Is it normal if a a teacher stares at one of his student's boobs?

[Anonymous]

I'm just wondering because last time I had gym class, I caught my teacher looking at my boobs many times.
At the beginning, when he had to explain something to all the class, he talked looking at everyone, no one especially and then he stared at my boobs, looked away. A few minutes after, he stared again. And after, as he was still talking, he sneaked glances at them, but I had put my hair on them to hide them because I was embarrassed.

Just after, during the class, I was busy and noticed he kept turning around and looked at me as he was talking to other people. After that, he stopped.

We were working in groups so the teacher regularly went to see if we did everything well. He talked to us looking at everyone but it was like he avoided looking at me and he asked questions but even if it was me who talked, he only looked quickly contrary to the others, like if he was avoiding again. What I said wasn't boring at all, I simply answered his questions. But just before he left us for another group, he glanced at my boobs again.

It was weird, I was wearing a top so it naturally showed a little of cleavage but I couldn't do another way and that was discreet. On the contrary there are some girls that dress really provocative in that class, and intentionally.

The teacher is in his twenties, he's a new one.

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So why do you think he avoided looking at me?

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Also, each time he stared at my chest and he was talking to the class, he kinda stopped talking, searching for words. The stares happened at least three times so I suppose if he knew he was going to stare forgetting to say anything to the class, he wouldn't have done it that much

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Well, even a week after, I've caught him again, even though it's obvious he tries to look less.
But it seems like he's just horny (I've caught him checking out my butt and another girl's one), with this class in which there are only girls.

[sammy_31]

I will say it is normal because males will stare your teacher shouldn't be looking at you like that. See I was always a person who said what are you looking at? It defended on how uncomfortable I was as to what tone I used. My eyes do most of the work in situations like that. I give people horrible looks that quickly make them turn the other way. Not to be mean but I do not like to get verbal. If I have to I will and I used to be a potty mouth back then.

[Asker]

That's a good idea :)
I used to do it but, as he is my professor, I didn't think I could do it

[Cutie_Pie_Girl]

Hiya, do you normally wear tops that show cleavage? I bet you just look fantastic and it maybe you teacher has just noticed. I think it's way more sexy when a girl is not over the top when it comes to intentionally wearing tops that show cleavage for teachers. I find that when I wear a more sexy top at school it is noticed more. I don't really wear sexy tops only because my dad will not allow me too

[Asker]

Sometimes I wear that kind of top but only with a printed jacket on or with a check shirt so it covers me.

But that was weird he avoided looking at me after.

[Cutie_Pie_Girl]

I think he is avoid looking at you just because maybe he thought you looked really good and even somewhat sexy. it's only normal for guys to think girls are sexy at times even older guys. Maybe he is also avoiding looking at you because he doesn't want to make you feel uncomfortable.

[Asker]

Oh, I see :)
But why I felt weird was because the few times he stared at my boobs, he kinda stopped talking to the class, like if he was searching his words

[Cutie_Pie_Girl]

are you boobs really nice? may be just a noverbal compiment - I think we read into things too much at times

[Asker]

I often think if I'm not reading into things too much, but that wasn't the case this time. I felt weird that he stopped talking to like this and just stares, otherwise I wouldn't have look away or try to cover my boobs with my hair

I don't know if they're that nice, 32 c and I'm also quite slim

[Cutie_Pie_Girl]

they sound pretty nice to me I'm a small B and would love to be a C! if you want we can talk by message if you want!!

[andreaxo]

Look, it depends if it bothers you. Is it making you uncomfortable and grossed out? In that case, you should say something. Or do you think its fine and you honestly don't mind? I mean, he's young and boys do like to look at boobs. I'm sure he doesn't mean anything harmful. :)

[Asker]

At least, he tried to not look again ;)
Thanks for answering :)

[breastman69]

Are U like crazy top heavy & bigger than all the other girls in U'r class? That may have something to do with his fasanation but still doesent justify it. U need to tell him that he is making U uncomfortabul. Then if he still looks at U'r boobs then U should talk with the princapal about it to get it stoped. Good Luck SweetHeart !!

