What does it mean when guy asks "are you tired " which I responded "do I look tired " and he said " no no you're pretty" ?

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did he said it just so I would not get mad or he genuinely thought so. Would like to hear your opinion :).

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dartmaul15 Follow
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He asked a legit question, probably out of concern for your wellbeing.
You replied in an arguably rude and hostile way, ehich made him reply in a fashion intended to drop the question and defuse the situation.

In short, he cared about your wellbeing and you put him off with your reply.

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- Asker
  
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  the reason I replied that way is that was the first time I talked to him , his friend was asking me out and he was with him like a wingman :D
  
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- Debbie2020
  
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  This^^
  He put up his guard cuz of the way you responded to a normal question.
  
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- Asker
  
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  so does he think am I b*ch now :D
  
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- dartmaul15
  
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  not that bad, but it wasn't exactly a star in your book.
  But then again, you were out with his friend, not him, so it wasn't exactly a bad idea to put him down. Just be a little more gentle next time. Giving the wingman a bad impression of you isn't exactly going to help XD
  
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- Asker
  
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  how so, he's going to talk sh*t about me? :D
  
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- dartmaul15
  
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  it's not "talking shit" if it's the truth. And in all honesty, you did give him a reason to doubht your kind nature...
  
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GiveMeABreakPlz Follow
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The guy has no spine... He said 'no no you're pretty' because that's what he thought you would want to hear.

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- Asker
  
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  so he basically lied :D
  
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- GiveMeABreakPlz
  
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  yep, 100% sure.
  
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Anonymous
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Why would you get mad if someone asked you if you're tired?

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- Asker
  
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  I didn't get mad but he was so defensive when I said do I look tired :D
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  Because he didn't want you to think he was saying something bad. By answering the way you did he put up his guard.
  
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- Asker
  
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  but did he really mean it when he responded no no you're pretty what do you think?
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  I think he did. I don't think he's in love with you though like @monesh suggested but, it does sound like he's into you.
  
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- Asker
  
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  I didn't mention in my question, but this guy was with his friend who was trying to ask me out. why would he call me pretty infront of his friend who was trying to ask my number.
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  Just because his friend likes you that means that he can't like you?
  
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- Asker
  
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  maybe the other one could get jealous and they are very good friends :D but I first thought he was just being friendly
  
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monesh Follow
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I think he loves you.. is he you bf?

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- Asker
  
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  No that was actually the first time I talked to him :D
  
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- monesh
  
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  yea!!! guys do fall in love when a unknown girl smiles a him,,, did u smile at him>>
  
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- monesh
  
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  @alesha52212
  
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- Asker
  
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  :D I dont know I just went silent when he said no you're pretty
  
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- monesh
  
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  @alesha52212 cool!! but what was the guy's reaction when you moved?
  
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- Asker
  
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  moved? what do you mean
  
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