Do girls like nice and sensitive guys?

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I'm a virgin and never had a girlfriend. I'm consider myself nice and friendly. I don't talk much, but I'm pretty down to earth and friendly to everyone. I don't have any friends though. I was bullied through school and I cried a lot. I'm such a sensitive person. I care about others people's feelings even when I don't want to. I sometimes almost cry when watching movies. I'm afraid if I love a girl she'll cheat on me or reject me.

cuddlyqueen · Accepted Answer

I can't speak for other girls... as I think my views are abnormal - but I can tell you a bit about my views and life - maybe it will help.

Sorry to hear what you're going through... I'm a 24 year old girl who are very sensitive myself... I was also bullied throughout my childhood. I only really "grew up" about 2 years ago, and then started partying for the first time and now have a large group of friends. But before then I hardly had any friends... I just wanted to be alone with myself... things only started changing when I started seeing a psychologist who helped me to get out of my comfort zone. Things are 80% better - but I still have difficulty when romantic relationships.

I always tend to go for the "sensitive" guys. I'm a very deep person, and need someone in my life who can talk about deep things, and stuff that matters... and the only guys who I seem to get that from are the mentally unstable ones - the ones who don't know who they are and are figuring themselves out. I find vulnerability in a guy extremely handsome - It's like I become a cushion for them and I end up enjoying it - I become a motherly friend for them, that they get attached to - then I get put in the friends zone cause they are scared they will lose me. So I know that I shouldn't be attracted to the sensitive kind - but truth is that I am and I will probably always be. I need someone who are deep themselves, and have experience a couple of hard things in life so that I'm able to connect with them. I had a pretty hard life and needed to grow up before my time.

I'm a 24 year old virgin - not out of choice. I grew up pretty religious - but I'm over that. I want to have sex - but I get the feeling guys are scared that it will be too intimate because they all have close bonds with me. So I kind of bring all of this onto myself.

Message me if you wanna talk.

Lucylou1990 · Accepted Answer

It's great if a guy is considerate and sensitive. Any genuine person will value that. I would say be yourself always. Relationships can be tricky and there is always a risk of getting hurt if you trust somebody else. That's not a reason to avoid them though. Rejection happens to everyone, be it by your crush, or not getting a job you want, so maybe work on your self-confidence first. Even though rejection will still hurt (because we all have an ego) you will bounce back a lot more easily, and it will still hurt but not crush you. Concentrate on you, what makes you the best person you can be (not what other people look for/typically find attractive) and the things you value in a person, the things you want to be good at. That way, when you do meet a girl that likes you, you know its you she is genuinely interested in, not an illusion of what you think people want to see. The guys who are themselves around me are the ones I'm interested in. Concentrate on you, and let anyone that is just out to criticise p*ss off, they are not worth your energy or worry. Best of luck, and there is a girl out there that'll love you for you :-)

JuzAnotherGirl · Accepted Answer

YES definitely YES, girls do like sensitive guys :)
But make sure you don't overdo it. Girls like to be with a strong guy, that way they feel secure :)
Sensitive guys are cute :) They like it when you show your feelings to them :)

Bluemax · Accepted Answer

Women like men who are attractive to them. Don't get me wrong, there's nothing with being a caring and sensitive person, but that alone will not necessarily ATTRACT a woman (though it often does have a certain staying power).

It's great that you care about other people, but what are you doing to make yourself ATTRACTIVE to women (and I mean that physically and mentally)? What are you doing to make your life extraordinary? How often are you putting yourself out there?

I'm afraid rejection is part and parcel with dating, my friend. You're going to have to accept that. I know that different people respond to rejection differently. Some people seem to take it harder than others. I honestly don't know how to help you in that regard, other than to tell you that perhaps with practice you will cultivate a thicker skin in that regard. By the way, I remember hearing a study on NPR about how there is a correlation with bullying and how hard one takes rejection. There's also a correlation between brain anatomy and how hard one takes rejection. So I understand that you take it very hard, my good man, but don't take those feelings out on other people (though you seem caring enough that you probably already know that).

