Do girls like nice and sensitive guys? (Page 2)

[Anonymous]

Sometimes. I would say we like guys who are confident. At least I do. Not that its bad to be sensitive. You shouldn't cry because of being rejected. Sometimes its for the better. Could you answer my question that I posted? Its under dating as anonymous. I want to know why the guy messaged me for my number, asked to hang out and then stopped texting. Would you call that being nervous or being fake?

[Anxiety_Kitten]

I like if the guy cares about my feelings more than anything.. also talks about the issues instead of being silent. And if they generally care about what's going on, want to help me. But I do like if they can defend me too.. like fight for me, I'm sensitive too but can fight if someone pushed me too far or threatens someone I care about.

So I'll say yes, for me I'd be okay with it.

[art84]

I think showing emotions makes you look like you not afraid to show your emotions. Most girls do like this but they are very few and hard to find. Most girls won't want a guy who is sensitive as it shows that the guy is weak and not strong. Maybe hide your sensitive side and try to be more masculine.

[kellytheman]

well I'm a man's man and i don't really cry a lot and I think most women like that you probably should cut down on the crying because most women don't like a guy crying a lot but did you like sensitive guys so maybe be more a man man and cry less most girls like when the guys open up and care about emtions thats the senstive trait on a guy they like.

[UrHomie]

Good luck finding a MHO with these many opinions. If you've ever watched TV you'd know of course girls like nice guys. Obvi u have trust issues. Stop crying when ur feelings are hurt. Brush that dirt off our shoulder.

[mxgirl23]

Yes and no… For me, I want a MAN, but a MAN that can feel…
Being sensitive is good because you'll be able to relate and sympathize with a woman. BUT, you need to know when to be a man and not be sensitive. Don't be scared to fall in love.

[Alicietta]

I adore sensitive guys. But to really hook a girl, it sounds like you need some confidence. It's all about internal dialogue. Think about the things that you are good at each day and pride yourself in your good qualities.

[lexq91]

Yeah, I like sensitive guys. Because I wear my heart on my sleeve as well. I like to feel that my guy cares. So I don't like the player types because its too confusing. Try dating older women. They appreciate u!

[tropico]

it really depends on the girl!! I dated a sensitive guy and i was in love with him. But the truth is most guys are sensitive when they are in a relationship. But there is nothing wrong with sensitivity as long as its not extreme and crazy.

[Pumpkinseeds]

I think sensitive guys are the best as are amazing. Noone wants a emotion-less person. Also sensitive guys tend to think twice before making a move that could possibly hurt the girl. So definite plus!!

[helpman]

Gals say they like sensitive guys
but the true, fact is they, like a man not a, crying baby
true fact it is

[faruine]

I like sensitive guys, but i mean would you be able to stand up or protect your girl if something were to happen? If a guy can't protect me when i can't protect myself, then i'd rethink the relationship a bit.

[LittleSally]

What exactly is a sensitive guy?
If he'll cry a lot that's not attractive - to me ad least.

I love a nice guy and a confident guy.

An overly sensitive guy - no.

[Serena_Pierce]

Seems like you would do everything to keep someone you like next to you, even if that person doesn't want to be with you anymore. Being sensitive is a good thing and girls like men who are confident enough to admit they have feelings and cry, but we also want someone to protect us and be strong. You should really try to find a middle between being sensitive and strong

[genericname85]

they pretend to like them but in reality, they only like them if they´re sensitive when they need it. somtimes they don´t want you to be sensitive. so if you are sensitive all the time, they won´t like it.

[SpunkyLVR]

@523206720 said it best. Sensitive guys are sweet :) and you need friends to lean on when times get rough and to celebrate with when good things happen.

[Anonymous]

Girls like the idea of sensitive guys but it doesn't always play out in reality. You'll do well when you're older, with someone of a similar compassion, or with chicks who've learnt the hard way that they want a "nice" guy.

