Why is he acting weird?

[prettylovescats]

After a year of getting to know this guy … we had sex.. I kept telling him I didn’t want to be ghosted … I ask him if I can suck his dick… he said not today and how he’s not in the mood … how his family is coming over. He won’t have time to chill with me. I told him enjoy :) and the next day I got no text message nothing from him … did I do something wrong by telling him I didn’t want to be ghosted?

[Anonymous]

You really didn't do anything wrong. But there might be something else going on. Perhaps he's genuinely busy with some family matters or feeling a bit down, who knows?

You might just have to assume that he's actually seeing his family. I would suggest waiting and letting him be the one who texts you.

[Rinalos]

I have a feeling maybe he has some trauma and he’s not open to a relationship like that.

[spartan55]

What kind of dude turns down a blowjob?

[Zenpanda]

One with some self respect.

[spartan55]

He doesn't have self respect from turning that down. That's ridiculous.

[Zenpanda]

You realise that accepting any offer of a blowjob thrown your way just makes you a slut right?

[spartan55]

Spoken like a guy who never gets them.

[Zenpanda]

Hahaha, what's wrong? Felt offended getting called a slut and realized I'm right?

[spartan55]

You couldn't offend me if you tried junior.

[Zenpanda]

Junior 😂 you're going to make me feel young

[Emanon25]

He’s probably not interested to continue