TALL MEN u have some explaining to do. How in 2015 so many tall men still going for skinny short girls? Y are petite women so attractive to u MEN? (Page 2)
Your whole "are you tall thing is ridiculous," things like height shouldn't matter too much to someone, the inside counts too. I've had plenty of tall girls like me, we poke fun at eachother all the time" oh you're so short,"and "oh you're so tall." Doesn't mean we can't have feelings for eachother! Don't even bother asking if I'm tall, I'm 5' f*cking 5".
Have you considered a short guy might not care how tall you are? Actually it doesn't matter if you're a short or tall man, a good man is a good man!!! The mindset you have makes you feel like your not being treated like a woman, maybe someone thinks you're a f*icking goddess somewhere, who's smaller than you! Being treated like a woman shouldn't matter, as long as you're treated as a human being!!!
So you don't like shorter men but tall men dating short women have some explaining to do?
"Tall men need to expand there (spelling error btw) likes". You should take your own advice.
"All women r beautiful!". But it seems to you not all men are beautiful.
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All men r beautiful. I just dont want to date short men. If I was a short girl I would date short men. But Im not short n Im curvy. I want to feel feminine too.
you're being a hypocrite by complaining about tall guys having "preferences" while you refuse to go out with men that are shorter than you. Stop obsessing over height. If two people love each other they should be together, even if the guy is shorter than the girl, without having to worry about others judging them because of dumb things like height.
So you're angry at your preference for pursuing his own preferences? here's an idea, since you want people to date people outside their dating preferences, why don't you go date a short guy? I know it isn't your preference, but that's the point.
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Because I want to feel like a woman! There I said it. When I stand next to a short guy I feel like Im his mother. I want to be able to wear heels n not be so tall over him! If short men date short women I don't care but when tall men date short girls it gets me annoyed sometimes because he could be with a tall woman!
Yeah, he 'could' be with a tall woman. But he chooses not to. Maybe that should tell you something. You have no right to demand him to date outside his preferences, especially when you're unwilling to. I don't particularly care what your reason is for not wanting short guys, he probably has a reason he doesn't want to date bigger women. Don't be such a hypocrite.
All men r beautiful but I don't want to date a short man because I like wearing heels. I have curvy legs n they look great in heels! If I date a short a man, I can't wear them because I will look to large compare to him.
if your bmi is over 26 as a female, you're overweight, not curvy... when i here a girl calling another skinny etc ... they come off bnutthurt and overweight/obese. healthy is attractive whether you have an extra few poounds or lean.
Hey you tall women also have some explaining to do. Why won't you give any of the short guys any attention. Instead of narrowing your dating pool that only consist of 15% of the worlds population, maybe you should try expanding your horizon and include the 80% of men who are between the 5'6 - 5'11 range.
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U dont get it. I want to be able to date a man n still wear heels without looking to tall.
I'm sorry but that is a stupid reason. You're meaning to tell me that you would deny a good short man with a nice personality and who treats you good, just so you can continue to wear heels. I didn't know love was so shallow, that a women will choose a pair of shoes over a good guy. If this is the mentality that your have, then you are going to live a very lonely life.
But anyway you can't fault tall men for having a preference, when your preference is just as superficial as theirs. You want tall men to like all women regardless of size, but you refuse to do the same for guys. How much of a hypocrite can you be.
U don't understand. I am not short n Im not skinny. I get made fun of all the time. Everyone tells me I'm too big. I won't say my name, but it starts with a G. It almost rhymes with Godzilla. N everyone calls me Godzilla. I used to get bullied all the time for it. I want to feel like a woman n be feminine too.
I'm sorry for your troubled past, but whatever issue you have against tall men dating shorter women, is due to your own insecurities about your own image, which you really need to work on before trying to get into a relationship. You do not need a tall man in order to validate the fact that you're a female, the same way I don't need a girl whose 5'1 to validate my manhood.