Nomad93 · Accepted Answer

Your probably not as nice as you think you are. I realized I was kind of a dick in away or was being too nice on occasion like kissing ass basically. Don't be a people pleaser it only attracts users just be yourself man. I'm pretty sensitive myself but I look "sketchy", "creepy" apparently which is great to hear what the fuck eh? Its probably because I do whatever I feel is right, wear thuggish clothes sometimes and don't smile that often which is bad. I started dressing better think dress to impress and started smiling more and talking to as many people as I can especially women. After all I don't want to take any guys home so I need to talk to more women I don't give a single fuck what the guys are doing after work lol Start going to the gym it helped with my confidence that's for sure. I was bullied growing up to get over it! What is in the past is in the past just forget about the past and live in the present. Your future isn't in the past its today and tomorrow. Women are complicated as fuck man like I know so much yet I still can't pick up at this point. Talk and photos is as good as it gets for me at the moment

Account · Answer

Define nice. Sensitive, yes. I can't have it any other way.

MrMister34 · Answer

Well let me tell you this. What people don't realize is you need a mixture of sensitivity and toughness, not just be a complete douche-bag or a complete wuss-bag. There is a sweet spot you need to hit in order to be "perfect". Guys will tell you you need to be tough and strong, while girls will tell you you need to be softer and more sensitive. In truth, it all depends on the girl. Some girls will fall for more sensitive and softer guys while some girls may want a stronger and tougher guy. Form a mixture of both and adjust accordingly to the girl you're dating. Act nice and sensitive towards her feelings, but decisive and firm when pushed into situations requiring someone to step up. Don't listen to people who tell you you need to be completely masculine or completely feminine, it helps to be a little of both. Again, it just depends on the girl and what she prefers in a guy. A girl can be indecisive, and that's when she wants you to be more of "the man" and chose for her. Or a girl can be more firm and independent. All the variables you need to take into consideration are there in front of you. So form a mixture of both, though a little toughening up won't hurt from what I've read of you.

GreenTiger · Answer

Hmm, you're not the sexy stereotype that is a sensitive guy, sorry. You sound like a total wuss. It's the truth, and don't let the downvotes on this post cheer you up because I'll tell you why. Women like to have fun, and there's really no fun with a guy who doesn't talk, have no friends, and cries here and there. You sound like a pain to deal with, and I can totally see why you're still a virgin.

I'm not trying to be conceited, but I'm apparently a sensitive guy myself. I can be super fun, and very caring of a girl's feelings. When I do one night stands for example, I hold a girl's hands and attend to her feelings and get her a cab if need be. I play with my cat. I look at a girl straight at her eye, playfully smile, and talk slowly at the appropriate time. While I am not too aggressive, I'm confident, which is what you lack. No matter the type of guy who become, you need a thick basis of confidence.

The last thing you need to be doing is feeling the need to get validation and feeling sorry for yourself. Man up.

EvayneLM · Answer

It really depends on the girl, but usually, most ladies are going to love a sensitive guy. It's a balance of human necessity, I believe, and it's not really a gender issue; be strengthened by the ones you care for and strengthen your loved ones in turn.

For some, there could be a call for "masculinity" in this sense, and whether or not a sensitive man has it; but masculinity is a term that can only be defined by an individual person. After all, my definition of the word may be different from yours. That does not make either of us wrong or right; just a difference of opinion. I personally find that a man that is sensitive IS masculine.

As for friends, don't sweat it. Make friends by looking for kind people with your same interests. As for potential partners, you should wait until you have a little more confidence in yourself; work on making yourself the best YOU, you want to be. And never, EVER, enter a relationship where you think a partner will cheat; it isn't healthy for either side.

Sorry if I rambled too much!