[Anonymous]

For sure, nice and sensitive. I like boys who are not ashamed of crying and will express their true feelings, however, you know girls would love to be protected, so you can be stronger so girls know you can protect them.

[Teekiemertle1]

I love sensitive guys! I'm OUTGOING but the man im with is sensitive! women love that type of character!

[TheUglyFriend_]

You're most likely my kind of guy^^. But, want you have to do is to make a move... as you are so kind and loveable with everyone, it's harder for a girl to know if you like her or not, so you should make it clear. Girls like guys that are sensitive but that can be brave too!

[AmRebel]

Girls do like sensitive guys; I am actually engaged to one right now. There are times when he tries not to care but things really do bother him and get to him. Even so, some things you might have to guard from other people. People can use your sensitivity and friendliness against you just because you wear it on your sleeve. You don't deserve that. Be a nice guy. Be a sensitive guy. It's alright to be those things. Just don't show your heart to those who you don't know or who don't deserve it.

[NeverWonderLandGirl]

You don't have to be afraid of falling in love. I'm a girl and sensitive too. You and I feel things more strongly and I think it is great! You just have to be cautios because girls as well as guys can be very cruel with people who are more ''fragile''. But just be yourself and you will find someone worthy. I'm sure of it.

[candygirl_9847]

What made you think that a girl will cheat on you and reject you? You sound like a nice guy, sensitive and a good guy overall. Any girl would be happy to have someone like you.

[Arianna16]

I cry at films all the time

I would rather have someone sensitive because then they can understand how upset we get and not just say 'oh well man up, get over it!'

[Hgstan]

Yes, I like guys that can express and share their feelings. I like when guys are caring and nice because then they're definitely keepers. Don't get your hopes up just because some girls reject you. There are other girls out there for you and probably some girls that like you right now, you just don't know it. Those girls that rejected you are missing out on a sweet good guy like you. Just keep your head up and continue to be yourself.

[justme34]

A truly nice girl can appreciate a nice, sensitive, and empathetic guy. However people sometimes confuse being nice with being needy or a push over. Confidence is what any mature person man/woman wants in their mate. Work on building your confidence and making sure you like yourself and the other things will come to you.

[mrgso]

yes we like nice guys. the whole girls like jerks thing is a myth made up by losers looking for an excuse to be jerks. The issue here is usually someone that is so willing to say they're super sensitive is really saying I want you by my side 24/7 to be my personal counselor and I'll want to kill myself if you want to have your own life that doesn't always involve me. Don't be clingy and you'll be fine.

[britttybear]

Yes girls love a sensitive guy but before try to get a girlfriend try to become a little more social and if you can't well find a girl who cares about u as much as u would for her and ur set.

[Batwings]

Sensitivity is like sadness. It's nice and healthy but not overly, you know? But don't change yourself for someone! They should love you for who you really are. Just remember to make friends as well.

[Loveisalie]

Of course. To be honest I'd rather have that because that's how I am. You'll find your girl. People make fun of me because I'm 16 and have never been kissed or gone on a date

[miserybusiness]

Yes, girls in your age group like nice guys! But remember, "nice" also includes being confident. Don't be one of those pussies who can't hold their ground - if you make her feel like your mom, rather than your gf, she won't like you.

[crazyincalifornia]

My guy is super nice, respectful, and sensitive too.
Basically they are the only guys I'm attracted to.
You sound very nice and sensitive.
A great gal is in your future.

[redvelvet_valeria]

Well you been through a lot you shouldn't put ur sensetivity too out there dont overdo it, try looking for someone with the same type of sensetivity there are a lot of girls who love sensetive guys so dont lose hope. just dont get too overly attatched because thats what fucks you over and makes you sad.

[dazedandconfused22]

Tough on the outside nice on the inside... don't be a push over and don't be overly sensitive let her feel like you only show that side to her and you're golden.

[Lonegirl18]

Yes! I think sensitive guys r best cuz they r willing to open up too their gf. I fall for sensitive guys first because they r very easy to talk too and very easy to trust.

