Do girls like nice and sensitive guys? (Page 3)

[Reneesusan]

We all get hurt and cry it isn't thing to be ashamed of. Make new friends and stop living in the past. Girls like sensitive guys but the also like feeling as if they can lean on you. But don't be afraid to get out there, and don't beat ur self up over every break up or rejection.

[CarolzS2]

Well... I like sensitive men in a way tht they are aware of my feelings, respect them and are caring to me. And I wouldn't care if he cries cause that's a normal thing. I dont see any problem with that, however the boy must be 'strong' enough to be able to support me when I need it.

[supgirl34]

All that happens , we all get hurt for guys and girls alike. Are you going to suffer? Yes but you'll learn and it will be worth it. I was bullied to (in the time when nobody cared if you where bullied ) but you grow up and get over it. I love being an adult because you choose who you relate too and what you want to do. As for the girlfriend look for someone that shares your interests , look for her and eventually you'll find her. There are billions of humans (literaly ) I'm sure you'll connect with someone if you keep clear what you want and who you are. Finally, always look for ways of improving yourself. That's hard too but start with baby steps and you'll see results. Best wishes this 2015 !!!

[MFoey]

frankly, a guy that I know is sweet and sensitive is the only way to go. I've been hit on before by douchebag guys that really didn't care about me, and I still fell for the down-to-earth sweetie. and, I love when guys cry at movies, because then I don't feel alone when I start bawling, and it shows real emotion. I can't think of one girl who wants to date a guy with no emotions.
you've just got to put yourself out there, and some girl will realize you're her dream guy. don't worry :)

[blushybum]

I would say that most girls prefer down to earth and sensitive guys. It's not something you should be embarrassed by, it's who you are and someday a girl will come along and love you for being like that. I must add, that trust is one of the biggest issues in relationships these days. When you get a girl, don't be afraid that she'd do something like that as she'll probably realise sooner or later that your worrying that she'd do that and hurt you, and trust me girls will leave if they feel you don't trust them. Start by trusting yourself, and when you can trust yourself you'll be able to trust us girls more.

[lola5]

I like guys that are 'human' - as all humans have emotion but i can't bare over sensitive guys as its a bit pathetic. I like guys that are sensitive towards others and respectful of their feelings. It is also hard to love a worrier. If you are that's fine but just try not to let others notice :) if you appear chilled and happy with yourself then people will become attracted :)

[TeaHeeHee]

Yes, I love sensitive guys. But my friend was dating one and he was just too overly sensitive. He got too insecure and wouldn't give her space and started trying to manipulate her. He only thought about himself.
You sound sweet, hope you find a special someone ^_^

[TheMarble]

I go out of my way for others too. I care probably too much about people. But there are girls that aren't for you and then there are girls that are. You probably question " what if it doesn't work out?" But have you ever questioned " what if it does?" Yes some people may not be as down to earth caring as you are but if you find someone you are compatible with, if she's right for you, if you really like her, just show her who you are, it's worth it.

[NoDoubt]

I know exactly how you feel! I wouldn't mind being with someone like that one day. I can watch movies like the Notebook and other sad but good movies and not cry but when I watch Wreck it Ralph, the ending makes me cry because it's so happy lol 😂 I'm 18 in 2 days. You will find the right girl who will love you and care for you :-) Don't be ashamed of who you are! People will tell you you aren't a man because you're sensitive, but I say that you're quite the contrary.

[NotInterested001]

Aww. I think having the characteristic of sensitivity is a great quality for a guy. There are some guys out there that don't feel a thing. And when you meet you the right gal, she'll understand you perfectly--how you are, how you feel (especially for others). And if she really loves you, she'll value that aspect about you.
:)

[corolfulltiger22]

I think the reason u haven't had a girlfriend before is that you rely too much too your feelings and don't use the logic. We must have a perfect balance to logic and feelings. You don't need to worry for such things just forget about that thing continue to live your life the way you want and remember that the moment you stop searching for something is the moment you actually find it. And yes girls love sensitive guys 😉. I hope my advise helped you😁.

[kheserthorpe]

Id say they like guys who are benevolent. They also like guys who are emotionally aware.

Sensitive? No. They like guys who are tough.

[sexyelephant]

Absolutely true.

[kangy]

Yes girls do like that but u need to know that it takes more than being nice and sensitive to capture a girl's heart. compatibility comes in.
Relationship is never a bed of roses, but on gag it seem like some have this fantasy it would be. u just have to go out and venture and take risk

[Bluemax]

" it takes more than being nice and sensitive to capture a girl's heart."
Say it, sister! Truer words were never spoken.

[Anonymous]

You sound like a really nice guy. I have never had a boyfriend, but I would like a sensitive guy who cares about my feelings. It sounds like you would really love a girl, and give her your all and not let her down. Feelings are always great to have, and if you are as nice as you sound, I don't see why any girl wouldn't adore that, I know I would. Make sure to get a few friends before a girlfriend, then you can have friends to look to if things aren't going so well, they could even help you meet some ladies!

[Anonymous]

Yes. The notion that women prefer assholes, and "bad boys" is mostly a stereotype that is sometimes true, but usually not.

My perfect guy is someone I could sit on the roof with, looking at the stars, and listening to me.. and me listening to him. I like sweet guys, who are genuinely nice. As soon as a guy is rude, or snappy, or insults me-I automatically dislike him. Huge turn-off.

I like nice guys :)

[Canterbury_Bellz]

Well honestly i like a sensitive guy who can cry, but can step up when I need them. There is no need to be super manly. I'm kind of shy and sensitive myself; so i need someone who can sympathize and care but also be my back bone. Everyone's different. just don't be a dick

[MakeitOrDieTrying]

lol hell no. All these answers of 'aww that's sweet' is bs. It's the same answer they give to a nice guy 'aww you're sweet, you'll make a great boyfriend for someone'. Being sensitive is good but it seems that's ALL you are right now. You gotta be well rounded... not just a cry baby

[I_M_LEGEND]

lose the nice guy syndrome... women are meant to be dominated and devoured... when they respect you, theyll be attracted to you. nice isn't memorable... nice is nice. it means nothing but can work against you.

considering your personality, i think you need a very sensitive women like yourself.

[Anonymous]

It depends. No girl wants an asshole. But I once dated a guy who was very "nice and sensitive" and it became very annoying. He was very needy, and emotional. It was off-putting and came off as insecure. It didn't last. I like sensitive, but you have to be a man and have some balls too. I shouldn't have more balls than my bf...

[Anonymous]

Of course! Girls really do like sensitive, good guys. Like other posters, I agree you ought to make friends before getting a girlfriend. Just a warning though, to some girls if you are too insecure (being afraid of rejection, etc) it can be a turnoff. But yeah, girls love guys who care about others feelings.