Anonymous · Answer

I love a sensitive guy, within reason. If sensitive means defying gender stereotypes in a modern age sense where we aren't stifled by old-school gender stereotypes of macho men and dainty women, and he can communicate his emotions maturely and isn't afraid to let me into his mind and share his hopes, pain, etc. so we can be better connected instead of just two people together... then I LOVE sensitive GOOD guys.

However, I find that guys who identify as "nice guys" often aren't that nice and come with a lot of issues.

On the other hand, if sensitive means overly sensitive to things I say or my sometimes sharp words or jokes, I can't be myself around him without him being offended (meaning, our beliefs and opinions and personalities aren't compatible) or he cries way too much (I don't cry all the time either, but sometimes is fine), then no, I don't like those guys. Or those girls, for that matter.

I like someone with a good balance of emotional maturity and openness, thoughtfulness, caring, and nurturing our relationship along with excellent capacity for logical thought and intelligent conversation, the ability to form an opinion and have discussions without excessively emotional bias in those opinions or at least recognition of when emotional bias is present. Basically, I like a sweet, thoughtful, emotionally mature and emotionally balanced, intellectual guy. Not always easy to find, I'll say that.

unicornsandglitter · Answer

To be honest I'm not one for a sensitive guy. I want a guy who is caring and will let me know how feels and show his emotions in front of me. However, I don't like an emotional guy who is dependent on me every single minute of his life. I like a guy who is confident in who he is and enough of a man to attend to his own feelings. I can't handle a guy who cries quite a lot and who feels self pitty, that's no fun to be around. If I was you I'd start working on yourself before considering a girlfriend

Okeeffeflower · Answer

I don't naturally gravitate toward sensitive guys. However, they are superior in bed. So, sensitivity is a trait I've been looking for lately. Just don't be pathetic. There's a difference between being sensitive and being pathetic. Try to grow from your painful experiences. I used to be fat and I was bullied a shit ton. Now that I'm not, you know, completely fat, I've trained myself to become confident. Confidence is sexy. And if you don't feel confident, fake it until you do. Remember to smile. Cheers.

blunttalker · Answer

I like strong guys, emotionally strong guys who don't act like victims, who do what they gotta do without complaining or whining about it, who don't take life too seriously, or take things too personally, who think they're awesome. And who aren't afraid of showing their feelings and weaknesses like u. Relationships aren't easy. But don't be boring, be daring, when u love someone, the feeling is the greatest thing in the whole world, but everything in life has a shitty side, u could get hurt or u could hurt someone, but dont be a pussy, u were born for it, pain strengthens the weak ones and the strong ones

alexia1101 · Answer

The guy I lost my virginity to was a virgin - nice, and sensitive. Everyone thought he was gay, so I asked him. He said he wasn't though a lot of people thought he was, and then I asked him to be my boyfriend.

He cried to the notebook with me :P.. and about other personal things. He was the person who taught me how to love, and made me feel like I deserved to be. Keep you're head up, any girl would be lucky to have you - just don't lose yourself in someone else and dont let anyone, even your girlfriend cross your boundaries and you will be fine!

SUBZEROHERO · Answer

To a certain extent man , females want someone to make them feel safe, secure, and protected. If you are to nice and she knows she can run all over you , she will do just that and when she gets tired throw you away like a toy. The fact that you are still a Virgin still some what has to do with your sensitivity as well.
You have to be a little stern and sometimes a tad bit of a dick head to females in my personal observation. You can't stop someone from cheating on you and you can't control anyone but yourself. A female is going to do whatever she wants to do?

So find the fine line and try being a little stern, a bit of a dick at times and it'll start helping you out in the long run.

thatcomplicatedgirl · Answer

I do like sensitive guys. But the fear that you hold against girls is definitely dangerous. Even if I would try to show a guy that I am worth his time, but if he is so afraid then he would definitely push me away. I don't mind spending my time on such type of guy but my experience says that I will get hurt in the end because when guys are hurt too much they stop trusting people, and it takes lots of time for them to open up again but if they are stubborn, then they prefer to push the girl away to save themselves.

