He's feeling weird?

[Linsey]

I was supposed to go over to the guys house that I've been seeing. But he canceled on me, because he says "hes feeling weird" what does this even mean? I asked him if he is actually feeling weird or if he just doesn't want me over but he said no I'm feeling weird. I don't really know what to think of this. Nothing has changed since we've seen each other last. Has anyone every said this?

[chamberri]

Don't listen to these people! He's hiding something,it's not rocket science to explain what you're feeling. I mean,no stomach pains,no headache,no depression,no nausea,just...weird? THAT'S weird,the early days of my relationship had moments where she felt weird but at least I got an explanation,usually it was her cramps but she was still willing to let me come by and just sit instead of going out like we planned.

True story,my girlfriend sister is suspicious of her man because he cancelled on her at the last minute,he was gonna go to her place and watch wrestling but then he said "I feel weird,I'll be there later." After that he didn't answer the phone,she was just sad and quiet,then my lady called me and told me how much she appreciated me,COMMUNICATION IS KEY and if he can't do better than "I feel weird" you should be a little cautious.

[Linsey]

Yeah like really...i can't come over because he's feeling weird? You think I could make it better maybe, but I guess not. I even told him "do you really feel weird or just not want me over?" And he said yeah no I feel weird for some reason. I mean come on I'm a big girl...i don't know why he would turn it around all of a sudden though.

[davyjones]

drop him like a heartattack. go out and have the most fun nights possible. don't speak don't say anything to him l e a v e I t . he will call. hell want to break up or see you. tell him I thought we broke up already. I figured we were seeing other people. hell be like are you seeing someone else, you'll be like ill talk to you tommorow I gotta go out. when you chat to him tell him you took a few numbers but you haven't called them because you did kinda like him. tell him you need to tell me what's going on tho. to which hell be like putty in your hands. or if not f*** him. you're very cute. don't worry about it. its his loss.

[madmisskelly]

I hate to be blunt but it seems like he's just not interested.

Because if he was feeling weird but in a sick way, then he would just tell you. Either way you don't want him. Because if he was into you, he wouldn't have canceled, he would want to see you. Or if he was sick, and still into you, he would have apologized because he cares and doesn't want you to get hurt.

I say forget him, stop calling him, kinda drop off the face of the earth. I bet once you do that he'll come crawling back. just don't take his lame butt back.

[jaccckie-x]

Im sure that he was just "feeling weird" like unwell.

If he cancells on you again then take it on the chin and move on...If he likes you so much he will run after you :) Don't chase him! But keep acting normal just now...maybe you suggest going over to his...just be like "So hey what you doing just now..was going to come round see you if you weren't busy" If he makes up a lame exuce then he's not worth your time and effort chick :)

Good Luck! x

[paigems]

It just sounds like he doesn't feel good. Maybe he's starting to get sick? I always say "I don't feel good" or "I feel sick;" however, my dad always says he feels weird or odd. Anyways, relax, I think you might be worrying a little too much.

[Linsey]

But then I asked him what he's going to do today then, and he said skateboard because it clears his mind or go see a movie with his friend ryan, because apparently they planned it for awhile..so he can go to the movies but not have me over?

[paigems]

I don't know then. Why not just ask him what he meant the next time you talk to him?

[Linsey]

Well I asked him why when he told me, he said he didn't know and that he just does.

[WeaponZero]

You're obsessing over this way too much. No offense but this is coming across as you being overly clingy and obsessive, and I doubt your boyfriend would look at you the same way if he knew you were being so worrysome about it. Take it at face value and that's that. He's feeling weird. It probably has absolutely nothing to do with you but wow, you're acting scary about this.

[Linsey]

Lol I know I am pretty crazy...kidding. But were not dating just seeing eachother, so that's why I'm overthinking it

[sonic241928]

It probably doesn't have anything to do with you, if there are other definite signs that he likes you. Countless times I've said similar things and avoided girls I've been very interested in because of illness or just feeling "messed up" one day. A guy wants to feel well physically and be in the right frame of mind when around the girl he likes. Please, don't worry about it too much.

