Wow so I guess you're kinda shy?
You can say that. I just don't have enough experience to actually approach any girl at this point. I hate the other dudes who are just players who try to do anything to get any females attention & at the same time does not take no for an answer. I may have a wild side, but I'm usually careful on what I'm doing so that I would not make a fool out of myself in front of the lovely ladies. I have a strong & weak spot that I use almost every single day. Talking to & approaching the natually beautiful female is like walking unknownly walking into a gameshow alone while people are watching me from above in the balconies.
Aw :( So if you talk to a pretty girl, it must have taken a lot of courage huh?
Most definitely. I would just have to try to open myself up to any girl without my heart bouncing so very fast like a ball. I had some sexual experiences with girls my age in the past, but It was between the ages of 9-13. I had no idea what was happening until a later date in a different year.
Wow. Good for you :) I have had some experiences with shy guys and it's hard!
Your right. Lots of shy guys don't really know what to do or what to say when they see a beautiful girl walking towards them. They shake & have sweat on their foreheads that proves that the shyness is overwhelming them. It happened to me a couple of times before when I recieved a kiss on the cheek by a girl in my middle school class who liked me back in 2003-2004.
Yeah... oh I would totally tell you about a guy who liked me this school year but he was super shy! But it's SO LONG and I'm lazy and I don't want to type it out
You can tell me some of it some other time when your ready. Good thing that you had someone who loved you during that time, because things change overtime.
Well he is a shy person and when I talked to him for the first time, it went quite well and he would make small talk with me about homework or school. And later on when I sat next to him and talked to him more, there were rumors that he liked me. And it was all over social media and on his Ask. fm people were talking about us and our ship name was everywhere. And his friends told me he even changed his bio to our ship name but then he deleted it for some reason. Then in school, his friends would ALWAYS tease him and me when either of us were in close proximity. For example, when I walked into the locker area and he was there as well, his friends would see me and be like "ohhhhhhhhhhh hey it's her! Look!" and they would nudge him. I kind of picked up on it eventually haha. But it went on for a while. Then when I finally decided to ask him if it was a joke or if he really liked me he said that it was a joke :/ Who knows? Then I told him that I didn't like him, but I thought he was
attractive. So after a couple weeks, he asked out another girl because we weren't going anywhere.
Wow. That's one great story about love that I like. Love has their ups and downs. I've never been rejected before but was just hiding myself out from the popular crowd. I'm glad that you had some experience with the love thing, because I just kept myself away from that subject most times.
Haha well according to other people he really did like me but we were in a public place full of people when I asked him if he liked me so they said he probably felt uncomfortable so he didn't reveal his true feelings. Whatever lol, there are a lot of other cute guys. I move on super fast. And people tell me I'm beautiful a lot, and there were rumors that other guys liked me.
That's good news.
I know right :) I'm just over the whole thing now. No one has asked me out or told me themselves that they like me... which is kinda sad.
Sorry to hear about that. People go through this all the time & then that's where some other special person would come alone.
Why do you think no one has asked me out yet? Or at least told me they liked me?
To answer the first part of your question, I would say that they have not asked you out because of those guys thinking that you are too hot & too pretty to be approached. The second part would be that they might have feelings for you but are just too shy to say it to you without messing everything up.
I hope it's true! What if it's because I'm not good looking like people say? Maybe people are lying to me to make me feel better...
That could be a very close possibility. For the most part people would have to say that to you in person in order to know on what they think of you.
Well people say to me that I am beautiful in person. is that what you mean?
Yes of course, that would be really creepy lol. How can I tell if a guy finds me facially attractive?
He'll look in your eyes. Bother talking to you. Joke around/flirt etc..
Well lots of guys look in my eyes while we are talking, but I think it's out of respect. It would be rude not to, don't you think? And guys do chat me up... and there was a guy who winked at me twice in a conversation. Who winks nowadays? lol
It's more about the kind of look he gives, I tend to give off this onewww.mens-hairstyle.com/.../...y-hairstyles-men.jpgAlso pay attention to his body language. If you guys are sitting down and talking is he slightly leaning towards you. Does he engage in physical contact etc...
Um I'm 15. Guys my age don't exactly know how to give that look do they? I think they don't even know how to flirt properly.
Hahaha I had assume the best and think you were 17 :PYeah guys are clumsy at that age lol wait for college to be sure of the signsThe only real tell is body language and if they go out o their way to talk to you or say hi
I'm guessing you have a guy in mind maybe if you told me what he does I could tell you.
Um not particularly, I'm just curious on how to find out if a guy thinks I'm pretty.
So what about your breast were you wondering about previously?
