What does it mean when guy asks "are you tired " which I responded "do I look tired " and he said " no no you're pretty" ?

Question

did he said it just so I would not get mad or he genuinely thought so. Would like to hear your opinion :).

Answer 1

dartmaul15 | 354 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

He asked a legit question, probably out of concern for your wellbeing.
You replied in an arguably rude and hostile way, ehich made him reply in a fashion intended to drop the question and defuse the situation.

In short, he cared about your wellbeing and you put him off with your reply.

Asker

+1 y
the reason I replied that way is that was the first time I talked to him , his friend was asking me out and he was with him like a wingman :D
Debbie2020

+1 y
This^^
He put up his guard cuz of the way you responded to a normal question.
Asker

+1 y
so does he think am I b*ch now :D
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dartmaul15

+1 y
not that bad, but it wasn't exactly a star in your book.
But then again, you were out with his friend, not him, so it wasn't exactly a bad idea to put him down. Just be a little more gentle next time. Giving the wingman a bad impression of you isn't exactly going to help XD
Asker

+1 y
how so, he's going to talk sh*t about me? :D
dartmaul15

+1 y
it's not "talking shit" if it's the truth. And in all honesty, you did give him a reason to doubht your kind nature...

Answer 2

Asker

the reason I replied that way is that was the first time I talked to him , his friend was asking me out and he was with him like a wingman :D

Answer 3

Debbie2020

This^^
He put up his guard cuz of the way you responded to a normal question.

Answer 4

Asker

so does he think am I b*ch now :D

Answer 5

dartmaul15

not that bad, but it wasn't exactly a star in your book.
But then again, you were out with his friend, not him, so it wasn't exactly a bad idea to put him down. Just be a little more gentle next time. Giving the wingman a bad impression of you isn't exactly going to help XD

Answer 6

Asker

how so, he's going to talk sh*t about me? :D

Answer 7

dartmaul15

it's not "talking shit" if it's the truth. And in all honesty, you did give him a reason to doubht your kind nature...

Answer 8

GiveMeABreakPlz

Xper 5

The guy has no spine... He said 'no no you're pretty' because that's what he thought you would want to hear.

Asker

+1 y
so he basically lied :D
GiveMeABreakPlz

+1 y
yep, 100% sure.

Answer 9

Asker

so he basically lied :D

Answer 10

GiveMeABreakPlz

yep, 100% sure.

Answer 11

Anonymous

Why would you get mad if someone asked you if you're tired?

Asker

+1 y
I didn't get mad but he was so defensive when I said do I look tired :D
Opinion Owner

+1 y
Because he didn't want you to think he was saying something bad. By answering the way you did he put up his guard.
Asker

+1 y
but did he really mean it when he responded no no you're pretty what do you think?
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Opinion Owner

+1 y
I think he did. I don't think he's in love with you though like @monesh suggested but, it does sound like he's into you.
Asker

+1 y
I didn't mention in my question, but this guy was with his friend who was trying to ask me out. why would he call me pretty infront of his friend who was trying to ask my number.
Opinion Owner

+1 y
Just because his friend likes you that means that he can't like you?
Asker

+1 y
maybe the other one could get jealous and they are very good friends :D but I first thought he was just being friendly

Answer 12

Asker

I didn't get mad but he was so defensive when I said do I look tired :D

Answer 13

Opinion Owner

Because he didn't want you to think he was saying something bad. By answering the way you did he put up his guard.

Answer 14

Asker

but did he really mean it when he responded no no you're pretty what do you think?

Answer 15

Opinion Owner

I think he did. I don't think he's in love with you though like @monesh suggested but, it does sound like he's into you.

Answer 16

Asker

I didn't mention in my question, but this guy was with his friend who was trying to ask me out. why would he call me pretty infront of his friend who was trying to ask my number.

Answer 17

Opinion Owner

Just because his friend likes you that means that he can't like you?

Answer 18

Asker

maybe the other one could get jealous and they are very good friends :D but I first thought he was just being friendly

Answer 19

monesh

Xper 4

I think he loves you.. is he you bf?

Asker

+1 y
No that was actually the first time I talked to him :D
monesh

+1 y
yea!!! guys do fall in love when a unknown girl smiles a him,,, did u smile at him>>
monesh

+1 y
@alesha52212
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Asker

+1 y
:D I dont know I just went silent when he said no you're pretty
monesh

+1 y
@alesha52212 cool!! but what was the guy's reaction when you moved?
Asker

+1 y
moved? what do you mean

Answer 20

Asker

No that was actually the first time I talked to him :D

Answer 21

monesh

yea!!! guys do fall in love when a unknown girl smiles a him,,, did u smile at him>>

Answer 22

monesh

@alesha52212

Answer 23

Asker

:D I dont know I just went silent when he said no you're pretty

Answer 24

monesh

@alesha52212 cool!! but what was the guy's reaction when you moved?

Answer 25

Asker

moved? what do you mean

What does it mean when guy asks "are you tired " which I responded "do I look tired " and he said " no no you're pretty" ?

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