Being tall or big doesn't prevent you from looking feminine. Jordin Sparks is 6ft tall, and she's pretty curvy, but she doesn't look less of a female because of her height. Why? because she carry herself in a feminine manner and she wear feminine clothing, and guess what it doesn't devalue her female features at all.
Moral of the story is, don't let others define you, because when you let them do that, then you begin to believe it. So those people who bully you, tell them to kiss your ass, because at the end of the day its your life, and you don't want to live your life based on what others perceive you as.
Because I am not thin either. So I already look bigger then other people. I have amazing curvy legs that look better when I wear heels. If I go for a short man I will look to big n tall. I don't want that. I want to feel like a woman!
I'm 5'7 and haven't had much of a problem tbh... I doubt it's as many guys as you seem to think who have a obsession with it. I've never had a guy reject me because of my height.
Thanks but I've been rejected many times now so I feel like I can relate. I've been rejecting over many things but height has never been one. I just wanted to point that out :)
The difference is she isn't satisfied with the guys that will give her a chance. While there are plenty of guys that would be fine with her height, she doesn't want those guys. She has unrealistic standards. There are very few men alive that would meet her standards. The average guy is 5'10. The taller she goes from there the fewer percentage of men will meet her height requirements. I am sure she also has other requirements such as that she wants a guy around her age, lives in her area, and is single. Over all, it leaves very few men for her to choose from. This is the source of her frustration.
Alright I get it but then it's on her if she unrealistic expectations. I just want a guy my height or taller really. The guy I'm semi crushing on right now is probably my height or even shorter. I've only walked past him a few times and talked to him once so I can't be too sure as I haven't been super close to him but yeah. One needs to be realistic and realize there's more to a person than their height.
This is so not true!!! I have met so many people that prefer a tall girl then a short and cute one. Tall women are the ones that are the models and ones that guys idolize. All clothes stores are making clothes to fit for tall girls. I still have to shop at the kids department. Also, no guy ever finds you sexy.. EVER guys are just like you're so cute and little, even though I do have curves and a grown up face! When I was in high school my senior year guys thought I was too young to even go to the school or that I was a freshman! Sorry I didn't mean to rant but I would LOVE to be tall!
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You a bit of a hypocrite. You have a problem because tall guys date who they like, but you don't like to date short guys.
You dont like short men. and he likes shorter girls. What dont you understand?
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I want to feel like a woman! I don't want to look like Im his mother. I want to wear heels n not have to worry about appearing larger then I am. If short men date short women I don't care. But tall men seem to only date short girls n it doesn't make sense. Y do they need the girl to be so much shorter?
Everybody has their preferences. I'm a very tall but skinny girl who used to feel the same way. There are guys out there who do like tall women who aren't a size 0. They're just not that easy to find.
Why do you expect the tall men to compromise their preferences when you won't compromise your own? Do you feel your preferences are more important than his?
hard one to figure out but there's guys out there who are tall and have a tall girlfriend. But it's Def not something to get hyped up about. Guys wanna feel like the blanket to a short girl, the protector. I guess.
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Your whole "are you tall thing is ridiculous," things like height shouldn't matter too much to someone, the inside counts too. I've had plenty of tall girls like me, we poke fun at eachother all the time" oh you're so short,"and "oh you're so tall." Doesn't mean we can't have feelings for eachother! Don't even bother asking if I'm tall, I'm 5' f*cking 5".
Have you considered a short guy might not care how tall you are? Actually it doesn't matter if you're a short or tall man, a good man is a good man!!! The mindset you have makes you feel like your not being treated like a woman, maybe someone thinks you're a f*icking goddess somewhere, who's smaller than you! Being treated like a woman shouldn't matter, as long as you're treated as a human being!!!
So you don't like shorter men but tall men dating short women have some explaining to do?
"Tall men need to expand there (spelling error btw) likes". You should take your own advice.
"All women r beautiful!". But it seems to you not all men are beautiful.
All men r beautiful. I just dont want to date short men. If I was a short girl I would date short men. But Im not short n Im curvy. I want to feel feminine too.