Well I have small breasts, like A cup. And I was approaching a guy that I had never seen before because this was out on the street and when I said hi he turned around and said hi, then glanced really quickly at my boobs. But throughout the rest of the conversation he just looked at my face.
Well if you just met him it's only natural for him to check you out in a certain way but it doesn't mean he likes you at the same time and as you said before it's only natural that you look in your eyes so it's not really easy to tell if a guy likes you off the first meeting.As for having A cups that's not really a problem for guys honestly because a lot of guys actually prefer smalle breast I know I'm one of them so that's it you shouldn't have to feel any problems about that
Wow okay haha :) But you know when you're walking out on the street and you see a gorgeous person and you're like whoa! She's pretty! So how do I know if he thinks that?
Does he smile when you talk, does he seem invested in the conversation. There is a lot more but for a 15 year old it's as clear as it gets lol
Um yeah he did smile a lot during the conversation, and he did seem invested in it. And he winked at me twice. But he's a very handsome person so maybe he's naturally flirty anyway and winks at everyone?
If casually smiling and staying touch with the conversation isn't good enough lol I think the winking made it obvious haha
haha maybe :) What if I told you he was an actor who's not too well known to the public but he's on a TV show?
What... you're going for an actor haha How old is he? Actors are harder because most are naturally charming lol
And no I am not going after an actor, but I saw him out on the street and I HAD to get a selfie with him haha. But after we got a selfie, he continued talking to me instead of shooing me away lol. But he is a very handsome person. And I agree that they are, so thats' why I said he may be winking at everyone.
Haha who is this guy now i'm curious :P That's tough to say lol because he wouldn't exactly shoo away a fan lolLOL I don't know him well enough to say that he doesn't think everyone he talks to haha
Yeah well you wouldn't know who he is :) Not many people know about him. Anyway it doesn't matter. He's gorgeous though and that's why I want to know.
Are you guys ever going to meet again in order for it to actually matter?As far as him liking you…If you're speaking only physically then there's a good chance of him actually liking you but if you actually talking about everything from the conversation it's highly unlikely based on the time that you guys spoke.
Wait what do you mean it's highly unlikely because of what we talk about?
I mean the length of your conversation
Ahhhhh I see...
So let me try to interpret what you said: It is very likely that he thinks I am pretty, but it doesn't mean he likes me as a person because we haven't talked enough.
Exactly! I'm guessing you guys spoke for less than 10-20 minutes since he was taking a picture with you and making small talk and that's not enough time for someone to make a significant evaluation of you.
I agree haha :) What if I told you he is married? He got married a year ago but his wife wasn't with him when I saw him. So I don't know if he was flirting because his wife wasn't there but it's still wrong if you're married I guess. But let me try to describe our conversation in detail... I said hi, he turned around, said hi, glanced down there for a quick second, then he focused on my face for the rest of the conversation. He was super friendly, he was smiling, he seemed very engaged, he asked me questions about myself (although they weren't deep questions), and he winked at me twice. So... yeah! The whole thing was probably 3 minutes long lol.
Hahaha this is the kind of thing you need to tell me way before hand lol if he's married then he was just being nice and just being playful with the winking he engaged in the conversation because you were one of his fans but overall I can't say that he was ever attracted to you because you see the guys married. As for him checking you out by looking at you up-and-down and what you saw as him looking at your boobs is just like anything that any guy would ever do. Someone else comes up that you never met, you look up entire body size them up. it's a natural instinct.And that's without considering the fact that you're under age I'm not sure exactly how old you are but I'm guessing you might look relatively young.
Yeah you are probably right. Well he's gorgeous haha and he's very talented. It's not fair though because not only is he beautiful, but he has talent. Yet he isn't very well known to the public.
Yeah I know it's weird now But just give it a little bit of time and soon enough you'll find that guy that you not only find attractive But also talented and ambitious and everything else that you're looking for. You're young and you have a whole life ahead of you so don't let one guy bring you down.
Well maybe you misunderstood me... I'm not saying that it's not fair that he doesn't like me, I'm saying it's not fair that he isn't well known because he has so much talent.
Oh then you're right I did misunderstand lol but yeah I mean if he's really as talented as you say eventually he'll be able to be seen in the public like in the way he was meant to be :)
Yeah I think he will be :) Thanks for the help!
No problem, anytime! :)
Thanks for mH! :D
You're so welcome ;)
So what are signs to tell that he thinks I'm facially attractive?
don't know dude, I've never noticed a guy lookin' at me 'cause he likes my face. Sorry.
Aw :( Okay sorry to hear that.
Thank you haha :) Well people say I'm pretty/beautiful but not really hot. It's very rare that I am called hot.
@HopefulDreamer are you serious?