[Asker]

Not that big... 32C and I'm slim
You think he was fascinated? Life must be hard for him because he is gonna see a lot of women so a lot of boobs.

[breastman69]

Ok so then U say U'r quite Slim , So then U'r C~Cups must stand out Very Nicely on U. That mite be the Attraction he has for looking at them?

[Asker]

Oh, that's it
But even if he is attracted, he doesn't need to stare, I thought only teenagers did this

[breastman69]

O no that's not quite true , did U see my screen name? I'm A True eat sleep & drink BreastMan , So if I see an Awesome set that stand out from all the others I'm gona look pretty hard. Sorry to tell U that.

[Sexualchrist]

Hahaha! He's still young and he can't help looking at da boobies!

From the sounds of it, he tried his best to try and get his head back in the game by avoiding you for a bit, even if he didn't exactly succeed!

He's harmless, he's just young and horny.

[Asker]

Oh, then he avoided looking at me because he didn't want to be caught again?

I thought he just didn't like me, you know some teachers don't like one of their students sometimes. However, he's really nice.

[Sexualchrist]

Yes he didn't want to get caught, he would've been thinking something like "ok she has a nice pair, but she's underaged and I'm her teacher, stop ogleing the boobs, don't even look at her, you'll get fired!"

But then he couldn't help looking again hahaha!

It would be tough being a young male teacher amongst lots of hot teenage girls.

He doesn't not like you, you just distract him lol

[Asker]

Actually, my gym class is full of girls, there's only one guy haha

Yeah, I knew he didn't, I don't overthink that much ;) now I just know what I'm able to do

That's weird though
One day one of my friend was showing cleavage and she has way more boobs than I do, but he didn't avoid her or anything like this

[Sexualchrist]

Maybe you're just hotter than your friend.

Yeah you could totally play games with his mind. That would just be cruel though.

[Asker]

Well, I don't want to do it, don't worry ;)
But, why would it be cruel?

[Sexualchrist]

Because he's not allowed to give in to the temptation even though the temptation is great.

It's Like offering someone their favourite thing and then saying they can't have it.

[Asker]

Wow... I didn't think that was such a thing for guys...

[Asker]

But now, I remember, I think you were right when you said I distract him, he was talking, looking at everyone and at the first moment he looked at my boobs, he was like, searching his words, as he didn't remember what he was talking about. And the other times he stared, too.

[Asker]

He kinda stopped talking, that was weird

[Sexualchrist]

Yeah, you through his mind completely off. He was concentrating on whatever he was talking about and then all of a sudden he looked at your boobs and all that was going through his mind was "hot girl's boobs drool..." and then he realised that was a very wrong thought for him and you probably even saw him look and everyone else did too and he had a slight moment of panic which made him stop talking.

The poor guy lol

[Sexualchrist]

*threw his mind off* even I'm getting distracted by the boobies lol

[Asker]

Oh, I see hahaha
But I don't get why he stared again after the first time he did and noticed he'll have to stare if he looked

Also, you know the moment when he left my group after talking (and didn't pay attention to me), at that precise moment, just before he couldn't see them anymore, he looked from the corner of his eyes at my boobs again so that was intentional I guess

[Sexualchrist]

He just has weak will power. I suppose you'd like to give him the benefit of the doubt, but there's always the possibility he's just a creep.

He certainly has his eye on you.

[Asker]

He 'has his eyes on me'?

[Sexualchrist]

Yeah he finds you attractive.

[YourFutureEx]

No it's not good at all. He's your teacher, he should better know his limits. You felt embarrassment, tell your parents about that. If he's doing this time and again then tell him to stop (politely) & if he persists, report your school principal/head/manager.