Why does it take you being with a tall man for you to feel feminine. Tall women are just as feminine as short women. Are you not secure with yourself?
" "All women r beautiful!". But it seems to you not all men are beautiful. "
If you look a little closer at society, you'll start seeing this idea everywhere. And you'll never be able to unsee it.
you're being a hypocrite by complaining about tall guys having "preferences" while you refuse to go out with men that are shorter than you. Stop obsessing over height. If two people love each other they should be together, even if the guy is shorter than the girl, without having to worry about others judging them because of dumb things like height.
I am 6'2" and my ideal girl is 5'0, 100lbs.
I don't owe you any further explanation.
Y? Ur already taller then most women. Y do u need such a short skinny girl?
Because that's my ideal. Deal with it.
Ur very rude. Stay with ur short women.
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So you're angry at your preference for pursuing his own preferences? here's an idea, since you want people to date people outside their dating preferences, why don't you go date a short guy? I know it isn't your preference, but that's the point.
Because I want to feel like a woman! There I said it. When I stand next to a short guy I feel like Im his mother. I want to be able to wear heels n not be so tall over him! If short men date short women I don't care but when tall men date short girls it gets me annoyed sometimes because he could be with a tall woman!
Yeah, he 'could' be with a tall woman. But he chooses not to. Maybe that should tell you something. You have no right to demand him to date outside his preferences, especially when you're unwilling to. I don't particularly care what your reason is for not wanting short guys, he probably has a reason he doesn't want to date bigger women. Don't be such a hypocrite.
Expand your preferences! All men are beautiful!
All men r beautiful but I don't want to date a short man because I like wearing heels. I have curvy legs n they look great in heels! If I date a short a man, I can't wear them because I will look to large compare to him.
I like when people give me free money, you don't always get what you like just because you like it. Get over your weird obsession with high heels.
if your bmi is over 26 as a female, you're overweight, not curvy... when i here a girl calling another skinny etc ... they come off bnutthurt and overweight/obese. healthy is attractive whether you have an extra few poounds or lean.
I am 6'4 and to be honest i have a weaknspot for shortgirls they are so adorable and cute i can't control i just love shorties
Y? Do u know how insecure tall girls feel? Everyone says being tall isn't feminine. N it hurts. I want to feel like a woman too.
i wouldn't mind a hot tall girl though if she has a pretty face and a normal bmi then why the hell no
Hey you tall women also have some explaining to do. Why won't you give any of the short guys any attention. Instead of narrowing your dating pool that only consist of 15% of the worlds population, maybe you should try expanding your horizon and include the 80% of men who are between the 5'6 - 5'11 range.
U dont get it. I want to be able to date a man n still wear heels without looking to tall.
NO you dont get it. You are mad at someone for wanting to date short girls BUT YOU dont want to date short guys. Is the same thing lol.
EXACTLY the same thing. She's just a hypocrite.
I'm sorry but that is a stupid reason. You're meaning to tell me that you would deny a good short man with a nice personality and who treats you good, just so you can continue to wear heels. I didn't know love was so shallow, that a women will choose a pair of shoes over a good guy. If this is the mentality that your have, then you are going to live a very lonely life.
But anyway you can't fault tall men for having a preference, when your preference is just as superficial as theirs. You want tall men to like all women regardless of size, but you refuse to do the same for guys. How much of a hypocrite can you be.
U don't understand. I am not short n Im not skinny. I get made fun of all the time. Everyone tells me I'm too big. I won't say my name, but it starts with a G. It almost rhymes with Godzilla. N everyone calls me Godzilla. I used to get bullied all the time for it. I want to feel like a woman n be feminine too.
I'm sorry for your troubled past, but whatever issue you have against tall men dating shorter women, is due to your own insecurities about your own image, which you really need to work on before trying to get into a relationship. You do not need a tall man in order to validate the fact that you're a female, the same way I don't need a girl whose 5'1 to validate my manhood.