Yes I am
First thing I saw in your pic were your boobs. 🙈 but I need a face.
lol... yeah you're right. What if I have small boobs?
I have a lot of friends who have nice petite boobs... they always get checked out and there are some guys who don't all think that bigger is better...
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Yeah I guess so...
Umm people say I have a gorgeous face but I am rarely called hot. I have small boobs and a small butt.
haha yeah you are right!
Um I don't have big boobs, I have small ones. And no I don't put them out because I really have nothing to put out. And people tell me I have a gorgeous face but since I don't have great curves, I am not called hot. Instead I am called pretty/beautiful.
haha I know, thanks
haha yeah I know! But are boobs the first thing you notice?
they are not the first thing i notice. i love the whole package, so see legs hips, butt, tummy, boobs and face all together.
Yeah that's nice :) What if she has a nice face and boobs?
If she has a nice face and boobs, odds are good that i will get a hard-on
Wow... good to know.
I love a nice face and boobs. And I am always horny. I am hornier now than I have ever been.
I have been told I have a gorgeous face but I rarely get called hot.
maybe your attitude or maybe your dealing.. I'm just telling you because I want you to be better not to vilify in you.. regards
No no I mean to say that I don't think I am hot. People say I am pretty/beautiful all the time, but not hot.
ahaa.. sorry it was my fault.. I didn't understand correctly. suffice you that you're pretty/beautiful/gorgeous.. nice to meet you by the way..
Yeah oyou too :)
And MAYBE you should go back to English class..
Haha well I do not have exceptional breasts... I have small boobs.
Yeah that would be bad
Wow you have a weird taste... sorry to burst your bubble but I am a typical preppy girl.
Lol what's up friend XD
I know I get it! I have small boobs so whenever a guy looks I'm like is there a stain on my shirt?
@spencer97 hello young one :)@Asker yes! I have small boobs and I always am confused when I catch guys looking. I always wonder what they're thinking.
Haha I definitely understand :)
Oh Buchita. I always oggle your boobs and I can't even see you. ;-)
@Red_Arrow you can't see them either lol I only show my face in the pic.
That's why I said I can't even see you. ;-)
Oh wow... that's not an answer that most guys would say
haha so how do I find out if a guy thinks I'm facially attractive?
Well after investigating U'r Breasts , I will asseretain thr rest of U'r body Sweety & if I'm chatting U up then U can feel confadent that Ilike all the rest of U aswell !!!
Would you care to look at my face, not just my body?
Of course I would !!! I do give all of U'r body A good checking out & if I like all I see then I would try to engague U in some conversation so I will be able to look at U some more sweetheart.
haha lol... sounds logical. I can definitely think of a time when I thought this guy liked me and then he told me that... he was gay. And I was heartbroken lol
Wow that had to suck , sorry it dident work out for ya. So when do I get to see A pic of ya? U can email me if U like.
No I would rather not, thank you very much :) I appreciate the offer though.
Just hoping to be able to chech out U'r figure sweetheart , U have me curious now.
No I think I'll pass. I'm a cautious person on the Internet.
That's A good idea.
Yeah I get it...
haha yeah you're right!!!
haha yeah well I'm glad you have that mentality.
Wow... I do not have big boobs, they are really small, but people say I have a gorgeous face.
Haha well I don't have big boobs but people say I have a nice face
That's good. Having an attractive face is far more important than the size of your chest.
Good good :)
haha yeah I kinda do it too
haha yeah I know
So how would I know if he thinks I'm pretty, not hot (usually hot means I have a good body but not necessarily a nice face)?
okay haha well my boobs weren't showing that much anyway...
haha yeah. Don't you think Asian girls' faces can be really pretty though?
Some Asians are, some are not. But compared with White girls, no race is more attractive on a general/collective level, and I the top 10 beautiful female faces in my real life (college girls, for example) and in my whole life (college girls and actresses, for example) are all White.
Where do you live? There doesn't seem to be much diversity in your area.
I am from East Asia, not live in the United States.So I know Asia, and my area does not lack diversity.by the way, I am a banana, means having yellow skin but white heart.TBH, although I pay attention to girls' face, it is not a big deal for me. What matters most is whether they are culturally Western or White or not.If a non-White girl is culturally Westernized or Whitened, it is possible for me to date her. Otherwise, it is not.
Ahhhhhh I see now. In America white guys love Asians lol. Anyway good to know :)
I am Asian but I am a total white girl at heart because I have lived in America my whole life.
(I wanted to say "now live in the United States", sorry for the fat finger.)There are also White males loving White females and White females loving Asian males. It applies to all races. And Whites, both males and females, have lowest interracial marriage rate, so "white girls love Asians" is just an untrue overgeneralization.
No no I said white GUYS like Asians.