Maerinaekaeri · Answer

I'm a girl and i'll be the first to tell you yes , a lot of girls do however there are some who dont. I can relate to how you feel about dating. I had a few years where i had no freinds and i too was bullied throughout school as well as beaten. i hide my sensitivity from everyone becuase i don't want to be beaten ever again however i think my good friends know how i really am although usualy i act really tough. i think that you should give the girl a chance. yes at somepoint someone will probably cheat or reject you however when that happens you have to move on after you've recovered and are ready to move on. although you'll probably have a couple bad relationships eventually you'll find the right girl to be with who won't be mean to you and love you for who you are. the only thing i think you should do is try to open up a bit and make a freind or 2 , freinds are great and they'll be there for you when you'r down. :D

paradiseliving · Answer

It's okay to be sensitive. But you have to be tough sometimes. Tough for yourself. Being a sensitive person myself, I get what you're feeling, and it's normal. But being sensitive isn't always great. You have to be tough when you need to be, so you can dodge getting hurt. Accept the fact that not everyone is going to like you, and thats okay. I heard someone say this: a person might see a diamond while another person might see a rock. It doesn't mean that person has any less value, it just means you're not someone's type. That's all. And just because you love someone, it doesn't mean they're bound to cheat. There are all types of people in this world, and I know for certain there are girls out there who are willing to be loyal. Hope this helped!

Insert_username__ · Answer

, Many, many girls LOVE sensitive guys. However, if you're very very very shy or nervous talking to a girl, she may be afraid you dont like her! Also, still being a virgin at your age isn't some terrible horrible thing! It might feel like it, but trust me its not! I know many great catches your age who haven't even had their forst kiss at your age! Furthermore, I realize people have different opinions a sex... however, there are some people who choose to be in your position, waitong for a parter which they can have a more emotional experience with the first time they do it. Don't feel so down on yourself, man! :) Put it all in perspective! It also sounds kind of like you have low self esteem/respect... i could easily be wrong, but if that's true then you shouldn't really be in a relationship anyways. You need to love youself before someone can love you! Side note: there may also be a girl in your same position, crushing on YOU! Have a wonderful day, my friend :)

sannyjayy22 · Answer

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a sensitve person, eventually you'll find soemone who finds you to be everything they ever wanted, but you'll never find her if you hide behind rejection, being rejected is a completely normal part of dating, sometimes you win and sometimes you lose, you just have to remember that not everyone will think your attractive just as you don't find everyone else attractive, you just have to be brave and do what you have to do, and cheating is also something that happens to a lot of us, myself included, if it happened to you then you could move on or give it one more chance, sometimes that's all someone needs. Feelings are hard to handle, I know. But you only have this one life to be all you can be so why not be free?

carias1541 · Answer

Yes, women do like nice sensitive guys. You just have to be very careful who you open up to. There will be evil women who will try to take advantage of that sensitivity and kindness. You have to make sure that you really get to know the person before you trust them with your heart. Your gut feeling will let you know if there is something wrong right off the bat. You must also kick this fear to the curve. The more fear you have the more you will attract those bad things. Take it from someone who has been cheated on countless of times and has been lied to. NEVER GIVE UP. There is someone out there for you. Unfortunately, we must go through these terrible experiences to learn from them. Some of these experiences will lead you to want to give up on love. Someone will know your worth and will treat you exactly like you deserve to be treated. Don't be afraid to fail. Failure gets us closer to winning. GOOD LUCK!

