Do girls/women really like sweet sensitive guys?

[Anonymous]

Do girls/women really like sweet sensitive guys that are good people? it doesn't really seem like it they like bad mean people.

Yes I like sweet/sensitive guys

No I like mean guys that are all around bad people.

[BrighteyedAsh]

You can read it on my profile, but I'll save you the trouble. I'm 27.

Of course, I don't prefer a jerk. But I would prefer a masculine male. Secure, intelligent and attractive. Someone firm enough in their views and sure and adept in their ways. Someone CONSIDERATE, which I guess you can read as 'sensitive' (but I've dated/married actual sensitive, and they're far too reactive for my liking, being...you know SENSITIVE.) I want someone who listes and understands, and if necessary can tactfully convey alternative approaches. And someone who can handle the same in return. I want someone I can trust to value the same principles in the same ways, at least loosely, and respect my views. At the SAME time, I want a man, for sake of seduction. One who will make me feel like a woman. His woman. One who will protect me, value me, and respect me as his girl, and the only girl he needs. I want a man who thinks highly enough of himself, in a secure way, and deems me fully worthy of his respect. I don't want one or the other, I won't both. And I think that's a completely understandable and realistic desire to have.

Especially because that's the kind of guy I have, and I have a few girlfriends who also have the same and are equally happy in their relationships.

[Asker]

Very nice answer! it is completely realistic desire to have! you know exactly what you want in a partner and I mean exactly! lol :D so basically what your saying as long as the attraction there key values and they are considerate and masculine you will give them a chance if they are 2-3 years younger?

[Asker]

uhhhh dang wrong question. I was meaning to reply to a question I asked about different age couples the women being older than the man haha! sorry..

[BrighteyedAsh]

Well, even then, that would be reasonable. I'd date a guy slightly younger than me at this age. I think there are scattered periods of when I wouldn't, but I think any guy that truly were on a similar level and understood the same things, it would be worthwhile.

[Asker]

masculine like physically built with muscle?

[BrighteyedAsh]

Mmm masculine like...a little scruff, a little bit of likes to drive a little faster, a little bit of dirt under the nails, a bit of tickling me and riling me up, a little bit of direct and keep it simple, some protectiveness, some drive. A man who'll take out the trash and then kiss his woman like he means it. A man who isn't belligerent but won't back don't from a worthy fight for what's right. A man who does what's right, not what's simply easy. That's my definition of 'masculine'.

[Asker]

nice description.

[Worm007]

It is usally the sensitive guys and girls that are smarter than the masculine macho guys. Because they spend thier time alone and daydream etc. Which macho guys only drink and party.

[youngandfriendless19]

To me there are two types of guys who are extremely attractive. The dark mysterious secretive type who most people thing are badass and they usually are (they aren't always mean but sometimes they are and they're still attractive). Or there's those down home country boys who love The Lord and are kind and sweet, now don't get me wrong they can have their badass side too. It all depends on personality. Sometimes the mean people are really the sweetest people, it just takes someone to show them that side in them. Some girls do like badass mean guys though.

[AmelieAnge]

Yes. Girls do. Some girls need that "date an a**hole" phase so that we can either try to "fix" them, or just be a bitch back and not care. However, in general, girls really do like the sweet sensitive guys, as long as they are ALSO confident and have a spine. I want a guy to be just as independent and stand-up as I am.

[GuyAdviceFromGuy]

Yea, but only in a relationship and anytime before that and they just view you as Mr. Nice Guy.

[Luvergiirl]

Why did the guys vote?0.o Anywayz most girls would prefer the sweet kind guys even though they don't show it. Who would want a rude mean jerk,right? If you are this type of guy then most girls ar probably drooling over you.:-)

[Asker]

Not sure some guy came in here saying rude things to me trying to patronize me saying some stupid thing that made no sense... he couldent understand a simple question so I guess he voted no thank you for answering :D

[ManaX]

I'm not sweet and sensitive, so I can't expect a guy to be. Poll is very biased though. If you wanted opposing categories it should have been sweet and sensitive vs blunt and insensitive.

[Asker]

Yeah thanks for your answer I made this question quite quickly I thought I had to be somewhere but turns out I'm free I just wanted to get my point across lol ill take more time and word it out better next time did the question make sense to you though?

[ManaX]

Yeah course lo. Don't worry all good :)

[Anonymous]

Lmao your poll options suck. You can tell which side you're on. It's like asking someone to pick between two dogs. One is cute and nice and a puppy and one is an old aggressive ugly dog that's killed a person. Try your poll again.

[Asker]

lol I made this really quick and I can be both sometimes I'm not completely one or the other.

[Anonymous]

I like sweet, sensitive guys that can be tough when they need do. Frankly, I don't need a p*ssy. I already have one. I need a man who's a man. Yes, he can have emotions. That's a good thing! Just don't act overemotional or anything.

[Asker]

Nice answer no I mean who is sensitive about you and really cares about you who is also tough and will do whatever it takes to protect you when it hits the fan he understands if your going through something and is there for you not super over emotional who is gonna cry if somebody doesn't like his shirt or hair or something because idgaf lol.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh! Okay, yeah that's fine :) my boyfriend is like that. He's really manly when he needs to be, but when he's with me and his best friends he's very sweet and sensitive.

[Asker]

Hes a keeper :D

[blondebeauty27]

yes they do like sweet sensitive guys...they're the best kind. only immature girls go after "bad boys" until they get bored/heartbroken and come crawling back.

[MilaPohstro]

Yes, it just usually comes down to the really nice, sweet and sensitive guys are quiet or shy. The guy inst going to approach the girl and a lot of us are to shy to approach you so we get no where.

[Anonymous]

I am over thirty and yes, I definitely would choose a sweet, sensitive guy over a cute jerk. As you get older you realize what is really important and that includes how a man treats you.

[TheWeirdGirl]

I love a sweet nice guy, but he has to be masculine at the same time. So, not a p****, but not a jerk. Somewhere in the middle.

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

They claim A, but science has shown B.

[Anonymous]

Yes I do. I want someone who is sweet and romantic

[Asker]

Whats your age if you don't mind beause the girls who say tis are usually older like 30s

[Anonymous]

Always have and always will.

[Asker]

Whats your age if you don't mind me asking? because younger women usually like loud and immature.

[Anonymous]

No I don't. At Least if their always like that

[Asker]

Its unappealing if he's nice to everyone all the time?

[Opinion Owner]

Kind of. Yes

[Asker]

Why? what kind of men do you like if you don't mind answering its OK if you dont.

[Opinion Owner]

Because people take advantage of niceness

[Opinion Owner]

I like alpha males

[Asker]

Im nice but I never let anyone walk all over me.How old are you if you don't mind me asking? and don't alpha males get annoying with their constant cockiness?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm 20:) I like confident guys, not cocky. I'm confident, so I don't want a guy who is insercure and complains a lot

It's more about the whole wearing the pants thing

[Asker]

Yeah I can understand that I'm confident I don't think I complain a lot lol do i? but the whole wearing the pants thing is definitely one of my problems I can wear them sometimes but its like I'm constantly losing weight and can't wear them all the time if that makes sense I like to let her wear the pants sometimes.

[Opinion Owner]

Hahahahahahahahahahah "I'm constantly loosing weight..."

Funny:)

[Asker]

im constantly maintaining..well actually not true I used to exercise and lift consistantly and take suppliments I stopped the suppliments and am losing weight. Are you trying to lose the weight or would like to maintain? because you can buy whey protein bars over the counter to help you keep some of that weight but they add up and can become expensive!

[Opinion Owner]

Lol