I know what you mean! What I want to say is there are also White girls loving Asian guys, but Whites love Whites most.Those Asian-loving Whites are just of a small fraction. (But that number is still noticeable since White has largest population in the USA)
Oh I see haha. Thanks for the info :) I guess it's kinda the same with Asians... if you were a white person in China where most people are Chinese, the white person is a minority and may be fetishized I guess.
Only if you are a White; if you are a short Latino or a black, that can be opposite, maybe get a hell-no answer. And you even do not have to be a White, you only have to be an upper-middle class family-origining student studying abroad, such as in the USA, like me. If I go back, it is easy to get a lot girls' ass.
Wait are you saying you lived in China?
Yup, but I wanna stay in the US.
Wow! Awesome :) Are you chinese?
Yep, I am.
That's cool. Thanks for the help!
Are you that Asian guy who do self hating
@kangy he's a self hating Asian person? That's sad.
what the hell...
haha that's good :)
lol I think that makes sense.
Yes that is true... very true.
I can't message you because you only accept messages from followings or something
Yeah I think most guys are hardwired to notice. I have small boobs though
lol why "oh my"?
Cos we aren't suppose to look at the bits?I don't knowwwwwwwI'm conflicted.
Wow must be hard to be a man lol.
If a man's soft he ain't a man :3Luckily science has answer to the soft man
Aw :) Are you that soft man?
Don't question my MANHOOD!Also NO!
I am HARD AS A ROCK!https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X9s_CQx4ylUTho not now cos that would be weird.
Whoa I was just kidding! I'm not saying you're not a man. Because clearly you are.
I was just kidding LOL Come on , why so serious all the time?
Not a fan of ACDC but okay!
Emotions don't come across as clear over the internet than they do in real life.
*judges you internally Okie dokie lol
hahaha lol you can judge all you want. I don't care.
That is true haha!
What the heck that sounds crazy lol. But um mine are small so I can't tuck them into my pants
ok I don't know how this ended up on this page but it was supposed to be a reply to this girl. phone spazzed out and it came here.
... you're mean.
Oh oh oops I just got your reply about sending it to the wrong person. Okay :) But still that's a little mean...
she was saying way worse lol i dont put up with that.
But I have small boobs... why would a guy want to look at small boobs?
I do. I love all boobs, big, medium or small. Some guys prefer them small. Look honey, I am not saying he doesn't find you. attractive, he probably does, I am just saying as a rule of thumb if we are a nice set of boobs that we like, we look at them.
haha okay :) Thanks!
No problem, hope I helped.
Yes haha :)
I have small boobs lol.
They're still boobs...
But I thought guys liked big boobs
I actually like smaller boobs but whatever... Every guy has his own preference. My point was that we just notice them if they are in our face. Girls do all sorts of things to get attention. This girl the other day (a dancer) did some weird bending thingy and looked at me to catch my eye. I laughed but heh it did get my attention. lol
She has small boobs by the way to.
Well I was wearing a button up shirt that minimized all cleavage but he still looked!
Yeah makes sense
what the heck
yeah I know
Yeah I guess I have... you're right haha. I never though of it that way.
hahahaha well luckily he found my eyes
@ihatethiswebsite ; lol
Yeah I would agree.
Good to know :)
lol no thats not what I meant.
Well first he looked at my boobs for a quick second then when we started talking he focused on my face.
Did you expect him to talk to your boobs?
No no lol I barely have any. I was actually confused as to why he even looked because they are small.
Force of habit maybe? Were they revealing? Were you offended? If so i apologize on his behalf. Do you like him?
Um no I was not showing cleavage at all lol. It was a button-up shirt. And no I wasn't offended I was just a little confused. And yeah he's gorgeous!
Looking at boobs means nothing at all. If he stares at you from across the room than he either finds you intriguing or attractive.
Intriguing? As in he he's curious about me?
Why would someone be curious about someone else?
They look weird, they look familiar, they're doing something interesting.
Well all I know is that sometimes guys will look at me when I answer a question in class lol.
Just post a rate me question on GaG
No no... I'll skip that. I'm not totally confident in my appearance but people (mostly strangers) have told me I'm beautiful. And there were rumors that 3 guys liked me this school year. Guys chat me up sometimes but most either don't talk to me at all and seem not to pay me any attention or during class they will stare at me. I don't know since no one has asked me out or told me they liked me, but according to all their friends they liked me.
haha you just can't help it huh?
Yeah well what if she had nice boobs and face?
That would be awesome for her lol.
lol haha I know
hahaha yeah I know
Well it's true but it's also not true. It doesn't apply to everyone.
haha well I do not have big boobs myself
haha you're not ugly :)
lol thanks =))