PiuBelloAmante · Answer

Well you got some work to do my friend
On yourself, you gotta toughen up its a dog eat, dog world my friend
Girls like sensitive guys alright but nothing more, they will acknowledge that you are nice and sweet but you will never be what they want
Grow strong bro, turn your sensitivity to strength, its ok to be sensitive but to cry over a women who rejected you?
And you already lay yourself out there so your vulnerability is right in the open!
You started the description to your question with "I'm a virgin and never had a girlfriend" tell any girl this and your screwed, and not in the good way

You gotta gain confidence and focus on yourself, and your ability to be social in any situation, the women will come after, or during
Also i will recommend you a book
"Fire in The Belly" by Sam Keen
This book helped me gain a lot of perspective

ChristFollower4life · Answer

Wow you're like me :)
I'm very sensitive and introverted, but am not mean or hostile towards anyone by any means.
As a sensitive person, I believe I need someone like myself. Who is gentle. I am afraid of being yelled at and if I had a significant other, I'd be afraid that they would find someone more adventureous and outgoing than me.
I cry very easily, and it is not accepted by a lot of people. :/
To me, it is attractive that you are a virgin. It shows that you are "not used" :) So if you do, please don't think poorly of yourself for that.
So I say this:
Sensitive girls like sensitive guys. :)

asianchic · Answer

Of course nice and sensitive are appealing traits. You seem like a good hearted kid. No girl that I know at least wants to date a guy who is a stoic rock!

I do think you should work on yourself and make some friends before getting a girlfriend like another user suggested. Make yourself dateable. Ask yourself, "would someone date me"?

You really need to like yourself and be happy with who you are before you can enter a happy relationship.

And don't take rejection badly. You put yourself out there! That's so awesome. Many people are too afraid to do that.

Go out there and be great!

Corsair427 · Answer

Get used to getting hurt by girls, you are like me, Im just a sentimental fool when it comes to girls, I listen to all the sappy love songs from the 50s and believe in romancing. But be damn sure i would die for the girl that said she loved me back. Any girl by my side is as good as safe. Im a successful commercial pilot, intelligent, romantic and a natural leader. I dated a girl who told me all the other girls were foolish for letting a guy like me go. She told me she NEVER had a dating experience like me and that she liked me more and more each time. After 5 dates she turned around and said she didn't know what a good guy was and didn't know how to be in a loving relationship. She ran away and destroyed me. She basically said i was too good for her. THATS what girls think of good guys.

4Elements · Answer

I feel that there is a difference between we sensitive and a push over. You need to toughen up and stop crying whenever you don't get your way or if someone rejects you. I hate to be blunt, but I feel this has to be said.
This might also be why people make fun to you and why you haven't had a lot of friends. Its OK to feel hurt sometimes but eventually you have to move on and grow from your experiences. Its a good thing that you are down to earth despite being bullied, but you can't let that stop you. You will find a girl who likes you for you, and instead of sadness and tears, find a different way to express your hurt.

Miles2468 · Answer

Yes and no
It really depends on the girl
in my opinion girls are like old school and really religious just love sensitive guys, but not too sensitive to where you're like a marshmallow and crying about everything, they also want someone strong how can protect them if need be.

If it's more of a modern type of girl cuz they're more of the independent type, so my advice the less sensitive the better but not to were you have like no emotion.

And everyone loves a nice boy, but some like bad boys ( nice and mysterious lol ;) ) and some like a man who is a little of both lol

so all in all it's like I said it really depends on the girl

Prof_Don · Answer

I can't lie to u bro... as long as you display strength and masculinity (even If It's fake!), you'll be fine.

It's a MASSIVE turn off to most women to spill your emotions in the very beginning stages of talking/dating, so make sure you avoid that pitfall.

Anonymous · Answer

I personally would not mind bt I would need to know that I could feel safe with a guy like that physically, emotionally, and financially. I would not want a stereotype nice guy who some would assume is a pushover I would want a partner not a slave/yesman. I understand your feelings though im a 24 yr old virgin waiting for marriage bt regardless of this everyone fears being cheated on bt sometimes u have to take a leap on faith if u want something real u never know unless u try :) hope this helps :)

523206720 · Answer

Girls love sensitive guys!!! but make some friends before getting a girlfriend. That way if the relationship falls apart you have friends to fall back on.

pyramid_princess · Answer

I prefer a guy to be sensitive, and show his emotions. Guys are allowed to feel hurt too! They werent created emotionless. Women and men feel the same emotions, the only difference is , most men tend to hide it from others. Only psychopaths have no emotions!

