalizer]

I have. Didn't wanna be a dick.

It kinda back fired tho because they all told me I was leading them on, oh irony.

[_azure]

I guess nothing good ever does come unless we're truthful.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Not really. Since it's usually me who is making the move, and me who is paying for the date, it's not going to be with someone out of pity.

[_azure]

Let's say she asks you out, and you don't particularly like her, would you be tempted to say yes anyways?

[yaddayaddayadda02]

It wouldn't be out of pity. It would be more of a "well, you know, I'm not sure but it's just one date and could turn out fun". Unless I really found her physically unattractive, then I wouldn't go on the date.

[_azure]

Hmm well alright I get it

[_azure]

Thank you

[suburbanexalation]

Welol if you ask her out out of pity. U will have to dump her and that will make you feel even worse, I would let her down slow when she asked

[_azure]

So I'm guessing you'll only accept if you genuinely like the girl?

[suburbanexalation]

Well yeh because I wouldn't want to go out with a girl unless I was attracted to her

[killerboots]

Nah since I'm usually making the move. One of the few benefits of making the move. ah HAAAA!

[white_light]

Well dumping her later on will hurt her even more than the initial... that's why I don't do that

[BertMacklinFBI]

never have I ever! lol.