[Linsey]

Well the thing is I don't know what his definate feelings are. When were together he acts like he has feelings and when were not it feels so different. So I said to him today how I don't know if we shud sleep together anymore because I don't know how he feels. He kind of shrugged it off and said I'm going to ignore that for now, I told you I was in a weird mood. Why does he have to ignore it why can't he just tell me? So then I kind of started freaking out and he said I was overkill...

[sonic241928]

A guy will sometimes (if not most of the time) have a hard time discussing emotional issues, especially when in a bad mood. A bad mood is just that, a passing emotional phase where he's not going to be very open in dealing with you or anyone else. Just give him some time. As hard as it is for you, try not to be too dependent on his affection at this time, and seek out other things you enjoy (friends, family, hobbies, etc.). The next time you hang out, things should be clearer. Best of luck.

[Linsey]

Okie well thank a lot, it helps. I just hope he understands why I was freaking out a little bit.

[sonic241928]

Very glad I helped. Just remember that guys express emotions differently from girls--the saying "actions speak louder than words" would definitely apply here. Give him some time, and then watch his actions more than his words. The best to you.

[neberle]

Feeling weird I is the same thing as confused (at least for me) it meens he is having a little doubts but likes you. If you respect that don't call txt or talk to him till he comes to you he will appriciate you if not you will be overly needy and he might break up with you. I have every time a girl hasn't given me space when "I'm feeling wierd".

If you give him space he will call when he has figured things out.

[michitas]

maybe he just wasn't feeling good and it didn't have anything to do with you? I mean, I feel weird from time to time...but I always say this when I'm tired after a hard day and can't think straight and am exhausted. don't worry so much :)

[Linsey]

You think I could make it better though maybe lol and he had yesterday and today off work! I don't know what he could feel weird from. I'm trying not to worry about it though, just if I really wanted to see someone I wouldn't cancel...

[Euro-Raver]

God dammit why does everything have to have a hidden meaning? Have you ever considered that maybe he told you point blank "I'm feeling weird" because he feels weird.

[Linsey]

Yeah but shud he not want to actually see me?

[Euro-Raver]

When I got out of surgery last year and was on Vicadin for a week because of how screwed up I was I definitely did not want my girlfriend to see me like that. I looked pitifully broken like an old man. She came over once without telling me before, and I pulled myself together for all of 10 minutes and try'd to act 'normal.' Soon as she left I passed out from fatigue of sitting up.

[Linsey]

Thats intense...and I completley see where you're coming from. But this guy hasn't been through anything traumatic and he told me he was guna go see a movie with his friend later because they had a plan for awhile. If I felt weird enough to cancel on the guy I liked I would def cancel on the movie as well. Maybe that's just me though. But I told him how I don't know if we shud still sleep together because I don't know how he really feels about me, and he said he was gonna ignore the question for now..wth

[kriskiss]

um not sure how old is he and how long have you been sleeping together and how long did you know him or date him before sleeping with him and I can tell you a better a good accurate answer?

[Linsey]

Hes 21, and its been about three months, with one month barely talking. So I guess I've been sleeping with him for about two months.

[Little-Hippie]

It just means he's feeling weird, but he doesn't really know if he's sick or if it's something else.

[wally]

Don't worry too much he's just tired or don't feel good.

[tyrantfuryre]

He may be sick or maybe something happened to him that you don't know about. Don't worry or even think about it.

[missysenorita]

My theory is that usually in my perspective guys don't like opening up that well as girls, so they make up an excuse to hide something embarrassing for example.

[onedot09]

Maybe he doesn't want you to be seen by his family? Is his family strict on relationships?

[Linsey]

I don't think so, but he has his own place.

[kittykat77]

run like heck.