Urbantarzan · Answer

Girls can't deal with a man who they have to console or guard all the time. They like someone who feels emotions but also knows how to handle them

So if you are crying all the time most girls won't have the patience or energy to deal with that. Don't get into a relationship unless you can handle yourself well. You are in for a lot of heartache if you don't.

Datamancer · Answer

Okay, firstly, there's a difference between sensitivity and being a crybaby. When girls say they're looking for a sensitive guy, they typically mean someone who can recognise emotions in himself as well as her own emotions, and know how to deal with them.
Sure you were bullied in school at some point, who wasn't? It's no reason to wallow in misery. Spoil yourself a bit, feel good, and the people who hang around you will feel good too.
Leave the crying to the kids, find other ways to deal with sadness if you have to - or at least make sure not to cry in front of anybody - most people really have no idea how to handle situations like that.

Brays · Answer

Im like you. Im a realy kind nice guy, but im protect about what i love. And you need a balance between sensitivity and being strong (not always physically)

You need to be like mentally strong and able to keep your self strong and happy before you consider a relationship.

Sensitivity is great. But make sure you strong in yourself first.

Nikkita · Answer

i think generally yes, girls do like a sensitive down to earth guy, and if you are sensitive guy, that is a good quality to have and a rare one too! girls find it hard to find someone because many boys are sensitive and like to pretend they are tough, but i have asked my friends too and even they think a guy who is sensitive and cares for others is not only a kind quality to have but an attractive one too. do not get disheartened if a girl rejects you, just think about it as how it is an opportunity to grow.

cantsaylol · Answer

Yes and no,
They want a sensitive guy but that's after awhile into the relationship

As for high interest level, and keeping the excitement going.. They're naturally drawn into a holes.. Believe me.. They'll invest so much effort into a guy who shows interest but be a dick to them

Dammy_00 · Answer

Every girl would like a caring, sensitive boy, but not too much. After all men are the stronger sex and women are those who are more sensitive. So maybe you should get out of your shell, make some friends, gain a little confidence and then think about having a girlfriend. :))

heart_of_gold · Answer

I personally love sensitive, emotional guys. Of course there is a limit to everything. Too much of a good thing can always turn bad. When I say it I mean I love to feel your emotions, your passion, but I also like some aggression. I don't want someone I can walk all over. I also like a guy who knows when to put his foot down, and stand up for himself. You've got to have a nice firm back bone.

Billlewis · Answer

I'm quite sensitive, but more than that, I consider myself exceptionally meek and subservient. Although I'm well aware that not all women are interested in a guy who's that docile, but when I find the woman who's ready to take ownership of me and make me her slave, I'll work my little piglet ass off to make her happy.

harajukuuu · Answer

Us, being females, want a guy that carries a masculine energy to him. It's what we're naturally attracted to. Too much sensitivity by society is condoned as a very feminine trait to have, and a feminine way to behave. That being said, most girls are not attracted to feminine guys. We are looking for a MALE and therefore want someone masculine. Sensitivity is definitely a very good quality to have in a guy, but only in it's limits. Too much of anything/ trait can be bad or unattractive. You gotta have balance, know your limit and stay within it.

lvelasco · Answer

It's a very attractive quality in a man, being sensitive and fragile at times. But if you're more sensitive than girls or have no friends, you should build up some confidence to have a few good friends which will definitely help you when things go wrong, so you won't be as sensitive as you are. But don't worry about it because it is very attractive to some girls.

