Is it true that if a guy is ignoring you, then he is just not that into you or that they are talking to other girls?

[Anonymous]

There are times when I will be talking to this guy every singled day. He would text me like clockwork asking what I was up to or what i was doing. Then all of a sudden he would just stop. That led me to believe that he became interested in someone else. After not speaking to me for 3 weeks i suddenly got a text from him out of the blue! We hung out at his place that night and then the next day, he said he would text me. Its been almost a week and still nothing from him. He looks at my snapchat stories but doesn't text me! I know that I probably shouldn't have responded to him or willingly showed up to his door when he invited me over after not speaking to me for a weeks, but i thought he wasn't going to ignore me again! its frustrating. Why would he ignore me? I thought he liked me because all the signs were there

[genuinlysensitive]

Well as to the question, just because he is ignoring you doesn't mean he is not that into you, as for talking with other girls, since he is not in a relationship (I'm guessing) he has every right to talk and flirt with other girls just like you have every right to talk and flirt with other guys.

There are many reasons why he might be ignoring you, he thinks you friendzoned him, he is busy with work/school/family, and yes possibly he is not interested. If you are start flirting with him more frequently and intensely, and look for responses that he is into you, flirting back spending more time with you etc .

[SomeoneImportant]

Majority of guys who are single talk to and flirt with multiple girls. So he may be exploring his other options.

[Jennjennie]

In my most humble opinion, forget about him. Evidently he feels you are going to b " available" for whenever he wishes, therefore he is leaving you as option for when he decides he is bored or wants company!

[Asker]

i agree. he probably is just using me for his own convenience, especially since he just texts me after not speaking to me for weeks. He mustve been bored and horny that night he got a hold of me

[Jennjennie]

There you go!!! When we are
Really attracted to a person we try and see the best in them; and when we get their attention it's as if everything they once did to make us feel lonely vanishes. But keep it on your kind ALWAYS, and no matter how much you are tempted to text back DONT :) there's plenty of guys out there! Don't sweat it ;)

[Babz8907]

It could be both reasons. Leave him be and see what happens. There's better guys out there hun