[ComDom]

As a guy in my twenties I can probably offer insight. It's biology. It's been that way forever. Whether it's right or wrong is an opinion. If it makes you uncomfortable you should tell someone but it's probably harmless. He might just be curious.

[Asker]

Of course it's harmless since he kinda tried to not look by totally avoiding looking at me

But what I found really weird as when he kind of stopped talking, searching for words when he stared at them
I felt really weird because I knew it was because of me so I tried looking elsewhere

[ComDom]

That probably made you feel pretty awkward. I wouldn't let it bother you though. He was probably drawn to them while trying not to be (for the sake of curiosity or interest). I would take it as a compliment if I were you.

[Asker]

Yeah, that's why I looked away and pretend I didn't notice

Though even after the first stare he knew if he only looked at them he'll have to stare, he stared again, I don't get it

Also when he left our group after talking to us (you know, when he didn't even look at me) he looked directly at my boobs just before he couldn't see them, like from the corner of his eyes
I think that was intentional

Yes, I guess it's a compliment since he didn't do anything else

[Stacyzee]

Well young girls sometimes have womanly bodies.
As long as he doesn't touch you inappropriately or talk to you that way you shouldn't really worry about it.

[Asker]

I think you're right
I doubt he'll try to touch me or talk to me inappropriately since he's my professor, he knows he'll only get problems
But, do you think that's what he wanted to do?

[CincinnatiRedsfan]

Well, I'm in school to be a high school teacher.

If he really is checking out your boobs, this is wrong. But are you 100% sure?

[Asker]

Absolutely, I know I can differentiate when a guy is staring into space or when he's staring at me but not directly at my face ;)

[miserybusiness]

That is not right. He sounds creepy as hell.

This one gym teacher I knew in middle school used to stare at a friend's ass, he eventually exercising in gym as an excuse to grope her. Kicked outta the place for pedophilia.

[Klaatu51]

hoe old are you? if you're under 15-16 then that's nnot a good thing...

[Asker]

I'm 16, I'll be 17 this year

[been_waiting]

Normal doesn't make it ok. Unfortunately a lot of men pretend they have no self control so it's pretty much normal. But not okay.

[hobbitwarlord]

Some times I do this it... I look around the room and find my self in a day dream and happen to be look at some one then snap out of it and there loooking back then I quickly look away lol problicly unententanal daydreams

[Asker]

Have you read the post? That was clearly not daydreaming. Otherwise, he wouldn't have looked again and again.

[Anonymous]

He's in his 20's... basically a young guy. It would honestly be no different with a 40 year old, he'd still be checking you out. That's how we're wired.

[Asker]

I thought checking out and staring were two different things,
Also, there's something I don't get, because the first time he looked at my boobs - it wasn't intentional - he kinda stopped talking, searching for words - but he fortunately looked away. After that he knew if he only looked at them he'll have to stare and that would cause him to stop talking again, though he did it again

That's what I don't get

[Coolguy1928]

It's normal if he's perverted and young like that. If you're annoyed by it, tell him to stop. :\

[Asker]

Well, ok
Thanks for answering :)

[Anonymous]

You're 16, he's 20s... Not too surprising. It sounds like he found you attractive and felt embarrassed about it because 1) he's a teacher, and 2) you are underage.

[Asker]

So that's because he was embarrassed that he was like avoiding even looking at my face?

[Opinion Owner]

Probably.

[Asker]

Though, once, one of my friend who has really bigger boobs than me was showing cleavage and he didn't avoid her, that's weird?

[jackofflies]

I think you should inform your school manager or your parents about it

[Anonymous]

It's not really normal, but shouldn't be a problem, after all he's a man.

[Asker]

but I'm his student, shouldn't he try to not look?

[Opinion Owner]

If I understood you correctly, he tried to not or at least felt ashamed.

[Anonymous]

Looking is normal, staring isn't. That's not cool

[Asker]

That's weird