SensualScribe · Answer

My man is sensitive and kind in every way, but he is also very confident and outgoing. He shows his vulnerability to me. He is not macho around other men, but he does not usually cry in front of them either. He just acts natural and is very easy going. I could not date a man that did not show me his sensitive side or who was not comfortable expressing his emotions, but I also am turned off by men that are macho and arrogant. There has to be happy medium there.

Korilakkuma · Answer

Aww, you sound like a really sweet guy. I am actually a very sensitive person as well. A lot of people don't understand how I feel, and some are even mean to me about it. However, I think that being a sensitive person is okay. It's can be hard to accept when everyone else wants you to conform, but I don't think that you have to change who you are. I'm sure your self-awareness and empathy is a great asset, and someday you'll find a really nice girl who appreciates your unique qualities :D

bleedingheart111 · Answer

Honestly, some girls like a guy that can be real and express his emotions. Beware some girls might use you. Some girls want a good guy. Good guys don't always have to finish last. Some girls may want a bad boy. You just need to find a girl that accepts you for who you are

username3 · Answer

i like sentive guy and i LOVE a guy who can cry once or twice (not aways crying baby though) i just hate guys who say "am a man i never cry" , shy is what i have problem with, i hate a shy guy because he's suppose to be the one leading and taking control...

Reneesusan · Answer

We all get hurt and cry it isn't thing to be ashamed of. Make new friends and stop living in the past. Girls like sensitive guys but the also like feeling as if they can lean on you. But don't be afraid to get out there, and don't beat ur self up over every break up or rejection.

CarolzS2 · Answer

Well... I like sensitive men in a way tht they are aware of my feelings, respect them and are caring to me. And I wouldn't care if he cries cause that's a normal thing. I dont see any problem with that, however the boy must be 'strong' enough to be able to support me when I need it.

supgirl34 · Answer

All that happens , we all get hurt for guys and girls alike. Are you going to suffer? Yes but you'll learn and it will be worth it. I was bullied to (in the time when nobody cared if you where bullied ) but you grow up and get over it. I love being an adult because you choose who you relate too and what you want to do. As for the girlfriend look for someone that shares your interests , look for her and eventually you'll find her. There are billions of humans (literaly ) I'm sure you'll connect with someone if you keep clear what you want and who you are. Finally, always look for ways of improving yourself. That's hard too but start with baby steps and you'll see results. Best wishes this 2015 !!!

MFoey · Answer

frankly, a guy that I know is sweet and sensitive is the only way to go. I've been hit on before by douchebag guys that really didn't care about me, and I still fell for the down-to-earth sweetie. and, I love when guys cry at movies, because then I don't feel alone when I start bawling, and it shows real emotion. I can't think of one girl who wants to date a guy with no emotions.
you've just got to put yourself out there, and some girl will realize you're her dream guy. don't worry :)

blushybum · Answer

I would say that most girls prefer down to earth and sensitive guys. It's not something you should be embarrassed by, it's who you are and someday a girl will come along and love you for being like that. I must add, that trust is one of the biggest issues in relationships these days. When you get a girl, don't be afraid that she'd do something like that as she'll probably realise sooner or later that your worrying that she'd do that and hurt you, and trust me girls will leave if they feel you don't trust them. Start by trusting yourself, and when you can trust yourself you'll be able to trust us girls more.

lola5 · Answer

I like guys that are 'human' - as all humans have emotion but i can't bare over sensitive guys as its a bit pathetic. I like guys that are sensitive towards others and respectful of their feelings. It is also hard to love a worrier. If you are that's fine but just try not to let others notice :) if you appear chilled and happy with yourself then people will become attracted :)

TeaHeeHee · Answer

Yes, I love sensitive guys. But my friend was dating one and he was just too overly sensitive. He got too insecure and wouldn't give her space and started trying to manipulate her. He only thought about himself.
You sound sweet, hope you find a special someone ^_^

TheMarble · Answer

I go out of my way for others too. I care probably too much about people. But there are girls that aren't for you and then there are girls that are. You probably question " what if it doesn't work out?" But have you ever questioned " what if it does?" Yes some people may not be as down to earth caring as you are but if you find someone you are compatible with, if she's right for you, if you really like her, just show her who you are, it's worth it.

