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I feel that there is a difference between we sensitive and a push over. You need to toughen up and stop crying whenever you don't get your way or if someone rejects you. I hate to be blunt, but I feel this has to be said.
This might also be why people make fun to you and why you haven't had a lot of friends. Its OK to feel hurt sometimes but eventually you have to move on and grow from your experiences. Its a good thing that you are down to earth despite being bullied, but you can't let that stop you. You will find a girl who likes you for you, and instead of sadness and tears, find a different way to express your hurt.
OK, he should turn into a serial killer
Yes and no
It really depends on the girl
in my opinion girls are like old school and really religious just love sensitive guys, but not too sensitive to where you're like a marshmallow and crying about everything, they also want someone strong how can protect them if need be.
If it's more of a modern type of girl cuz they're more of the independent type, so my advice the less sensitive the better but not to were you have like no emotion.
And everyone loves a nice boy, but some like bad boys ( nice and mysterious lol ;) ) and some like a man who is a little of both lol
so all in all it's like I said it really depends on the girl
I can't lie to u bro... as long as you display strength and masculinity (even If It's fake!), you'll be fine.
It's a MASSIVE turn off to most women to spill your emotions in the very beginning stages of talking/dating, so make sure you avoid that pitfall.
I personally would not mind bt I would need to know that I could feel safe with a guy like that physically, emotionally, and financially. I would not want a stereotype nice guy who some would assume is a pushover I would want a partner not a slave/yesman. I understand your feelings though im a 24 yr old virgin waiting for marriage bt regardless of this everyone fears being cheated on bt sometimes u have to take a leap on faith if u want something real u never know unless u try :) hope this helps :)
Girls love sensitive guys!!! but make some friends before getting a girlfriend. That way if the relationship falls apart you have friends to fall back on.
your advice is for women only
I prefer a guy to be sensitive, and show his emotions. Guys are allowed to feel hurt too! They werent created emotionless. Women and men feel the same emotions, the only difference is , most men tend to hide it from others. Only psychopaths have no emotions!
Amen!
Girls can't deal with a man who they have to console or guard all the time. They like someone who feels emotions but also knows how to handle them
So if you are crying all the time most girls won't have the patience or energy to deal with that. Don't get into a relationship unless you can handle yourself well. You are in for a lot of heartache if you don't.
Okay, firstly, there's a difference between sensitivity and being a crybaby. When girls say they're looking for a sensitive guy, they typically mean someone who can recognise emotions in himself as well as her own emotions, and know how to deal with them.
Sure you were bullied in school at some point, who wasn't? It's no reason to wallow in misery. Spoil yourself a bit, feel good, and the people who hang around you will feel good too.
Leave the crying to the kids, find other ways to deal with sadness if you have to - or at least make sure not to cry in front of anybody - most people really have no idea how to handle situations like that.
Im like you. Im a realy kind nice guy, but im protect about what i love. And you need a balance between sensitivity and being strong (not always physically)
You need to be like mentally strong and able to keep your self strong and happy before you consider a relationship.
Sensitivity is great. But make sure you strong in yourself first.
i think generally yes, girls do like a sensitive down to earth guy, and if you are sensitive guy, that is a good quality to have and a rare one too! girls find it hard to find someone because many boys are sensitive and like to pretend they are tough, but i have asked my friends too and even they think a guy who is sensitive and cares for others is not only a kind quality to have but an attractive one too. do not get disheartened if a girl rejects you, just think about it as how it is an opportunity to grow.
Yes and no,
They want a sensitive guy but that's after awhile into the relationship
As for high interest level, and keeping the excitement going.. They're naturally drawn into a holes.. Believe me.. They'll invest so much effort into a guy who shows interest but be a dick to them
Every girl would like a caring, sensitive boy, but not too much. After all men are the stronger sex and women are those who are more sensitive. So maybe you should get out of your shell, make some friends, gain a little confidence and then think about having a girlfriend. :))
I personally love sensitive, emotional guys. Of course there is a limit to everything. Too much of a good thing can always turn bad. When I say it I mean I love to feel your emotions, your passion, but I also like some aggression. I don't want someone I can walk all over. I also like a guy who knows when to put his foot down, and stand up for himself. You've got to have a nice firm back bone.
I'm quite sensitive, but more than that, I consider myself exceptionally meek and subservient. Although I'm well aware that not all women are interested in a guy who's that docile, but when I find the woman who's ready to take ownership of me and make me her slave, I'll work my little piglet ass off to make her happy.
Us, being females, want a guy that carries a masculine energy to him. It's what we're naturally attracted to. Too much sensitivity by society is condoned as a very feminine trait to have, and a feminine way to behave. That being said, most girls are not attracted to feminine guys. We are looking for a MALE and therefore want someone masculine. Sensitivity is definitely a very good quality to have in a guy, but only in it's limits. Too much of anything/ trait can be bad or unattractive. You gotta have balance, know your limit and stay within it.
It's a very attractive quality in a man, being sensitive and fragile at times. But if you're more sensitive than girls or have no friends, you should build up some confidence to have a few good friends which will definitely help you when things go wrong, so you won't be as sensitive as you are. But don't worry about it because it is very attractive to some girls.
My man is sensitive and kind in every way, but he is also very confident and outgoing. He shows his vulnerability to me. He is not macho around other men, but he does not usually cry in front of them either. He just acts natural and is very easy going. I could not date a man that did not show me his sensitive side or who was not comfortable expressing his emotions, but I also am turned off by men that are macho and arrogant. There has to be happy medium there.
Aww, you sound like a really sweet guy. I am actually a very sensitive person as well. A lot of people don't understand how I feel, and some are even mean to me about it. However, I think that being a sensitive person is okay. It's can be hard to accept when everyone else wants you to conform, but I don't think that you have to change who you are. I'm sure your self-awareness and empathy is a great asset, and someday you'll find a really nice girl who appreciates your unique qualities :D
Honestly, some girls like a guy that can be real and express his emotions. Beware some girls might use you. Some girls want a good guy. Good guys don't always have to finish last. Some girls may want a bad boy. You just need to find a girl that accepts you for who you are
i like sentive guy and i LOVE a guy who can cry once or twice (not aways crying baby though) i just hate guys who say "am a man i never cry" , shy is what i have problem with, i hate a shy guy because he's suppose to be the one leading and taking control...