[Tokana]

Women are not attracted to those type of men. They want strong, dominate, confident men. There's only room for one pussy in the relationship.

[Ulyss]

Listen to the man ^ or you will live the next decade being the doormat of some chick

[Miss_Individual]

Ok first you need to man up some girls like it when a boy is nice and friendly but she doesn't want them crying a lot

[BelleGirl21]

Crying in movies and such is endearing and cute. Crying all of the time over made up injustices is completely annoying and pathetic. So I guess it depends on how sensitive you are.

[edeline]

Yes. However, there is a fine line between sensitivity and insecurity. Sensitivity can be an arrange of things, anyone can cry, don't worry. People like a sensitive intellectual better.

[kebab97]

You are just a human being so why couldnt u get sensitive. Basicly i belive there is nothing wrong with it, and i like honest guys

[kbrunol]

Yes and no, i mean, is good to know you are sensitive, but sometimes the girl just wants to be the only one who cries and wants the boy to be the stronger one

[ILykGurlsGuys]

I like sensitive guys I think they are just muy caliente.
by the way I'm not Spanish I just know a few sentences in Spanish.

[pandagirl12334]

Girls like it when you are more confident but you could always try to be super sweet and that will probably work best.

[Amylicious]

Women love sensitive guys who have emotions but being TOO sensitive to the point to where you seem like you have no personality or appear weak isn't good.

[whatsername]

Girls like whatever they like. There is no perfect guy that is the same for all women because if there was more people would be single

[Smileydayes016]

Absolutely i do! I kind of depends not the girl some girls like bad boys but not jerks. Bad boys and jerks are two different things

[MargaritaPeach]

My man is very sensitive. He even cries at movies. I love him completely. It's just one part of who you are...

[Anonymous]

No. I always think that this type of guys would let me down in the first difficulty. I used to be in a relationship with a very sensitive guy and it went bad. Also I don't like so much people who are friendly to everyone.

[Anonymous]

When you have to tiptoe around hurting someone, it can put too much pressure to commit immediately. A good therapist would be helpful to guide you to building self esteem that isn't dependent on others.

[Anonymous]

The short answer is yes, girls like nice sensitive guys. But it is possible for a guy to be oversensitive, at which point the guy's behavior will end up being a turn-off.

[demonology]

no. it is a sign of weakness.
you sound like you would commit suicide if i do something wrong in the relationship.

[Megalodon]

Exactly what I was thinking. Seems like he would be overly needy and overreact to stupid shit.

[demonology]

megalodon, i think i tried to make an account using that name and it said it was taken.
nice taste in usernames.

[Olgaxxx]

that's really awesome. It definitely shows you can express your emotions and i would love a guy like that. Don't be afraid to love, we are only human.

[ClaraFTW]

It really varies from person to person. For instance, I like guys who are compassionate, nerdy like me, and good at spelling.

[been_waiting]

I prefer a happy medium between stoic and tearful. Extremes are never good.

[Anonymous]

I personally think it's nice for a guy to be sensitive it shows that they really care. It's nice to know that you can be with a boy who is either protective or caring. Girls need someone to go out with who aren't going to throw a fit cause they wanna watch a sad movie or anything it's perfectly fine to be sensitive there's no problem with it

[Anonymous]

You are honest man coz all men are sensitive but they'll never open up about their feelings. They all cry behind close door. You are just little more sensitive then others.
I personally have no problem with sensitive men as they show love more openly.
All girls want a guy who look rock solid on the outside and soft on the inside. There can be exceptions though.

[Avelyn]

yeah but i wouldn't want a guy who cries all the time for small issues though :/

[HoneyButterCup525]

Well That is very sweet <3 i am like You but i usualy end up with Guys who are emotionaly too controlled...

But dont sorry You Will find the perfect girl 😊

[Winterblade200]

Yes I like sensitive but I also like guys that flirt with me so 50-50

[Anonymous]

Yes, but a lot of us end up with jerks because we are shy and sensitive too, and the jerks are the ones who make a move.