Being tall or big doesn't prevent you from looking feminine. Jordin Sparks is 6ft tall, and she's pretty curvy, but she doesn't look less of a female because of her height. Why? because she carry herself in a feminine manner and she wear feminine clothing, and guess what it doesn't devalue her female features at all.
Moral of the story is, don't let others define you, because when you let them do that, then you begin to believe it. So those people who bully you, tell them to kiss your ass, because at the end of the day its your life, and you don't want to live your life based on what others perceive you as.
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I'm liking the two downvotes on this comment. Entitlement mentality much?
You can't complain about tall men's preferences when you're obviously not interested in short men either.
It makes more sense tho. If a short man dates a short girl its fine because there both short. I want to be able to wear heels without looking to tall.
No it's a double standard. You said you love your height, why would you be afraid to look "too tall"?
Because I am not thin either. So I already look bigger then other people. I have amazing curvy legs that look better when I wear heels. If I go for a short man I will look to big n tall. I don't want that. I want to feel like a woman!
Damn you're insecure
I'm 5'7 and haven't had much of a problem tbh... I doubt it's as many guys as you seem to think who have a obsession with it. I've never had a guy reject me because of my height.
said the hot chick lol
Thanks but I've been rejected many times now so I feel like I can relate. I've been rejecting over many things but height has never been one. I just wanted to point that out :)
The difference is she isn't satisfied with the guys that will give her a chance. While there are plenty of guys that would be fine with her height, she doesn't want those guys. She has unrealistic standards. There are very few men alive that would meet her standards. The average guy is 5'10. The taller she goes from there the fewer percentage of men will meet her height requirements. I am sure she also has other requirements such as that she wants a guy around her age, lives in her area, and is single. Over all, it leaves very few men for her to choose from. This is the source of her frustration.
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Alright I get it but then it's on her if she unrealistic expectations. I just want a guy my height or taller really. The guy I'm semi crushing on right now is probably my height or even shorter. I've only walked past him a few times and talked to him once so I can't be too sure as I haven't been super close to him but yeah. One needs to be realistic and realize there's more to a person than their height.
This is so not true!!! I have met so many people that prefer a tall girl then a short and cute one. Tall women are the ones that are the models and ones that guys idolize. All clothes stores are making clothes to fit for tall girls. I still have to shop at the kids department. Also, no guy ever finds you sexy.. EVER guys are just like you're so cute and little, even though I do have curves and a grown up face! When I was in high school my senior year guys thought I was too young to even go to the school or that I was a freshman! Sorry I didn't mean to rant but I would LOVE to be tall!
You a bit of a hypocrite. You have a problem because tall guys date who they like, but you don't like to date short guys.
Spot on !
I GO FOR THE ONES THAT DON'T CRY 96 TEARS ABOUT MY BURRITO PARLOR
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R7uC5m-IRnsLol you're saying tall men must expand their "likes" yet you won't even consider dating a shorter man.
You dont like short men. and he likes shorter girls. What dont you understand?
I want to feel like a woman! I don't want to look like Im his mother. I want to wear heels n not have to worry about appearing larger then I am. If short men date short women I don't care. But tall men seem to only date short girls n it doesn't make sense. Y do they need the girl to be so much shorter?
Why do you need the man to be so big to feel like a woman? Maybe he needs a woman to be small to feel like a man.
@tyber1 but he's already taller than me. Maybe its only by a few inches but he's taller. Y does he need to be a hole foot taller then the girl?
Must make him feel really manly, whatever the reason he doesn't owe you an explanation.
Everybody has their preferences. I'm a very tall but skinny girl who used to feel the same way. There are guys out there who do like tall women who aren't a size 0. They're just not that easy to find.
Why do you expect the tall men to compromise their preferences when you won't compromise your own? Do you feel your preferences are more important than his?
hard one to figure out but there's guys out there who are tall and have a tall girlfriend. But it's Def not something to get hyped up about. Guys wanna feel like the blanket to a short girl, the protector. I guess.
You're being a hypocrite here- you're allowed to have height preferences but guys can't?
Tons of guys date tall and chubby girls by the way