NoDoubt · Answer

I know exactly how you feel! I wouldn't mind being with someone like that one day. I can watch movies like the Notebook and other sad but good movies and not cry but when I watch Wreck it Ralph, the ending makes me cry because it's so happy lol 😂 I'm 18 in 2 days. You will find the right girl who will love you and care for you :-) Don't be ashamed of who you are! People will tell you you aren't a man because you're sensitive, but I say that you're quite the contrary.

NotInterested001 · Answer

Aww. I think having the characteristic of sensitivity is a great quality for a guy. There are some guys out there that don't feel a thing. And when you meet you the right gal, she'll understand you perfectly--how you are, how you feel (especially for others). And if she really loves you, she'll value that aspect about you.
:)

corolfulltiger22 · Answer

I think the reason u haven't had a girlfriend before is that you rely too much too your feelings and don't use the logic. We must have a perfect balance to logic and feelings. You don't need to worry for such things just forget about that thing continue to live your life the way you want and remember that the moment you stop searching for something is the moment you actually find it. And yes girls love sensitive guys 😉. I hope my advise helped you😁.

kheserthorpe · Answer

Id say they like guys who are benevolent. They also like guys who are emotionally aware.  Sensitive? No. They like guys who are tough.

kangy · Answer

Yes girls do like that but u need to know that it takes more than being nice and sensitive to capture a girl's heart. compatibility comes in.
Relationship is never a bed of roses, but on gag it seem like some have this fantasy it would be. u just have to go out and venture and take risk

Anonymous · Answer

You sound like a really nice guy. I have never had a boyfriend, but I would like a sensitive guy who cares about my feelings. It sounds like you would really love a girl, and give her your all and not let her down. Feelings are always great to have, and if you are as nice as you sound, I don't see why any girl wouldn't adore that, I know I would. Make sure to get a few friends before a girlfriend, then you can have friends to look to if things aren't going so well, they could even help you meet some ladies!

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. The notion that women prefer assholes, and "bad boys" is mostly a stereotype that is sometimes true, but usually not.

My perfect guy is someone I could sit on the roof with, looking at the stars, and listening to me.. and me listening to him. I like sweet guys, who are genuinely nice. As soon as a guy is rude, or snappy, or insults me-I automatically dislike him. Huge turn-off.

I like nice guys :)

Canterbury_Bellz · Answer

Well honestly i like a sensitive guy who can cry, but can step up when I need them. There is no need to be super manly. I'm kind of shy and sensitive myself; so i need someone who can sympathize and care but also be my back bone. Everyone's different. just don't be a dick

MakeitOrDieTrying · Answer

lol hell no. All these answers of 'aww that's sweet' is bs. It's the same answer they give to a nice guy 'aww you're sweet, you'll make a great boyfriend for someone'. Being sensitive is good but it seems that's ALL you are right now. You gotta be well rounded... not just a cry baby

I_M_LEGEND · Answer

lose the nice guy syndrome... women are meant to be dominated and devoured... when they respect you, theyll be attracted to you. nice isn't memorable... nice is nice. it means nothing but can work against you.

considering your personality, i think you need a very sensitive women like yourself.

Anonymous · Answer

It depends. No girl wants an asshole. But I once dated a guy who was very "nice and sensitive" and it became very annoying. He was very needy, and emotional. It was off-putting and came off as insecure. It didn't last. I like sensitive, but you have to be a man and have some balls too. I shouldn't have more balls than my bf...

Anonymous · Answer

Of course! Girls really do like sensitive, good guys. Like other posters, I agree you ought to make friends before getting a girlfriend. Just a warning though, to some girls if you are too insecure (being afraid of rejection, etc) it can be a turnoff. But yeah, girls love guys who care about others feelings.

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